Thread 33879492

>F 18
(Not larping)

This is my first week on 4chan but I think I might have daddy issues?

My dad died when I was little and I dont really remember him, only from my mom's stories. Everytime I see a happy daughter and father on any platform it imidietly makes me cry

I always find comfort in older men (not in sexual way, just fatherly way) In this board there are girls too so idk if its normal or not. I tried to stop feeling this way but its just no use

>>33879492 (OP)
im sorry for you. i think everyone deserves loving parents.

>>33879502
Thx anon. I always though that I dont need them but maybe I do

>>33879492 (OP)
>This is my first week on 4chan
there is still time to leave

>>33879492 (OP)
That's normal. It's not normal if you start having sex with every older guy you meet. Guys your age also fantasize about older women who would mommy them

>>33879492 (OP)
>>F 18
>(Not larping)

Yes, you are. Go home troon.

>>33879597
I dont want to have sex. Im not a guy. This isnt "post ur dick to enter" website, everyone can enter

>>33879620
Im cis dumbass why are people here such a assholes

>>33879623
are you stupid or something? Learn to read, before you get testy or just fuck off if you get butthurt instantly.

>>33879626
Word of advice: you don’t HAVE to reply to every post. That guys is a troll, the kind of person you ignore on 4chan unless you come here specifically to get in slap fights with people. People will say anything here just to keep you replying to them.
>>33879492 (OP)
You’re certainly not alone in dealing with this, and you’re very young. You can learn to cope with these issues.
Don’t let your desire for a father figure keep you in any bad relationships with men for any longer than necessary.

>>33879626
Post a pic of your vagina with a timestamp then

>>33879665
I was never in a relationship with men and desu im not sure if I wanna because men are god awful? Thank your for advice

>>33879675
>men are god awful?
>Thank your for advice
lol, I’m awful but give good advice, apparently.
Easier said than done, but try not to see men as a monolith. We aren’t all misogynists. If men your age (boys) are being shitty, that definitely doesn’t reflect on us as a whole. Men who creep on teenagers also don’t reflect the majority.

>>33879675
Hope you follow his advice and try not to cope by turning into a misandrist. Doesn't work well with incels and them being misogynists.

I'm going to ask out an 18 year old today I hope it goes well.

18 year olds are mentally ill lol

>>33879760
Their brains aren’t done cooking yet. I do not miss being 18

>>33879760
>>33879765
But this one is really kind and pretty and showers me with attention.

>>33879767
How old are you?

>>33879773
23
I'm a uni student whose taken a bit long to graduate.

>>33879780
Not the worst age gap.

>>33879806
My last gf was around her age so I'm scared my family is gonna think I have a freshman fetish.

idk just add to it. I'm sure there are other things that you can do to make yourself cry about things. Think about moms and children. If you want good children, you're going to have to take an objective stance on your daddy issues like deal with them in some way of course but anyone with issues needs to try not to let them out I mean sometimes letting a little out helps get some attention but try not to let your issue ruin the rest of everything, try to see everything else as a thing to care about and don't let this thing destroy other things

>>33879808
You’re starting to push it, for sure. If you were 25 I’d be a little judgy, probably.
But people can be in different stages of life at different ages during young adulthood, and any age gap pretty much doesn’t matter anymore once the youngest party is 25-30 imo.

>>33879492 (OP)
It's normal, but you're seeking one type of intimacy that it's impossible for anyone to give you. Guys will always try to go after your pants, it's normal and expected of them to do so, see them firstmost as this, and if you find a guy willing to commit he may also give you the dad-like intimacy you look for, but don't expect men to restrain sexual advances towards you, and don't resent them for not being the father you're looking for. You choose your relationships, have a clear mind of what you want from them and what others are offering.

>>33879626
The saying was "lurk a month before posting", this place is known as the asshole of the internet for good reason, everyone WILL be mean, racist etc here, the solace is that they can't reach you (without effort), and you don't give them tools to reach you either, that is feeding the trolls, asking stupid questions, not reading the mood, posting personal information etc.

>>33879626
>why are people here such a assholes
Leave now and never return.

>>33879492 (OP)
i'm a guy but my dad died when i was little too. i never cared though and it never affected me. if anything i'm glad i don't have a father since he'd probably be a fucking annoying retard anyway. my mom's alive but she's one of the most retarded people i've ever met and manipulative as they come. no idea why i made this post.