>>33883859 (OP)
There were men and women who were born, lived, and died lonely and abandoned. What you did mattered little, you don't live for stacy, she does not have to control your life.
With that said, if your porpose is to please women, you'll never be happy since something bigger will always come up.
There is a way to happyness if you humble yourself, and pretty much only the love for God can trimph over this limmerance - Look up to nuns, insignificant, poor women who lived in cloisters, who never got to engage in lust, and are still known to us 100 or 1000 years later like Hildegard von Bingen or Therese of Lisieux.