Thread 33885514

So apparently women think being in a relationship is going to make them miserable. That's what one of them told me when I asked them why they don't want a relationship.

How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?

she's right. you should give up

>>33885514 (OP)
they don't. they think being in a relationship WITH YOU would make them miserable. any time you are confused about a weird statement they are making about relationships or intimacy, just add WITH YOU to the end and you'll figure it out. there is nothing you can do. move on

>>33885534
>WITH YOU
They don't even know me. How the fuck would they know?

>>33885514 (OP)
thats because women sabotage each other. they make other women believe that so they are single and miserable and think being in a relationship is the real source of unhappiness

>>33885514 (OP)
So you're forming your opinion on what entire half of the population thinks based on what a single person told you

>>33885550
They know you enough to know that you're putting yourself into other people's affairs, asking why they don't want to be in a relationship.

>>33885572
Are you trolling me?

>>33885578
I don't even know what to say to this.

>>33885578
That's literally what you said, man.

>>33885589
>>33885593
Yeah, you're trolling me. I'm putting you on ignore. Not taking your shit bait.

>>33885514 (OP)
>I talked to one girl and she said something, why are ALL WOMEN LIKE THIS?
The problem is you're retarded.

>>33885552
This is what I'm starting to believe. They see other women unhappy and so they think they'll have the same experience.

I once had the misfortune to work with a man as annoying as op. He kept trying to ask me questions that sound like they're from some self improvement book. "What would you do if you won the lottery" etc. He ignored when I signaled him that I wasn't interested in talking, tried to get me to play a stupid video game with him and showed me pictures he took of food when it was clear he doesn't know how to cook. If I won the lottery I'd stop going to work just to avoid coworkers like him. Thankfully he quit pretty early on.

I'm happily married now.

>>33885696
Your shit bait is too obvious, troll.

>>33885514 (OP)
do you want those types of women? women that think this probably get all their opinions from instagram or tiktok. just get a normal girl that only cares about makeup and baking or whatever

>>33886552
>only cares about makeup and baking
Is that what they call the trad wife?

>>33885603
Ho wthe fuck does this question even come up in a conversation?
If I was a girl and some guy started asking me pointed questions, I'd assume hes olgiing a relationship with me. Which is absolutely weird on a lot of levels.

>>33886644
A chad wife?

>>33889052
A trad wife.

>>33885514 (OP)
>How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?
by demonstrating that you won't make them miserable, dumbass
it's annoying to deal with but yeah, the solution should be obvious

>>33890452
I'm not sure if you're aware of this, probably not because you're a child, but you can't force people to date you. That's not how the world works, honey.

>>33885550
You're likely physically ugly. Women hate being in relationships with ugly men.

>>33891551
This was chat. They hadn't even seen my face.

>>33885514 (OP)
Just don't put women in first place, or tenth place, or on the list at all. And you'll see that your satisfaction with life attracts women like moths to a flame.

>>33885514 (OP)
This is what happens when she's burned too through many cocks. She loses her ability to pair bond, and your neediness is only going to result in conflict.

I'm gonna tell you like it is. The average man makes women miserable for a multitude of reasons. Main ones being that they're lazy mommas boys who want to be coddled, they're clingy and obnoxious, or they don't give a fuck about the women they're with outside of the sex. If you want a girlfriend you need to actually befriend girls so they can get to know your true character. If you're independent, well spoken, educated, and have your shit together, then youre fine.

Very few women have ever been in a relationship that improved their life in any way. If you can change that, then you have a chance.

>>33892144
>Very few women have ever been in a relationship that improved their life in any way.
Are you fucking kidding me? Really? That's crazy if that's true. That's wild.

>>33892228
not trying to rage bait here or anything. honestly, this is good news for men because with minimal self improvement they can be in the top 1% kek. so many men are just obsessed with humiliating their girlfriends and treating them like mothers. i really don't know what it's about. i think it's a masculinity thing.

>>33885514 (OP)
They say all sorts of shit but are unable to implement due to lack of self control. If a guy she liked wanted her she’d date him. No guys she’s into are talking to her which means she’s a failure of a woman, sorry girlie.

wanna know why no one is dating? because you all fucking suck. every last one of you. gender, race, sexual preference all mean jack shit. it's because you're all schizo fucks who have demoralization propaganda assaulting you from all sides every waking moment. people like this cannot find true common ground. it's that simple. you all fucking suck.

>>33892228
>Really?
Lol no. Why would you take relationship advice from KHV autists?

>>33892707
kek I dunno

>>33885514 (OP)
>don't want to be in a relationship at all
>not ready for a relationship
>incompatible because [insert random arbitrary reason unrelated to you]

kek. for all incels, virgins and unexperienced men out there: when a woman says this, this means she's not attracted to you, period.

>before they even meet me
don't worry, when a man who has the looks and the game required comes along, she'll change her mind

>>33893853
cool story bro

>>33893853
>with you with you blarg with you
same retarded regurgitated mindlessly useless advice repeated over and over again by larping chad troglodytes

>>33890921
>but you can't force people to date you.
NTA but it's a good thing they didn't actually say that, my illiterate friend.

>>33893979
>NTA
lol... lmao even

>>33891551
This, women who’d rather be beatup by a giy who has a nice face/dick than to be in a boring relationship they cannot brag about!

>>33885514 (OP)
most women don't have that attitude and you're letting what she said to you get to you too much

>>33887663
>If I was a girl and some guy started asking me pointed questions, I'd assume hes olgiing a relationship with me.
You think way too highly of yourself, may as well be a woman.

>>33885550
>They don't even know me. How the fuck would they know?
Literally everyone in this thread figured you out by your first pathetic post. Women will do the same in the first few seconds of you opening your mouth in person.

>>33893853
My whole life I’ve been rejected and being told she’s not ready for a relationship was my most common reply.

>>33892228
When men enter marriages with women, they live longer, healthier lives. Women encourage men to be more social, go to the doctor, and help men with household duties and chores. Women don't see as much improvement, a man choosing to help take care of children or do chores like cooking is already impressive.

>>33894354
You don't know shit nigga shut your dumb ass up lmao pathetic troll

>>33894443
Your whole life? Dang, nigga. That's awful.

>>33885514 (OP)
I swear this is just another psyop, it's unreal that there is a new antinatalist trend every other week or so.
You don't want a girlfriend whose personality revolves around these bullshit online trends, and thankfully not everyone is like this, just look for women outside of discord. And look for ones with real hobbies, not the ones whose pastime is scrolling.
Ironically, the most normal girls I've met so far were art majors. They just have mental issues, but at least they're racist and keep themselves occupied with painting or whatever so they don't have time for this shit.

>>33895525
>They just have mental issues, but at least they're racist...
lol come again?

>>33895441
yes I even tried asking out women I don’t find attractive and they still stood me up. I’m tall, great hygiene, great teeth, not fat, have a decent job and my own place and car. Can’t even get a coffee date.

What a disheartening thread. I think I need a cold shower or something, I dunno.

>>33897191
That's fucked up.

>>33897206
Same.

To all niggas who don't believe the "with you" thing, I highly recommend paying attention what kind of boyfriends all the girls who are "not ready for a relationship" or "don't want to settle down" get - 99 percent of the time their boyfriend will be Chad Thundercock.

If you don't believe, just fucking observe for yourself. Even the most quietest, "conservative" girls will literally fall apart as soon as Chad gives them attention.

>>33897191
>tall, great hygiene, great teeth, not fat, have a decent job and my own place and car
if you're still being rejected by average women something is wrong with your appearance/body language/the way you talk.
have someone observe you next time you approach and debrief honestly (this means: not with someone who will be afraid to hurt your feelings)

>>33898496
You have seen this with your own nigga eyes, nigga?

>>33898496
Actually the end up with a guy they have been “friends with” for 10 years or some black thug. Nothing inbetween.

>>33898563
I've been on both sides
fucking annoying when you're the guy she tells "Im not ready", only to get a bf a week later
hilarious when you meet your new gf's beta orbiter who tries to hide this despair when he sees her sitting on your lap

>>33898628
women say they don’t like nice guys so I’m going to be mean now. very very mean.

>>33898639
They only like mean guys if the guys are 6 feet tall, have a 6 incher and a 6 digit income.

>>33885514 (OP)
i feel the same way but i blame myself. I would be very happy in a relationship with a man if he didn’t have female friends, didn’t speak to other women including online and was obsessed with me. unfortunately that’s unrealistic and every man i’ve liked has always driven me batshit crazy and made me miserable. i’m not cut out for this, i’ll just adopt some cats and die happy

>>33892144
>they're lazy mommas boys who want to be coddled, they're clingy and obnoxious
>they don't give a fuck about the women they're with outside of the sex
I want to know where in the last 40+ years men have been told to act any way outside that. You get what you ask for and this is what’s been asked for.

>>33898901
>I would be very happy in a relationship with a man if he didn’t have female friends, didn’t speak to other women including online and was obsessed with me.
Would you settle for one who doesn't have ANY friends, male or female, but watched a lot of porn and has tons of porn videos of naked women, that he's never met, BUT was also obsessed with you. If so, hey, I'm that guy!

>>33898814
They dont know how big my dick is

>>33899728
depends on what kind of women are in the porn

>>33900239
Um, mostly asians, because I have a deep strong desire for them, kek.

>>33900354
That's hot.

>>33899728
No. The point is for the woman to feel like they’re enough. You gooning your brains out sends a message.

>>33899001
KEK
did your mommy not wash your panties today?

>>33898814
The income is absolutely meaningless for sex generally it's useful for getting yourself into a dead bedroom with a used goods 30 something it's useful for getting prostitutes it's useful for sex somewhere like Thailand if you can make one of them think they'll get a Greencard out of it.

>>33885552
There's more ugly women than there are physically attractive women, though

>>33892691
Every human being sucks, but women objectively more so. I'm so grateful I was born a man, because I cannot imagine being born such a neurotic, frail, entitled, narcissistic piece of shit that so many women truly are at the crux of their being

Women are horrible

>>33904829
>>33902343
>peak incel cope
Every time I feel bad about my life I come here and I immediately thank whatever cosmic forces chose not to make me a KHV genetic failure.

>>33904829
not only do they talk shit behind your back they also try to get you fired if you make them uncomfortable even if you never speak to them. Everything in society gives women the advantage and men are slaves.

>>33885618
This should have been the only post in this thread. Holy fuck, the /r9k/ roaches infesting the site are so retarded. Most of the criticisms and accusations in here are pure projection, go outside.

>>33904829
They're great!

Being with men always feels like a sacrifice because they're shallow, emotionally immature and usually have nothing in common with women. Having an attractive partner is nice but it usually doesn't feel worth having to baby sit some annoying overgrown child who wont shut up about boring shit nobody cares about like fighting or video games. Most of my friends in relationships vent to me about how they wish they were single but love keeps them trapped in the relationship. It's better to be a sex worker because that way you can get all of the attention, money and dick you want without having to go home to a bunch of inescapable male bullshit afterwards.

>>33885514 (OP)
>all women think this
>I know because ONE of them told me

Guy. Come the fuck on, rub 2 brain cells together at least.

>>33885514 (OP)
Well, you'll have to change their mind somehow. How you do so depends on why they're avoiding people.

>>33885514 (OP)
This is a blue pilled board sir. I’ve been lobbying to change the name of /adv/ to /redd/ for years now to no avail

>>33909832
>I've only been with a tiny microscopic insignificant fraction of the male population and so that means they are ALL like that.. just every single one of them
Holy... fucking... shit... that is retarded

>>33909862
Well there's one of them >>33909832
So rub two yourself

>>33910207
A reddit board on 4chan? kek lol