>>33887641 (OP)
Pay for it.
Developmental injuries are permanent. This guy got a mix of good health, low stakes challenges, low stress, low moral filters like guilt or shame.
If you take any of the above, your physiology changes to a high fight-flight-freeze response that shapes up your developing brain architecture, from there on to the day you get alzheimers you will be stressed over consequences, you will stress over responsibilities, you will pursue mitigating those and you will grow old before you can finish. The girls he's kissing will run away because they are looking for biologically healthy men, only similar wrecks looking for ambition, emotional support etc will flock to you.
Losing is real. Sometimes you lose on account of others who didn't even know were affecting you, but once you lost you can't win.
You live just this one time. It can't be undone, and at most you can support those who haven't lost yet and give a little meaning to your lost life.