Thread 33888289

what are some things a guy should get in order before he starts dating?
(job/car/living status/appearance/hobbies/social life/et cetera?)

>>33888289 (OP)
Dating is not an exact science, it's a matter of chance.
Ask yourself the following: What is your market value?
Ignore things like niche- or non-female hobbies like gaming anime or memes and see what remains.

With a low market value, you're gonna be rejected more often, and may only be presented with ugly fat bottom of the barrel chicks. If that is fine to you, then you don't need to improve too much.

>>33888289 (OP)
I dont think it matters. How you make a girl feel is important so do whatever you need to do feel good enough to treat a girl well.
If you wait your whole life to be in a good position it will slip away from you.

>>33888289 (OP)
None of those things. It's about how you make her feel, but that's a separate topic. Tldr is that magical thinking about instrumental gimmicks is a dead end.

>>33888289 (OP)
the only thing that matters is looks
the blackpill is reality
be attractive/tall and she will lick your ass after you take a shit and dont wipe

You should learn to love yourself

>>33888289 (OP)
all of those things obviously, but as long as you have the basics (reasonable income, transportation, your own place even if it's a cheap apartment etc.) but the main thing is to just be interesting and fun to be around. this requires a good general knowledge base and some social acumen, both of which can be practiced or built. it's fine to be an introvert as long as you're capable of switching "on" socially for a few hours at a time a couple times a week. force yourself to do stuff and talk to people when you're out in public.

>>33888289 (OP)
nothing. ive seen homeless have better dating lives than me. a car would be useful tho

you should get your life in order first for your own sake first and formost

you should get money sorted out because not having money sucks
you should get transportation sorted out because it fucking sucks relying on other people

you should be as happy and content with your personal life as you can be, because why wouldnt you.

>>33888289 (OP)
It really depends on the woman you want to date. The McDonalds cashier probably has lower standards than Sharon from HR at Microsoft.

Ignore all the other anons; the answer is a car or a job (if you’re able to find one without having to rely on friends or family to get there)

>>33888289 (OP)
to date just dont feel miserable, bad, dont be poor, down in life, and be social
all in all, it's bullshit

everything above is clutter, buffer to make your life worse and more stressfull
happinness never lasts, you wont ever be up and good in life for a long time, life doesnt work that way, and that should be normal
dating is fucking acting set, pretend you're at top shape ALWAYS to achieve the purpose of a relationship where its okay to be down and out, these fucking retards should be beaten for being so retarded...

to be honest i dont fucking know...but i think it starts with not dating, somehow get a woman without dating, the kind of thing where you just are suddenly together one day, and get a woman who doesnt care about the culture, if you ever find one i hope you'll like her
all that hodge podge bullshit about market value social rapport is fucking hopeless clutter that most people cant follow through completely, its a system that swallows up all your energy, relationships should be that fucking hard to make

>>33888289 (OP)
to date just dont feel miserable, bad, dont be poor, down in life, and be social
all in all, it's bullshit

everything above is clutter, buffer to make your life worse and more stressfull
happinness never lasts, you wont ever be up and good in life for a long time, life doesnt work that way, and that should be normal
dating is fucking acting set, pretend you're at top shape ALWAYS to achieve the purpose of a relationship where its okay to be down and out... these fucking retards should be beaten for being so retarded...

to be honest i dont fucking know...but i think it starts with not dating, somehow get a woman without dating, the kind of thing where you just are suddenly together one day, and get a woman who doesnt care about the culture, if you ever find one i hope you'll like her
all that hodge podge bullshit about market value social rapport is fucking hopeless clutter that most people cant follow through completely, its a system that swallows up all your energy, relationships should be that fucking hard to make

>>33888314
do NOT ask yourself "what is your market value"
do NOT measure your worth on a human cattle meat market which doesn't serve you or your interests
just live your life

>>33888289 (OP)
It's over if you have to ask.

>>33888289 (OP)
Those things matter obviously
You can have a flat, car, nice job, etc. but the dude who sits in his messy room all day, smoking weed and playing csgo will still pull chicks, and dosen’t even put in half the effort
In the end it’s all about looks, social life and personality
Material shit is mostly a meme, it’s like when they say you’ll get a good job by having a stellar resume, when it’s really 80% networking

>>33888289 (OP)
be fucking clean. dont let your living space have a ton of crumbs all over

being clean is a massive green flag