i have a twin sister who is quite lonely because she's an anxious mess who never goes outside. but she is a very good and nice person and i like talking to her a lot, and i was like her too (always alone, never went outside) before my own boyfriend "saved" me.
my boyfriend's friend one time showed interest in my sister when he learned about her, and since then my bf has said that a few times he has tried to "advertise" my sister to him (this sounds bad but we're all esl, it sounded better originally lol). i have never mentioned any of this to my sis because i am still not sure if the friend was actually serious (for example him saying he likes being alone, which seemed contradictory to his earlier statements about wanting to meet and take my sister on a date). and it'd be really mean to mention a guy to her who wants to date her, for her to get excited, and then for it all to go to shit because he was never actually serious about it. she has also said she wants kids some day so that's why i even entertained the thought at all, because i do know she's lonely and never meets any men irl.
but since then it seems like my boyfriends has kinda stopped talking to his friend for differing opinions essentially. i also only ever knew him through my boyfriend. should i just forget all about this original plan, having the two of them meet ? he seemed like a very good person as well, and well, i'd never let any of my bf's other friends get near my sister lol. but of course his wishy washy i like to be alone comments that he made later did make me feel confused.
so yeah, should i just ignore all of this happened and not mention anything at all to my sister? because it does seem like this plan, if there ever was a plan, did go to shit.
my boyfriend's friend one time showed interest in my sister when he learned about her, and since then my bf has said that a few times he has tried to "advertise" my sister to him (this sounds bad but we're all esl, it sounded better originally lol). i have never mentioned any of this to my sis because i am still not sure if the friend was actually serious (for example him saying he likes being alone, which seemed contradictory to his earlier statements about wanting to meet and take my sister on a date). and it'd be really mean to mention a guy to her who wants to date her, for her to get excited, and then for it all to go to shit because he was never actually serious about it. she has also said she wants kids some day so that's why i even entertained the thought at all, because i do know she's lonely and never meets any men irl.
but since then it seems like my boyfriends has kinda stopped talking to his friend for differing opinions essentially. i also only ever knew him through my boyfriend. should i just forget all about this original plan, having the two of them meet ? he seemed like a very good person as well, and well, i'd never let any of my bf's other friends get near my sister lol. but of course his wishy washy i like to be alone comments that he made later did make me feel confused.
so yeah, should i just ignore all of this happened and not mention anything at all to my sister? because it does seem like this plan, if there ever was a plan, did go to shit.