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Anonymous No.33905494 [Report] >>33905503 >>33905509 >>33905661 >>33905830 >>33905991 >>33906444
When will the nightmare of adulthood end?
>Work a retail job where I get disrespected by black people constantly
>Went to car dealer to ask for help buying my first car, got treated like shirt for no discernible reason instead
>Asked out 3 different women, rejected by all of them
>Tried taking the train home, got harassed by some drunk nigger for the crime of being right next to him
>Cant understand shit in 2 of my classes
> Spent my birthday and Halloween alone while everyone else is having the time of their lives

Came out of homelessness after running away from home in 2023. I genuinely feel so hopeless. Even if I make it I have a feeling I’m still gonna be treated like shit anywhere I go. I have no friends or family to vent my loneliness too. I just wish life would give me one win, ONE fucking win for once.

Anyone have any words of encouragement to help get me through this?
Anonymous No.33905503 [Report]
>>33905494 (OP)
>Anyone have any words of encouragement to help get me through this?
i might have convincing ones if i weren't so tired lol
but either way, respect for getting out of that situation & taking on as much as you have
probably better than 90% of people would've done in that situation
Anonymous No.33905509 [Report]
>>33905494 (OP)
Thank you for living OP
Anonymous No.33905517 [Report]
i'd focus on the classes if you can
>> Spent my birthday and Halloween alone while everyone else is having the time of their lives
and stop worrying about that shit entirely
probably just getting drunk
Anonymous No.33905661 [Report]
>>33905494 (OP)
>Work a retail job where I get disrespected by black people constantly
Get a better job and you won’t have to deal with that.

>Went to car dealer to ask for help buying my first car, got treated like shirt for no discernible reason instead
If you look like you have no money, the salespeople will just ignore you. They are under too much pressure to make quota to spend any time with someone who is not likely to actually buy. Buy here / pay here lots will be more receptive to someone like that but only because they are looking for suckers to rob.

>Asked out 3 different women, rejected by all of them
Focus on your career right now until you get a stable job and more money. Don’t waste money on women until you have some to spare.

>Tried taking the train home, got harassed by some drunk nigger for the crime of being right next to him
I had these kind of moments in college too. I’m in a much better place right now. Don’t give up.

>Cant understand shit in 2 of my classes
If they are classes that are critical to your major, then you should really think about that. Did you pick your major because you genuinely love it or did you pick it just for easy money?

> Spent my birthday and Halloween alone while everyone else is having the time of their lives
Things will get better but you need a better job and financial stability first.
Anonymous No.33905830 [Report] >>33906299
>>33905494 (OP)
Focus on your own shit and stop worrying about what other people do.
Anonymous No.33905871 [Report]
I once worked at a retail store and lasted less than a week because I couldn't put up with the job environment

Why are coworkers so shit in retail jobs? Why is so hard for people to be nice?
Anonymous No.33905991 [Report]
>>33905494 (OP)
Transfer to a college in a city with less Bantus
Anonymous No.33906043 [Report]
Happy late birthday OP!
Anonymous No.33906299 [Report]
>>33905830
Kneegrow detected
Anonymous No.33906325 [Report] >>33906416
This is OP with an update. My electric scooter also got stolen literally just today. I’m just not meant to make it I guess
Anonymous No.33906416 [Report]
>>33906325
Sorry OP. You got yourself out of homelessness which is way more of a win than you know. It may not feel like it now but you’re improving your life bit by bit. Bad things will continue to happen to good people but if you keep on surviving, in a month or year from now you can look back from a better place hopefully. Stay strong man
Anonymous No.33906444 [Report]
>>33905494 (OP)
>Work a retail job where I get disrespected by black people constantly
Find a new job
>Went to car dealer to ask for help buying my first car, got treated like shirt for no discernible reason instead
What was your appearance? Did you look like someone who was ready to buy a car or someone who would waste their time and can't afford a car? Appearance matters.
>Asked out 3 different women, rejected by all of them
Same question here. How did you even ask? Also, even "chads" get rejected. It's a skill that's developed over time. Your response is akin to being mad you couldn't immediately compete in the tour de france within 10 minutes of getting on a bike the first time.
>Tried taking the train home, got harassed by some drunk nigger for the crime of being right next to him
Boo fucking hoo.
>Cant understand shit in 2 of my classes
Did you ask the professor for help after class?
> Spent my birthday and Halloween alone while everyone else is having the time of their lives
What are you doing to make friends?

Everything you said has a simple solution.