Thread 33905560

Why is talking so hard? Why is texting so hard?? My brain is 100% empty. I have NO IDEA what to say. Does anyone know why this happens or what can I do to combat it? I think part of it is nervousness but I might also just have a low iq. Please please please please help me I'm dying.
(Currently texting sweet guy I'm dating, by the way. Trying to resist asking him why he likes me if he still likes me etc.)

>>33905560 (OP)
why are you gay?

>>33905560 (OP)
Nobody likes that “Why do you like me” shit and all it is is self sabotage.

>>33905560 (OP)
Texting doesn't matter. Meet irl and talk. Men don't want to spend hours every day texting their girlfriend.

>>33905560 (OP)
I'm puttin g downa tenner on you doing nothing besides hanging around, eating hot chip, charging your phone and watching Netflix.

Go out and do stuff and you will have something to talk about.

>>33908407
Drawing? Playing games? But then what is there to say? I’m reading a new book right now and I don’t really know how to talk about it. I guess at least if I make something I can show it off. And I do lie around all day.

>>33908124
I actually love that shit, but then again, im a female, and i dont feel the need to impress men. No bro code to fallow.

>>33908124
Ugh, I know. It really is. But isn’t it better than saying nothing?

>>33908190
I’m really hoping we will. But then what if I still suck irl? It’ll be over for me, I guess.

>>33908423
>And I do lie around all day.

Your hobbies aren't bad, but they are all the stay at home kind of hobbies.
Personally, about every second fortnight I will do a massive hit of Meth on Friday night, take nothing but my keys and a fistful of cash, hgoof it to the next Techno Club and vow to not return to my apartment til Sunday 'eve.
Its unorthodox and I wouldn't universally recommend it, but it did get me out of being a boring virgin.

>>33908435
It's impossible to fail. Just be there.

if you have no idea what to say, the two of you have no chemistry. move on.