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Anonymous No.33907370 [Report] >>33907374 >>33907426 >>33907547
Boy Advice Needed
I've been a socially inept foid with nearly no friends up until recently (highschool I got bullied, college is mildy better) and I recently made my first male "friend," if you can call it that..
We have a few classes together and I have a huge crush on him. He's really ugly but has 2 girls crushing on him (me included). Yesterday we had a conversation about my 3ds and he asked me if I could mod his old one from when he was a kid, is this progress?
I don't understand the male species in any way; how do I get him to like me back?? I'm ugly and autistic, is it over for me??
Anonymous No.33907374 [Report] >>33907390 >>33907396
>>33907370 (OP)
>He's really ugly
>but has 2 girls crushing on him
I won't read delusional creative writing threads made by desperate, lonely men.
Anonymous No.33907390 [Report]
>>33907374
He's just fat and retarded but he's funny. I know I'm too ugly to go for a chad so I typically crush on boys that are "looksmatched" with me
incels on here are so deluded in their echo chamber that they don't know anything about real girls since they fap for stacys
Anonymous No.33907396 [Report] >>33907400 >>33907426
>>33907374
this is why you think it's fake? it is the most believable sentence in that post. women don't give a shit about looks if someone is popular and when other women are interested in them that increases the value by default
Anonymous No.33907400 [Report] >>33907418 >>33907426
>>33907396
>women don't give a shit about looks
Anonymous No.33907418 [Report] >>33907423
>>33907400
nigga, I am handsome and I would trade my face/hair for confidence and charisma any time
Anonymous No.33907423 [Report]
>>33907418
So you're a Chad and you want to talk down to me who is a KHHV
Yeah ok bro
Anonymous No.33907426 [Report] >>33907454
>>33907396
> women don't give a shit about looks

They do, but it's usually a small part of a much bigger picture. If they vibe with you, you're looks are secondary.

>>33907400
Looks are not nearly as important as you think. Personality and demeanor mean a lot. I have a good looking face but I'm fat as fuck, and I can still get laid. I can totally see a girl going after a guy even if they're not wild about the way they look.

>>33907370 (OP)
Help him mod his 3ds, but don't just do it for him. Teach him how to mod his 3ds. Use it as a bonding experience. Sharing an interest is strong common ground to stand on.

Try not to think of him as a boy, think of him as a person. Guys and girls are still the same species with the same emotions and base desires, despite what 4chan says.
Anonymous No.33907454 [Report]
>>33907426
>I have a good looking face
This is the only reason you get laid
If you were unattractive, you could have the best personality in the world and you be a detestable incel
Anonymous No.33907547 [Report]
>>33907370 (OP)
Guys are direct animals. Literally just ask if he'd be up to go somewhere sometime, or even just say you like him. Most don't understand the weird social layering games women have to play, and actually get fed up with them. If he's insistent on saying no regardless of what's happening in his life, then you know to step off and you can move on. Lost track of all the greentexts on here where the dumbass realized 10 years later that a girl liked him and was trying to ask him out.