Thread 33910023

Is it normal for people to get bored and move in in relationships after the honeymoon phase ends?

I won't read "is this exceptionally common thing normal" threads

Yes. My gf grew to resent me because I wouldn't "simp and cuck" for her 24/7. Perfectly fine for 3 years, and her dumb ass friend poisoned her mind with horse shit. So now she blamed a "3 year honeymoon phase" for blinding her.

>>33910023 (OP)
Yes but it shouldn't be.

>>33910023 (OP)
>is this common phenomenon real?

>>33910208
>My gf grew to resent me
Have you cut the bitch off yet? Sounds like you're still tolerating her bs

>>33910023 (OP)
For young people, yes. This gets less true the older you get.

>>33910399
I need to save a bit so I can move back to my home state.

>>33910895
are you still fucking her?

>>33910023 (OP)
The "smell my asshole" pose

>>33910208
Your ex being an idiot isn't your fault, but I would examine how the fuck you stayed with her for three years without ever seeing the clear symptoms of clinical retardation. Actual honeymoon phase lasts maybe a year at the very most.

>>33911946
Wouldn't you?

>>33912443
Abso-fucking-lutely

>>33910208
>"3 year honeymoon phase"
Same thing happened to me. Ex and I were together for 2ish years, always pretty happy. Probably argued like 3-4 times in that time span, always going out and having a good time, recently moved in together, etc.

Long story short, my ex's mother convinced her that we were only in a "honeymoon" phase.
Ex was a dumb bitch that actually believed her and one time after going out to lunch with her mom, she came back and ended everything without any logical reasoning.

>>33912668
Ngl, if she was dumb enough to believe that, the relationship wasn't gonna last anyway. So it might as well have been true.

>>33912689
She never even loved him if 1 talk with her mother was enough to break everything up. Or women just value the hivemind so much.

>>33912727
I highly doubt the mother had NEVER brought that up before.

>>33910023 (OP)
Imagine the smell.

>>33913343
Girls gotta wind out their shitters from time to time so their bfs dont complain about doggy style air.

>>33912668
As usual when it's not the mom, it the sister, friend, cousin, co-worker, etc. Women are their own enemies.

>>33910208
>>33912668
I need to hear the other side of the story before I make any judgements.
>we (I) were so happy until their fucking harpy friend/mom/aunt made her realise how unhappy she was

>>33910208
>>33912668

Your exes weren't "convinced" to break up with you. They already had those ideas in their head and they just needed some justification to act on it.

>>33910023 (OP)
Yes. In in my 30s and I have learned, as cheesy as it sounds, if you don't feel your heart racing when meanting the person, every thing is going to fall apart after a year or 2.

>>33910023 (OP)
> honeymoon phase
Made up buzzfeed-tier term
Relationships are based on hundreds of variables, and are never constant, you’ll always have ups and downs

>>33919690
Bit of a stupid question, but would the inability to keep your eyes/mind away from her be a suitable substitute to a pounding heart?

>>33910208
>My gf grew to resent me
Sounds like a "you" issue.

>>33919739
I first heard the phrase "honeymoon phase" back in the 80s.

Everytime a girl ends things with me they always fall off hard. It's always funny checking in on them a few years later and seeing how much of an unhappy mess they became. Women and mens values are like positive and negative functions. Just learn to take the L with pride and embrace the fact that you can always have the next honeymoon phase with the next girl.

>>33917114
This, and also they are deflecting responsibility for the decision onto someone else, trying to justify it with numbers.

>EVERYONE says it's the right choice!!! We just have to!!!

Which is of course a nonsense reasoning for a man who is expected to make his own decisions, but that's not how it is for women, who are expected to receive approval and support from the herd for their decisions.

>>33913485
no way. am i the ONLY one who wants my gf to come to bed with as stinky a butthole as possible for doggy style rear penetrative intercourse?

>>33910023 (OP)
Gotta love whoever normalized women in thong bikini bottoms. Bikinis are already extremely revealing to begin with and now women have even more of an excuse to dress like whores.

>>33920842
the funny thing is that it's usually other "feminists" wanting to empower other women...

>>33920851
True. Their "explanations" as to why are fucking hilarious.
Similarly hilarious how they make a "huge" distinction between "cheeky bikini bottoms" and "thong bikini bottoms" by describing the first as "a little more coverage than what I like but perfect for wearing around family" and the second as "what I enjoy wearing around myself and the husband"...meanwhile even the "more coverage option" they describe still show more than health their ass...