Thread 33912889

Since forever I’ve liked bigger guys. I don’t know if it counts as a fetish or just a preference, but I can’t help but be attracted to fat guys.

My boyfriend is indeed quite chubby, and I love that. I find everything about him attractive. But I also know that, for most people, being fat is considered unattractive, and they’d probably think my boyfriend is ugly.

So when people ask me about him, I get embarrassed. I delayed telling my friends as much as possible. When I finally showed my parents a photo of him, I had to immediately “justify it” by saying that “he treats me great and is really funny”. I hate the idea of people thinking I’m dating someone ugly, even if I believe he’s beautiful.

Recently he’s started asking to hang out more with my friends (we usually spend time with his friends). I know my friends like him as a person, but anytime they see us together, I feel this wave of discomfort and insecurity.

We’ve been together for 6 months now, and I really like him. But this whole thing is exhausting, and it makes me feel like a terrible person.

>>33912889 (OP)
Doesn't the fat burry his dick?

It's not even that it's unattractive, it's unhealthy -- both physically and mentally. Try carnivore diet for a few weeks.

>>33913173
>I find everything about him attractive
>except when he's near anybody else I actually care about then I am deeply icked lol
Shut up hole, let him find someone better

>>33913173
>>33913275
Woops meant to reply to OP not you

>>33913275
>Shut up hole, let him find someone better
Unironically this. He deserves better than you.

>>33912889 (OP)
If you like him then you shouldn't be ashamed of him..I think

>>33912927
nothing that a simple spread finger gesture pressing down cannot fix

>>33912889 (OP)
Why do you care what others think about him? If he is a great guy to you, if your friend like him what is the problem?

>>33912889 (OP)
Don't worry you're probably just as ugly as he is, their disgust is at the overwhelming ugliness of the two of you. Hope this helps.

>>33913275
>>33915746
bucket crabs

>>33912889 (OP)
How big is he?

>>33912889 (OP)
>My boyfriend is indeed quite chubby
This sounds like girl speak for over 100lbs overweight.
Why do women ask for advice while trying to give as little concrete information as possible?
Is he a 7ft 400lbs giant or 5'1" 400lbs walking ball of fat?
Being obese is not healthy and you've made it clear you care more about appearances than his health.
>t. 6 ft. 35 year old obese man that had to get his gall bladder removed due to being filled with gall stones and is now on medication due to a non-alcoholic fatty liver that sometimes gives random spikes of intense pain

>>33918341
Addendum:
And I'd also like to add: Gall bladder attacks can last between 2 hours to an entire day and they are very painful.
You can't sleep it off, you breathing heavily the entire time, you're forced to throw up multiple times whether or not you have anything in you to throw back up.
Shockingly I'm not diabetic I just ate 2 pizzas and 4 cheesburgers almost everyday.
Had I known 5 years ago this would happen to me I would have started hitting the gym much earlier as I am now.