Thread 33914047

I married a girl who's mid-looking but now I regret it and want to have babies with a young 20s girl who looks actually attractive. We have no kids and have only been married a year but I'm already starting to deeply regret this decision. I thought being with a mid-looking girl is better than being alone, especially as I'm now in my mid-to-late 30s.

Anyway, how do I get out of this? And ensuring I have a young 20 something girl ready to be with when I jump ship. Also I have a good job and am in decent shape.
Don't call me delusional, by the way. Men care about looks a lot more than women care about looks. Women should really only consider a man's values and money when they consider whether or not to marry him.

>>33914047 (OP)
Kys

>>33914054
Not sure why you're mad at me. There are tons of cute women every day working in cafes or whatever. These women would make amazing wives and mothers if they simply decided to settle down with Mr. Average while they're young and fertile.

>>33914155
Cute woman aren't average. If you do find one that's smart enough and somewhat mentally sane, she's getting Chad.

>>33914157
>Cute women aren't average
A good 60-70% of women are attractive as long as they're skinny and learn some basic makeup techniques off YouTube. Don't be a retard.

>>33914157
Also Chad is going to pump and dump her. She should logically realise that Chad is a lost cause, and she'd be much happier with Average McGee.

>>33914047 (OP)
youre used up and your sperm is too degenerated by now, all your kids will be deformed and shit, get a dog to keep you company when your wife leaves you for a younger man

>>33914183
>>33914157
>roastie screeching intensifies
All men want young, fertile women. The sooner you hags realise this, the better.

>>33914197
>seething and avoiding the biology
why are men so fragile and emotional

>>33914047 (OP)
>I thought being with a mid-looking girl is better than being alone

Many such cases. Thats all those sad relationships where peopel are basically roommates and rather live in quiet resentment and total sexlessness than chance being alone.
End it now, its not going to get better with time.

>And ensuring I have a young 20 something girl ready to be with when I jump ship.

Stop being such a faggot, monkey branching is already icky in women, and its turbo gay in men. If you're so dependent on women you can't stand being alone at all, those 20 somethings are going to smell the reek of a Beta on you , and while you're still within the range for mid to late twenties chicks, being a Beta is a death sentence. Deservedly btw

>>33914155
>These women would make amazing wives and mothers if they simply decided to settle down with Mr. Average while they're young and fertile.
And drop that fucking garbage. You're not entitled to some chick "settling down" with you, unless you are the man who makes her want to do that. This mewling bodes ill for your ability to be that.

>>33914157
>Cute woman aren't average.
The average woman is cute by definition. Women tend much less to be outliers than men, theres a much smaller share of themwho are either super hot or actually ugly.

>>33914160
>Also Chad is going to pump and dump her.

Pure cope. Shes having sex with average guys who aren't turbofaggots. Seriously, do womething about your Betaness, it wafts off your post like those stink lines. That attitude shines through in your mannerisms IRL and will cause any ovaries in your vicinity to go into hibernation. Guaranteed.

>>33914217
>You're not entitled to some chick "settling down" with you
Men literally are by birthright, as a reward for working in and protecting a society.

>>33914242
Many of us are discovering you don’t actually have to work if you’re not getting rewarded or punished by it
NO PUSSY, NO WORK! NO PUSSY, NO TAXES!

>>33914197
Everyone realized it years ago. Do you not understand the basics of supply and demand or are you stuck thinking that there are the same number of eligible women as men? ? Basic numbers escape you.

>>33914160
That's not the point. Chad is the man a particular woman is happy with. That's why cute (somewhat)sane women can achieve happiness if they're smart enough to realize it. Sane men can too. So if you're somewhat there you don't have to give up.

>>33914242
Yeah sitting in an adult daycare (office) while farting in a chair has nothing to do with "working for society".
And I'm 100% sure you don't do any protecting, men who give them the feeling of being protected turn women on to this day and you apparently don't.

>>33914047 (OP)
B8 for sure but if you could do better, you would have.
You didn't "settle" for her. She settled for you, and you didn't leave because deep down you know you can't do better. You don't have what it takes to chase and bag a hot 20-something, because if you did you already would have.

>>33914262
Based

>>33914047 (OP)
>I thought being with a mid-looking girl is better than being alone
In reality, it's like:
"I hate myself, so I choose to be with someone I don't like".
The consequences are evident.
The process of dumping her and stopping being a people pleaser will make you learn.

>>33914421
I'm only going to be satisfied in life if I'm with a young attractive woman.

>>33914183
that's not how it works. sperm doesn't degenerate anything like eggs

>>33914047 (OP)
Are you such a catch that you can afford to throw away what you've got?

>>33914559
Well according to /adv/ any guy can get a cute 20 something as long as he's confident and funny.

>>33914047 (OP)
If you couldn't get attractive 20 something pussy from 25 till 35 what makes you think you can get one now?

>>33914047 (OP)
If this is real, you're a bitch. You don't marry chicks you aren't sure of, that's what dating is for.

>Ensuring I have a young 20 something girl
How the fuck did you get married and not figure out you can't guarantee any of this? You could find a mistress who says she'll be with you if you leave your wife and she'll dump you for Tyrone.

Get divorced and find a woman you actually like.

just divorce her and get a good looking girl you retarded cuck


ngl just kill yourself

>>33914920
>Well according to /adv/ any guy can get a cute 20 something as long as he's confident and funny.
the jewish propaganda to erode white race families works incredibly well.

>>33914485
eggs run out but sperm just gets shitty and mutated, many many birth defects are due to saggy old balls and your shitty sperm

>>33915072
Go back to /pol/ and leave us sane people alone

>>33914047 (OP)
Your sperm is on the cusp of turning into rotting garbage, just have kids and pay for some plastic surgery for her. You're not going to get a hot 20 something be realistic. Porn and billionaire's insta is not real life.

>>33914155
>>33914242
>>33914197
>>33914047 (OP)
So hypergamous mids gunning only for the top 10% exist across both genders. Huh.

>>33914047 (OP)
Just get your wife to start working out or something. You got married, you have an obligation to her now that you don't with just a girlfriend to not leave for such petty reasons.

>>33915661
Zoomette women should read threads like this and realise the only way for them to be long term married and happy is to marry an average looking dude.

>>33917168
>only way for them to be long term married and happy is to marry an average looking dude.
this thread is an average looking dude completely giving up on his wife and trying to get with someone younger

>>33917386
She was 31 when we got married though.

>>33917856
and zoomettes will one day be in their 30s too, spooky i know

>>33914242
It has been too long without a war in the majority of the developed world. Too much entitlement buildup

>>33918014
lmfao, this deranged entitlement is anything but resolved by stirring up ptsd and false bravado en masse, you jerk off to ww2 documentaries dont you

>>33918025
Well sorry. Please line up at counter 5 to get your rewards for your work.

This thread only reinforces the idea that settling as a cure for being alone is pointless.

Average guys that get settled for are worthless. They're seeing their wives' faces as she looks upon a guy that has nothing special going for him. Every single day.

>Anyway, how do I get out of this? And ensuring I have a young 20 something girl ready to be with when I jump ship. Also I have a good job and am in decent shape.
Divorce law. Weigh your options with a good lawyer. In general let it be a lesson - NEVER marry. Nothing good comes out of marriage. Marriage is literally a meme pushed by (((certain people))) because it generates profit for divorce lawyers. However, that doesn't mean that you get a free card by not marrying. That hot girl in her 20s also has rights in the court of law, so you better get in touch with a lawyer.

>>33917952
When a man has years to fuck a young attractive girl when she's at her prime attractiveness, he forever sees her as she was in her prime. Once again, if barristas and receptionists don't want to be left while in their 30s, they should marry in their 20s. It's not rocket science.

>>33914158
So you deliberately married a girl in the 30% that isn't attractive?

>>33914160
>logically realise
You'd think so. But, are women logical?
Are not a sizeable amount of women the source of their own problems?

>>33915134
>due to saggy old balls and your shitty sperm
Actually it's due to cellular damage from aging and passive radiation damaging it further.
Reminder: you are constantly being irradiated.

>>33915661
So women believe youth raises them to a higher social status.
No wonder hags were so desperate to raise the age of consent.
They didn't want all the 13 year olds to steal all the good men.

>>33914426
>I'm only going to be satisfied in life if I'm with a young attractive woman.
If that were true, why aren't you marrying the single hot girls in their early 20's with 3 half black babies?

>>33915240
Sane people don't come to 4chan for life advice.
Have you tried reddit?

>>33918014
>you don't get to start a family you filthy goy, why are you so entitled?
>now get to work, you need to do at least 8 hours of overtime this week by the way

Yeah, someone has an entitlement issue here.

>>33914155
Why would an above average young woman settle for an old average man who has nothing special to offer to them?

>>33917168
I doubt that's what they learn from this thread, where an average looking 35 year old dude is literally talking about how he wants to leave his wife for someone younger and hotter lmao

This is why you only date hot men. They're not better or worse than average men, but at least they're hot.

>>33918271
Whats wrong with overtime if it pays 1.5x your normal wage?
Are you not working a union job or something?

>>33918287
They kinda are worse, though.
Hot men and women are much more likely to be lacking in life skills if their looks are enough to get by.
Might as well date a child, they at least have less miles on them.

>>33918315
That's not really the case, in my experience. I know several really hot men who are competent, skilled and kind.

>>33918393
>I know several really hot men who are competent, skilled and kind.
And the hot women?

>>33918456
Same, I don't really think looks matter that much. I think taking advantage of others to get by is more a personality trait than something that has to do with your looks.

>>33918480
>personality trait
You can't take advantage of people with your looks if you don't have the looks in the first place.

>>33918287
Read the thread properly. My wife is a mid looking hag. If I had married a young cutie I would have treasured her and treated her really well.

>>33918282
Women don't care about looks in a man. It's a non-requirement for them.

>>33914047 (OP)
>and want to have babies with a young 20s girl who looks actually attractive.
>And ensuring I have a young 20 something girl ready to be with when I jump ship.
Fucking kek, so you don't even have a specific girl in mind that you have strong feelings for or even a chance with? You just feel this overwhelming urge to step out on your wife for sport?
>>33914155
>These women would make amazing wives and mothers if they simply decided to settle down with Mr. Average while they're young and fertile.
And why the hell would or should they? Especially since you just described girls that are above average and you're very clearly below average. You have a delusional rating of both them and yourself.

>>33918693
Men are valued for their wealth and achievements, which I have a lot of. That should be enough for women working garbage cafe jobs.

>>33914160
>Also Chad is going to pump and dump her
Yes, that evil CHAD is going to do that but here you are plotting to pump and dump your actual wife. Lmao.

>>33918697
So what have you achieved? And you don't get to decide what someone else values.
If they valued you, you would have them. You are what the market says you are.

>>33918706
Suck my dick, faggot, that's what.

>>33918709
Delicious seethe, your dick is not getting sucked anytime soon by anybody.

>>33918252
yeah no shit, and the older you get the more the effects compound, its ahitty old balls and their microwaved sperm

>>33918732
Turns out old eggs contribute more to serious birth defects than old sperm.
So much so, in fact, menopause is theorized to actually be an adaption to prevent older women from getting pregnant. Since the older female's body my not be able to correct for gene errors as the fetus develops as well as a younger female's body can.
And the theory for why males remain fertile until death is due to the mortality rate of young males.

>>33918671
You can take advantage of people by other means. Again, it's just a personality thing - selfish and self serving people will find a way to take advantage of others, no matter how they look. Decent people won't, no matter how they look.

>>33918691
I've read the thread properly. You're an average man who is upset he is married to an average woman, and wishes that a young, hot woman would waste her youth on him. So when she's also older and uglier, he can discard her for the next one.
If anything, it really shows how selfish, worthless and shallow you are.

>Women don't care about looks in a man.
LMAO

>>33918788
Well shit I must've been unlucky then, the most attractive people I've met turned out to be assholes and the more normal, average looking ones tended to be decent people, if a bit dumb.
Might just be because I live in a smaller town.

>>33918804
Yeah, that might be the case. I grew up in a really small village (400 people), and the hot girls taking advantage of their looks is surely more of a thing in that context. Especially when the girls aren't frankly particularly bright.
I wouldn't say average people are overwhelmingly better, but thinking about it I can think of some girls who peaked in middle school and got a little ahead in life with that - married a guy who had some money, work part time, etc.

I went to high school and college in the small city near my house and it's different already tho. My husband is from a large city and when he introduced me to his friends from college and their wives, they're all accomplished no matter what they look like.

So TL;DR I'm afraid it's more of a matter of socioeconomical background.