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Anonymous No.33914787 [Report] >>33914793 >>33914806 >>33915215 >>33915282 >>33917332 >>33919168
What should I as a 19 year old do to not waste my youth, these years have been passing by way too fast, it's already close to 2025. How exactly am I meant to spend my youth to not regret it later, many people have been calling me dumb and lazy, should I be travelling?
Anonymous No.33914793 [Report]
>>33914787 (OP)
*2026
Anonymous No.33914806 [Report] >>33919372
>>33914787 (OP)
You need to have the goal of being financially stable by around 25, because that's a good age to propose to a woman and you really do need to get married... Even if it's taking an apprenticeship doing something like being an arborist. Be mindful of what's going to be viable and make the best of getting off your feet and not getting bogged down by memes. Don't be overly political because saying certain things publicly can ruin your reputation, be sane about those things and keep yourself grounded and keep learning because your worldview will keep changing as you keep (hopefully) reading more about the world and especially history. There's no pride in having sex with lots of women out of wedlock and it's all part of the rot so don't buy into it. Almost everyone was married in the 1950's and it's the decay of Communism setting in that erodes this - if you never propose to someone you will never get married and keep in mind that diamonds are from an advertisement campaign and it's all a big lie (that you are not worthy or that you need a lot of money or these sorts of things you see on TV).
Anonymous No.33915215 [Report]
>>33914787 (OP)
get your mental health worked on, clear your head so you know what it is you truly want to try, now is the time to be trying new things, learn an instrument, figure out how to make anyone laugh, get into baking, only way you can waste it is by sitting around on this god forsaken website too scared of the outside world to interact
Anonymous No.33915282 [Report] >>33919372
>>33914787 (OP)
You should spend the majority of your time on this website getting into arguments with other people. They are very enlightening and insightful.
Anonymous No.33917332 [Report] >>33919201
>>33914787 (OP)
Get your career started as soon as possible. It gets more difficult to make money and to secure your finances as you age.
Anonymous No.33919168 [Report]
>>33914787 (OP)
Learn to schedule. Download a workout program to get an idea of what it might look like. The Stronger By Science program bundle is free.
Anonymous No.33919201 [Report]
>>33917332
This. I was a NEET until age 27 and now at 33 I barely make 140k/yr. It's joever
Anonymous No.33919372 [Report] >>33920834
>>33914806
This is INCREDIBLY sound advice.
As someone who,"Had dessert first", and by that I mean lived as Spartanly As I could while experiencing the kind of things that most people put off until retirement, The next few years, (until 25,) are critical to your future trajectory.

DON"T waste your time with endless entertainment, Vidya, Pr0n, or ANY of that.
Women at this age are a money pit too. Unless you already have a girl, and she's willing to BUILD WITH YOU,(not as rare as you might think,) don't spend ANY time chasing women.
Save you money for investing in yourself; I.E.building up your skills, tools, and experience. KILL your television, and use your computer in a way that 80% minimum is being spent on self improvement.

The ONLY regret I have personally, is that I hesitated too many times out of uncertainty and/or fear of the unknown.
Be BOLDER as long as it won't hurt you physically, mentally, or financially.

There MAY be some drastic changes soon in the world, you should always be asking yourself: "Do I have most all of what I need if I had to do it all on my own?" If not correct that.

I'm not saying collect a bunch of shit either.
If you can't load everything you need for whatever it is you decide to do in a truck and go somewhere else, you MAY just have too much shit.

>should I be traveling?
Meh..That can be another money trap. Unless you are doing it non-conventionally, and with an eye for somewhere to move, most people don't end up with anything that truly enriches them. It's just a "Pricey Vacation", unless you are going somewhere foreign for schooling.
You might be surprised at what there is just 2 hours away from you. Try that first.

>>33915282
Kek!
Anonymous No.33920834 [Report]
>>33919372
> DON"T waste your time with endless entertainment, Vidya, Pr0n, or ANY of that.

I would give slightly different advice regarding spending money on entertainment. It’s okay spend a little money on having fun, but you just need to make sure it’s within your budget. Make it second priority. But if you don’t do anything at all for fun, you’ll just burn out. At least have a few hobbies that are cheap.

Personally I find video games to be quite cheap but I always buy everything at $20 or less and I always buy games that have longevity.