Thread 33917434

How do you avoid growing bitter and jaded from a shitty middle and high school experience?

I became a mute halfway through the HS and already passed on many things by ignoring people who were genuinely kind. Im so fucking angry.

t.18m in senior year

High school won't matter in a few years. You might be feeling bad about it now, but the passage of time will take care of it for you.

Evidence being me, 24m, and had a shitty high school experience as well. I eventually forgot about it and life went on.

>>33917434 (OP)
Im pretty much you just a year later, 19m.

Fucked hated highschool and middle school, literally cut off all contact and have not spoken to anyone from hs since. I joined the military, and have an actual social life now. WAY less people judge me just for my looks. Dont go to uni, it'll just be the same shit.

>>33917434 (OP)
>18m in senior year
looooool

literally just be different and have friends in college

there's not some difficult process to commit to. just stop being a little bitch

>>33917462
>High school won't matter in a few years
normies and good lifers in general say those were the best years of their lives and reminisce about them
incels and losers say those were the absolute worst years of their lives and dwell on them

Everyone cares about their high school days. So quit the bullshit. Maybe it really is like that for few outliers such as you, but in general it absolutely does matter.

>>33917515
>just bee different :)
>its not that hard!
wow! Thank you for the amazing input mr Anonymous! You most be one of them motivational speakers from fedex!

>>33917533
>it absolutely does matter.
Ok well in what way would it matter?

>>33917434 (OP)
Highschool sucks for everyone. Everyone has that "woe is me the world is unfair and life was so hard on me" phase. Our options now are grow tf up and build a life worth living or stay this way and youll eternally be miserable and lonely.

>>33917600
>Our options now are grow tf up and build a life worth living or stay this way and youll eternally be miserable and lonely
exactly and Im asking how to avoiding becoming the latter you dumb retard

>>33917603
>how to avoiding becoming the latter you dumb retard
Yea and this anon just told you
>>33917462

The passage of time will take care of it for you.

>>33917549
yes unironically be different. you are insufferable. that's why people hate you. be different and have people like you.

>>33917610
time has only made me worse so far. I intend to get a job and be a good goy, dont worry, but "only time will tell" doesnt really get my hopes up

>>33917610
>>33917628
its basically just "eh, youll figure it out"

>>33917434 (OP)
this was me at some point. If i had to boil down everything I've realized that got me out of this into a few scraps of advice is just unapologetically be yourself, and take responsibility for what you feel instead of making it society's duty to take care of you. Because if you fail at this not only are you not gonna be happy with yourself, you're going to put your wellbeing in the hands of a machine that only values fitting in, which is basically impossible if you're not a born normie

>>33917434 (OP)
professional help

>>33917434 (OP)
Ever since the covid hoax I stopped interacting with the goyim cattle. I just look through them and pretend they don't exist. I don't even greet them or acknowledge their presence. I'm not staring either, I'm just looking straight through them as if they weren't there.
My life has significantly improved. I am at peace.

>>33917897
I see, this makes sense. Could you maybe please elaborate on HOW to do that? And what exactly it means to be myself? Like what sort of mindset did you have when you took responsibility? Because sometimes I feel good, I feel hopeful, I feel like I should and could fix myself. But then I get overwhelmed by negative feelings and Im mad, demotivated and feel like I shouldnt do anything. I also feel like theres no point in trying anymore since I missed out on everything and been wronged.

And also, how do you not get angry at things other people did to you? I get this huge feeling of injustice when I have to fix myself when other people wronged me and they still act like IM the morally bad person. I meet a lot of kind people and I cant imagine being rude to them, but deep down Im angry.

Also, Im autistic too sooo yeah its not like I have bright future ahead of me.

>>33918551
I did that halfway through HS when I switched schools. I just ignored my classmates and everyone else and just locked myself in my room and did what made me happy. Now I regret it. A lot. I was given incredible people and a chance to fix myself and start growing again and I just passed on it.
Maybe this mindset works for you, but it doesnt work for me, Im sorry. It just doesnt.

>>33918556
>And also, how do you not get angry at things other people did to you?
now that I think about it, I also did some nasty stuff. Best I just try to let it go somehow

>>33917434 (OP)
Im like you, had a really rough HS experience. Bullied badly, but I know that those bullies peak in HS.
>>33917533
The losers will go upwards.
>>33917600
Wrong.
>>33917462
Hopefully the bullies peak in HS and don't go far in life.

>>33918556
Been in similar situation.

>>33918563
What you didn't realize is that nobody cares about you. Whether you are social or not it doesn't matter but you are still young and maybe you will figure it out within the next 40 years, or maybe not, it makes no difference in the end. Nothing you say or do will ever matter.

>>33917434 (OP)
Go to therapy now.

You can't solve this shit on your own. I started 12 years late, im 1000 dollars in and only have done enough steps to not shit myself for it. Go to therapy now and save money and time.

>>33918801
Never go to therapy anons, the people shilling this shit are often "therapists" themselves, which are grifters. These parasites need to get a real job, starve them out.

NEVER GO TO THERAPY - IGNORE THERAPY POSTERS AS THEY ARE MOSTLY THERAPISTS SHILLING THEIR GRIFT

>>33918801
I will not go to therapy bro. Ive been to all kinds of psychologists and psychiatrists as a kid and theyre all incompetent punks. They only exist to punish people, not help them get better. I dont even have money for therapist right now anyway.

My mom got me a therapist right before I became a mute and changed schools but I didnt feel like talking to her and didnt see a point. Its too late now and it wont do shit. I really shouldve given it an honest chance and maybe I wouldve been better now. But I just dont trust therapists or other psychologists. I dont want to open up to them because they will lock me up.

Only thing therapy will do is just "go out there and move on bro".

Anyway, here is my previous post. I think I really might be a lost cause.