Thread 33918052

For some reason I don't like being in relationships with non virgins, it's like if a girl has even kissed another guy or especially had sex with them I see them as disqualified from a life partner or someone worthy of love so the relationship is doomed from the start and no matter how much fun we have or how good the intimacy gets its like I know something is past its expiration date

How can I change this mindset, there are so few virgins that aren't insanely fat or mentally ill

That's because you are not a cuckold. Don't let anyone gaslight you on accepting a whore who's already been riding the cock carousel, even if that means dying a KV.

>>33918052 (OP)
>How can I change this mindset, there are so few virgins that aren't insanely fat or mentally ill
stop treating all cute women you meet as potential life partners.

>>33918052 (OP)
If you're not a virgin yourself you are hopelessly retarded.

>>33918052 (OP)
are you a virgin? never kissed someone?

>>33918052 (OP)
Are you such a catch that you can afford to be picky?

Why change? I have stopped dating all women with even a single dude in her past and I just stop worrying.

Kissing bit sounds a bit extreme tho
Better to die alone than be with them.

>>33918087
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>>33918426
folks sure do get upset when others seem to have options

>>33919046
Nobody is upset, but you are in for a world of disappointment if you are expecting to ever have a virgin girlfriend (especially past high school age which you have to be to use this site).

>>33918052 (OP)
>How can I change this mindset, there are so few virgins that aren't insanely fat or mentally ill
By not caring, there is a far higher likelihood of reproducing and passing on your genes. Since most women are not virgins, because they get courted and pursued by men for most of their life.

>>33918052 (OP)
It's good that you allow fear of abandonment to rule over you and you should do it more.

>>33918052 (OP)
It’s perfectly fine to have that preference and I obviously understand it as a guy. From what it sounds like though, it comes from more of a superficial point than actual standards/values. You need those so you don’t end up letting down whoever actually decides to give you their “all”. With that being said you do realize you’re dehumanizing these hypothetical non virgins? You can maintain your position while wishing well for those non virgins. My point is someone who is virtuous would likely (and rightly) be turned off by that. Maybe you should clarify to us more on your “why”?

It's cray that these people who dont respect women seem to get them easily but people who put them on pedestals never get a shot whats up with that why is no one happy

>>33919159
Dont forget the breakup reason "you're too good for me”

>>33919115
Wanting a virgin bf/gf is not necessarily about abandonment issues

>>33919159
I think it's just that male feminists are the most disgusting and repulsive form of life in this world. Not even hardcore brainwashed feminist bitches can stomach dating a male feminist.

What if she had a depressive/dissociative period where she let a dude fuck for like 10 seconds but stopped it? But that was the only guy she ever “did”. It’s oddly specific because that was what I was told. She’s something of a more well adjusted yandere, otherwise a nice person, not outwardly promiscuous. She didn’t even need to admit anything. I’d feel bad leaving her desu, she’s almost too perfect now but I do wonder sometimes if she loves me as much as she says. She ghosted me in the beginning and that still stings too almost two years later.

>>33919046
>folks
>upset
bait but:
standards should be reciprocated. expecting others to behave more morally than you is selfish and retarded.

>>33919699
They damn near always lie about this shit. My ex said she was raped (doubtful) and downplayed her past. They will try to be what they think u want.

She just wants to loved like all women but dude they're all crazy. All women ive dated are afraid you will abandon them some are just way more bpd than others and some of them will ruin u if you let them.

Be a rock.

Don't change your mindset.
Remember that bitches lie. The virgins probably done whatever catholic girls do. If she's hot and she's never kissed anyone she's lying.

>>33918062
Yup. Don't be a cuck.
Now go and keep your mental illness from reproducing- with whores ofc

>>33919054
Ok sure. Death is preferable to a whore

>>33918052 (OP)
Its fine if you're a virgin too but if you arent, then think about how hypocrite is to ask for a virgin when you arent
Dont go asking for things you cant give back in a relationship
She might even see you the same way on that regard too

>>33919884
>>33919755
>>33919699
>>33919143
If a key can unlock many locks, then it is a master key

If a lock can be unlocked by many keys, then it is a shitty lock

>>33920088
Fucking cringe

>>33920100
He's right though

Ribbit

>>33920100
Dumb teen or broken manchild? Either way you need to go back

>>33919884
>Dont go asking for things you cant give back in a relationship
Oh no guess I can't ask for a feminine hourglass figure from her and she can't ask for my monster dong
jokes aside tho, I have never once slept with a woman with a lower bodycount than me. all modern women have a "hoe phase" so they're all hoes and that's the only reason it's stupid to "ask" for a virgin. As if a woman is something you can just ask for and receive, much less a chaste one. They can do that with men though to be fair. Wait, are you a woman? You must be
Anyway, women including the virgin ones value a man who gets laid so how about that for hypocrisy. They'll use virgin or incel as an insult for men because of this. You think I liked feeling terrible that I couldn't get laid until I was 22?
Now that I can give women what they want it's more than fair for someone like me to get what they want out of women (one who isn't a total hoe to marry since they're all going to be at least a little hoe).

>>33920088
Nobody's ever heard that one before. I bet every woman would just shut up if they heard this gem.

We get it, promiscuous women aren't ideal. Obsessing over virginity isn't going to get you anywhere. You may as well obsess over whether or not they know how to ride a bike.