Thread 33918640

Whenever I see couples outside holding hands, cuddling or kissing I get extremely depressed and almost start crying. Is there a way to stop this?
Getting a gf is not an option as I'm 33 yrs old and still haven't figured out how to do that.

>>33918640 (OP)
I hope so, anon.

I think the answer is no

>>33918640 (OP)
You spent 33 years of your life not having interest dating nor talking to a girl and you act like depressed, jealous or self pity.

Even if you get a fucking girlfriend, your relationship won't end well not because you're ugly or your personality but you never cared about this shit for 33 fucking years your whole life.

Don't act like you were born that way. You chose that life at the start. You were never interested in girls. You just goon on them or fantasize about them with your holding hands, cuddling, kissing.

You rent a girlfriend or hire a hooker this is the closest thing you can do without regretting anything.

“33” sonim crine

>>33920770
I'm not Chad so I never had a chance

>>33918640 (OP)
Not a psychologist here but the reason you feel like this is because there's something deeper wrong with you, and I don't mean that in a mean way. It's obvious that your mental health is shit and has been for a long time. Perhaps you have one or two or more diagnosable mental illnesses. I imagine your insecurities began either in your childhood or your teen years so a long time ago. Perhaps this stems from you being bullied as a kid and things getting worse from there. Or even if you weren't bullied you were probably lonely with few to no friends. And so now you feel like you're worthless and nobody will ever love you. No true at all. But if your mental state is as bad as you say then getting a girlfriend won't do much good as the relationship probably won't last long. Cliche advice I know but therapy and medication are an excellent start. Or if you understandably can't afford that then just trying to improve yourself little by little by gradually getting more and more sunlight and exercise and stuff, or even reading books or watching YouTube videos about depression and shit.

>>33920798
It's not about being a chad for god's sake. That’s like saying you want to be a doctor but you can’t stand hospitals.

I'm not saying it's too late to start liking girls or date them. The fucking problem is that you don't wanna do any of those since the past 33 years even up til now.

YOU WERE NEVER INTERESTED ABOUT ANY OF THIS SHIT SINCE DAY 1.