how to get dates?
(mind 20s male) i've tried couple dating apps even local ones and i have in meanwhile also tried in person approaches. and well dating apps are dating apps just as what i heard them to be like. not yet touched tinder but few others like warming up if you will. well then to the in person I find that in most situations people are tuned out from polite advances and then even industry meetup a woman i've chatted up couple times i ask from her this "I'd like to get to know you better could we meet up at a cafe?" and well it's as if she didn't register i was asking her to cafe to get to know her better. and well i've heard this joke from both side of aisle that women here are either taken or lesbians or both.
so what i advice i am looking for. beside tinder where else should i be at? rave parties do not work, bars don't work, cafe and libraries people are preoccupied, hobbies people focus on the hobby.
I thought school dating world was bad but dear god, after school it's nonexistent.
I would happy for now that I would manage get first dates going on as every date is progress to meeting that someone with whom things would go well.
so what i advice i am looking for. beside tinder where else should i be at? rave parties do not work, bars don't work, cafe and libraries people are preoccupied, hobbies people focus on the hobby.
I thought school dating world was bad but dear god, after school it's nonexistent.
I would happy for now that I would manage get first dates going on as every date is progress to meeting that someone with whom things would go well.