New girlfriend love bombing me?
Title. So I just started dating this girl for about a week and things are going good, way too good. She seems extremely into me. She sent me her location indefinitely, she texts me constantly, sends me reels/tiktoks all day, constantly holds hands with me, etc. A lot of the videos she sends me involves things like marriage, having kids, etc.
Now in my mind I think this is way too fast for only a week into a relationship, but on the other hand there’s some things I noticed that makes me think she isn’t love bombing me. She is diagnosed with autism although I don’t know how severe, so maybe she dosent know how to control her emotions or articulate them. I told her “I think I’m falling in love with you” earlier this week, and she pulled back and said it’s too early to say things like that. She also dosent call me “babe” or “love” or anything, she just calls me handsome or cutie. She also talks to be about her family a lot, but doesn’t want me to meet them yet because she’s scared I’m going to hurt her
She said the main reason she fell for me was because of certain circumstances that happened during our dates (a certain song she loves playing on the radio during our first kiss for example), and I’m assuming that might be her autism at play to an extent. We also do have a lot of things in common, like exact same music taste, goals in life, etc. and I know she isn’t lying about that because I’ve seen her phone and we have so many similar things in common it’s kind of scary.
What do you guys think? I 100% think she’s moving a little too fast, but at the same time she feels genuine. I’m thinking of talking to her about this tomorrow when I see her. What should I say? Do you think this might be her autism at play?
Now in my mind I think this is way too fast for only a week into a relationship, but on the other hand there’s some things I noticed that makes me think she isn’t love bombing me. She is diagnosed with autism although I don’t know how severe, so maybe she dosent know how to control her emotions or articulate them. I told her “I think I’m falling in love with you” earlier this week, and she pulled back and said it’s too early to say things like that. She also dosent call me “babe” or “love” or anything, she just calls me handsome or cutie. She also talks to be about her family a lot, but doesn’t want me to meet them yet because she’s scared I’m going to hurt her
She said the main reason she fell for me was because of certain circumstances that happened during our dates (a certain song she loves playing on the radio during our first kiss for example), and I’m assuming that might be her autism at play to an extent. We also do have a lot of things in common, like exact same music taste, goals in life, etc. and I know she isn’t lying about that because I’ve seen her phone and we have so many similar things in common it’s kind of scary.
What do you guys think? I 100% think she’s moving a little too fast, but at the same time she feels genuine. I’m thinking of talking to her about this tomorrow when I see her. What should I say? Do you think this might be her autism at play?