Thread 33926599

Regarding race, behavior, expected background, bodycount, age, looks.
I've heard that white male black female couples are 40% less likely to divorce.

From where I come from women quite literally are just here to fuck around and not form something meaningful and long term, at least not in majority. Their behavior is also questionable. Are asian women as good as they say?

Depends on the woman op. As much as we'd like to believe its all race its more upbringing. Amish for example.

>>33926599 (OP)
One that will go out with you

Bharatiyas. hands down

>>33926649
Indian women are not all good

there is no one-size-fits-all. too many variables to take into account and some shapes will fit right in and others won't.

i'll speak on race/culture: you can date a black woman who is really into white guys, but you won't be able to dodge relatives/friends of her who will look you suspiciously, let alone stranger blacks on the street who WILL flirt with your girl and challenge you because you're white.
asian women are more feminine/traditional/etc but are you willing to take care of her parents, who will nag you 100% times more or send money to her family in x country?
you want to marry your own race not for "muh bloodline" or "muh racism" but because you don't have to deal with a culture shock you never wanted to buy into.

again, it doesn't apply to everyone. perhaps you went for mixed black that truly has no black social group, or a third gen asian who is fully americanized, but those are few and far between.

>>33926599 (OP)
From experience the white chicks I've dated have been pretty selfish partners, the native girl was a literal yandere, havent dated any asian girls but the ones I'm friends with like to hoe around unless they're serious then get VERY serious about the relationship, and the first black girl (Carribean) I ever dated I'm marrying in the spring.

These are all gross generalizations and my word is far from the gospel truth, but this has been my experience.

>>33926807
To extend OPs remarks you REALLY need to look into cultural stuff, I've seen some coworkers go thru some stuff.
WRT the black women, if you're not into "hood rat stuff" you better make 100% sure that she and her family are not hood rats. Its not enough for her to not be a hood rat alone but her brother needs to be out of prison, she needs to know who her dad is or at least met him once, etc. One cousin OD and died the other got shot by the cops in a shootout (at separate times, obviously?) now what do you do? You visit her neighborhood and you get tired of having guns pulled on you or having to pull over for police car chases to go by. Its a lot to deal with even if she as an individual is 100% not a hood rat.
WRT asians don't forget the tiger mom stereotype exists for a reason, you need to make sure that she and maybe your MiL are not going to ruin your kids lives by beating them for not doing enough math homework or whatever. Also if your house has an extra bedroom, MiL will more or less appropriate it which is its own weird form of birth control, either you pretty much bang her daughter in front of her (maybe she likes watching?) or no sex.
This is not imaginary its all stuff I've seen coworkers have to deal with.

>>33926599 (OP)
Character is obviously the most important but you have to be able to sus it out. Green flags:
>healthy family background, like parents are happily married
>engaged in some kind of real hobbies and communities
>has a group of respectable friends
>at least shares your appetite for debauchery. Like if you dont party/drink/smoke then she shouldn't either
>obviously same views on sex and intimacy
This doesnt necessarily have anything to do with race or ethnicity, although there are of course trends with certain groups.

>where I come from women quite literally are just here to fuck around
Where? The problem is normally not being able to find modest women in easy places. If youre only looking for women at clubs you obviously have a selection bias

>>33926807
jfc why do americans think that entire world is america