Thread 33926855

Never go to therapy anons, the people shilling this shit are often "therapists" themselves, which are grifters. These parasites need to get a real job, starve them out.

IGNORE THERAPY POSTERS AS THEY ARE MOSTLY THERAPISTS SHILLING THEIR GRIFT

100% agree
they talk their gibberish keywords for an hour then pocket cash and you are left the same way as before but with a lighter wallet

>>33926855 (OP)
Felt.

affirmative. my experiences with therapists have all been "but how does that make you feel" "oh try not to feel that way that sucks anon :("

if you want problem solving just go to a psychiatrist that also has training in therapy. preferably a male (regardless of if you yourself are a man or a woman)

it is all about what you make out of the therapy. if you view it as an obligation or try to prove the therapist wrong because of some agenda, it is not going to work. if you disagree with the therapist, explain to them, why. reason with them. all they can do is talk, they are not magicians

>>33926855 (OP)
I think AI can help but yeah therapy does nothing for me accept make me angrier about things I will never accept

>>33926855 (OP)
No arguments from me.

>>33927884
4chan autists and various losers have to hate therapy by default because therapy is a tool one can use to self-improve. Spergs and incels HATE self-improvement. If there exists a legitimate way to acknowledge and work on your own issues that means they're responsible for their own lives and well beings. Their worldview of "its everyone else's fault that I'm like this and there's nothing I can do" does not allow for the existence of therapy as a useful tool. They're allergic to taking responsibility for anything. If they can convince themselves and everyone else that therapy is like a feminist/jewish scam or whatever then they can successfully justify remaining losers forever.

>>33926855 (OP)
You pay them a full day's wage (x2-7 times) for effectively a personalized psychology pamphlet. ChatGPT will outcompete them

>>33927884
>they are not magicians
read: "if it doesn't work you can't complain, did you REALLY expect them to fix YOU?"
Then what the fuck are you paying for, are they just paid friends for white women? If you're fucked up enough to need them they're incompetent or will jail you.

>>33928511
>Then what the fuck are you paying for
The same thing you pay a personal trainer for, moron. Giving the personal trainer money isn't going to make you build muscle and lose fat. Listening to their advice, following through and putting in the hard work they ask of you is whats going to do it. If you pay a personal trainer to help you and then when you get to the gym you sit on your phone the whole time then no shit it doesn't work.

>If you're fucked up enough to need them they're incompetent or will jail you.
You have absolutely no clue what you're talking about.

>>33928450
You sound like someone who smokes c0ck for a living. Tell us about your relationship with your father.

>>33928545
Anon I'm saying I tried 3 and their advice was shit, irrelevant, or stated the obvious. They took a massive amount of money for doing literally nothing. When I was a kid I didn't talk to them and just sat in a corner and they made my cashier mom pay for it. After that one of them was literally on their phone for multiple sessions. The next one tried pressuring me along even when I was done with him to "check up on me"
I swear it's a fucking lobby recommending these people like they're reverent fix-alls. They're the scum of the earth.

>>33928476
Free with health insurance.
>>33926855 (OP)
Just don't see a woman therapist because women don't have real problems. I got a male therapist I trust because I had met him outside of that setting. But I think you're right about many of them.

>>33928836
That is not really how free works.

>>33926855 (OP)
I think therapy is only beneficial in the sense that you can vent to someone if you have nobody else to talk to.
It can't really do much beyond that. The therapist will at least pretend go give a shit and that might be a psychological release for you. Highly depends on your personality.

>>33928545
I fucking hate you people. People tell you can't snap out of depression but the moment you go to therapy they expect you snap out of depression and listen to their advice. What a fucking bullshit, I hope one day this sector will fucking die. Let me tell you why therapy doesn't work on the people you guys calling "losers" and "autists", because they are not moron like you, all therapy techniques basically just lying to yourself and forcing yourself to believe it and just like religion, you have to not think for that. Worst part is therapy just blames you the moment you think otherwise. All these people who defend therapy like their most precious in the world says "you can't expect miracle cure" I'm not expecting miracle cure, I went to therapy many times for treatment, not cure, but instead I became much worse, as I said before, therapy blames you if you are a thinking being, it's just modern religion.

therapy can be quite valuable, but you need to both
1. be lucky enough to find a therapist who has a clue and actually gets you
2. be mature enough to commit to a process of getting better and putting in the work, instead of assuming that chatting with someone once a week is somehow going to fix the problem
2 in particular is going to be a problem for 4chan users, who by and large are resentful narcissists convinced that everyone and everything else is the problem and that the world owes them something. they are safe and comfortable where they are in life, even though they know it's unsatisfying.

>>33928450
Not an incel but there is genuinely a lot of underwhelming therapists that just listen to your problems and give very vague suggestions to improve your mental health. Not saying you should shop for therapists that affirm your beliefs but I genuinely think many self-help books and online self-improvement courses/programs are not only better but much cheaper.

How about career and job counseling? Because I could seriously use the help.

>>33928602
notice how you have no argument and you're literally proving his point

>>33930042
Yeah exactly. I tried to off myself a year ago because I thought I was a monster and deserved to die. Went to therapy and all it taught me was that I wasn't the issue, it was everything and everyone else. My therapist was not happy about it and it was a bit hilarious watching her stutter and circle around her bullshit. Even funner when I gave her a one star review and she tried messaging me asking what's up when she said I was fault for doing the same.

>>33926855 (OP)
>>35742823

>>33926855 (OP)
>>35747026

>>33926855 (OP)
They are literally Satanists.

>>33928450
>Guy who says everything is your own fault the moment something bad happens to him: This isn't my fault!

This why therapist are bullshit and how you win at life. No one successful ever takes the blame even when they know without a doubt it was their fault. Life takes two to tango, fagots like you try to claim that every person is some omnipresent god that has full control over every grain of sand in life. They refuse to listen or actually admit that you do not control everything, and that the issue is for most of us is that they don't even have a tiny amount of control over anything.

>>33931675
>wahhhh i have no control in my life stop telling me i do you're jewish!
you sound like a fucking woman lmao. absolutely pathetic excuse for a human being.

>>33931800
What sort of woman respond to a post just to say nonsense?

>>33930556
Notice how you didn’t answer my question?

>>33931957
>n-no u!
thank god you won't be passing on your genes

>>33932005
i'm not >>33928450 and i'm not rereading the thread to find your question as i already know it's not worth wasting time on.

>>33926855 (OP)
NOT FACT