Thread 936294553

>be me
>be an incel
>Want a real connection with a woman
>grocery store run
>tired of women only speaking to me when they want labor
>walking down aisle
>random woman: "can you help me reach that?"
>lol nah
>"how about you hop on Tinder, swipe on some of those guys — maybe one of them will help you"
>she just stands there, stunned
>"no, I just need you to get something off the top shelf for me"
>"you're a strong, independent woman, right? figure it out"
>walk away without looking back
>felt like justice
>no more being free labor
>mfw she wouldn’t even acknowledge me if she didn’t want something

>>936294553 (OP)
>femoid hate?
Femoid hate.

>>936295557
femoid hate, indeed

>>936294553 (OP)
The older you get, the more you realize how much of your generosity is used against you, and at some point, you just fucking snap.
Then everyone stands around, picks their nose, and wonders what happened.
It fucking sucks that nobody pays it forward, and most don't realize that it doesn't work until it's too late.
However, you did the right thing today. Start in small steps, become comfortable with setting up boundaries and limits, and always be sure that who you are doing a favor for, will pay you back.

>>936295817
Thanks for your thoughtful reply. I’ve definitely been burned a lot over the years, and setting boundaries is something I’m still learning to do without shutting people out completely. I feel bad for being so rude.

Your perspective really hits home — it’s a tough balance, but important. I appreciate the reminder to start small and be mindful about who deserves my time and energy. Thanks again for the insight.