Thread 937193321

>I make a new friend
>I pass their trust test
>I no longer trust them
>The relationship gets strained
>I make a new friend
>I pass their trust test
>I no longer trust them
>The relationship gets strained
>I make a new friend
>I pass their trust test
>I no longer trust them
>The relationship gets strained
>I make a new friend
Eventually I figured out what was happening and just point it out during the "test" and that strains the relationship too.
When does it end?

fit in or fuck off

>>937193321 (OP)
Trust in the poopoo throte

What kind of test would that be? Is it just a feeling or a situation they put you in?

>>937194872
Getting fucked in the butt with no condom

>>937194872
the most common one is they message you on an alt account and try to figure how you really feel about things, see if you act differently around different people
or they send a compromising photo "by accident" to see how you handle it
shit like that

>>937195132
Ah yes, standard friendship trial period behavior.

>>937193321 (OP)
happened to me twice this month, rly annoying
I take it as somehow onadvertently attracting non-fren material

>>937195180
I never did that to other people. It seems weird to me, I either trust people until they break my trust accidentally (usually forgivable) or don't trust someone from the start. I didn't always distrust someone for these tests but the type of person who does this keeps doing it. Gets to the point of being insulting.

>>937195291
Hi Fren.

>>937195325
Hi hi
I think maybe my bullshit tolerance & fake frenliness-capacity went down
If so, good.
but maybe.

>>937195295
Oh wow, thats weird ass people you made friends with. does it happen often to you??

>>937195501
It's asking a lot these days. We'll make it, fren.

>>937195597
Yeah, I'm a weird guy and the only people I get a chance to befriend are also weird. I understand sometimes they are people with trust issues, other times they are just trying to torment someone. Just difficult to keep caring after so many times.

>>937195735
WAGMI yes, it's more I feel bad for having to ghost basically but I can only deal with so many insults (and the thing is they just stay not sorry no takesbacksies like so... so I just don't take them backsies eventually)
it is what it is, new better frens tomorrow.

>>937195959
I know what you mean, but I definitely was in the wrong sometimes. It's important to follow up is someone isn't apologizing, sometimes I was wrong in my interpretation and I wonder how many times that happened and I did not ask.

>>937195852
...No, dude. That's some kinda psycho shit. You made a good call not trusting people who would do "trust tests" Fuck that. I've never even heard of shit like before.

>>937196250
90% women do that in my experience. Eventually they just tested to see if I am a liberal and I failed each time. Now they DNI. Fuck politics.

>>937196097
Dont feel bad, those people put you in situations in which they expect something out of you without any warnings. Maybe they do have trust issues but overall, thats not your responsibility, youre not in the wrong (or most of the time) they just need to understand testing someone is actually a sign in itself that they're a shitty friend. Its not over, i can guarantee you that even among the weird people not all of them do weird trust tests. Sending luck for the future :p

>>937196404
I know. I held onto some friends but everyone goes away in the end. High rate of suicide among the terminally online. It's also really easy to just abandon groups if they felt embarrassed. I've known some people who flee simply because they got clowned on for using the wrong word! It was just a bit of fun!
But they did not stick around for any explanation or apology.

>>937196097
that's not an issue anon, someone can not be fren material just for not respecting you in some obscure way, as long as it's something you actuallt do need. it can simply be an intellectual fatal incompatibility.
>follow up if someone isn't apologizing
I really don't believe in that, if I'm totally done seething and they have shown zero remorse or understanding at that point it's simply over.
I don't keep friends out of pity, if they don't get me they're factually not my friends.
>>937196250
I would call it "towing", like they're trying to get a hook in you and have you drag them around town 24/7.
>>937196404
>put you in situations in which they expect something out of you without any warnings
that's precisely it, it feels like sexual misconduct. like a dog humping my leg, that is not the behavior of an equal and I can't lower myself like that.

>>937196587
Something ive been wondering is where do you find those people? Because the place where most terminally online people go are Discord, is it where you find them? Its probably a weird question but im really curious. i never had people do those kind of tests to me

>>937193321 (OP)
What fucking tests are these people giving you?
Normal people don’t do that shit.

>>937196944
And twitter.
I am an oldfag but I bet the younger people have similar experiences on instagram and tiktok, etc.

>>937197197
Read the thread, Edtuardo.

>>937197262
I did. I am no like interested in discussion. This type of behavior isn’t normal, don’t answer messages from people you don’t know.
Stranger Danger.
This is retarded as hell.

>>937193321 (OP)
What trust test? Where are you making friends everyone's trust testing you? The mob?

>>937197410
You are more retarded than you know. It has been worth it for the good memories with good friends, even if it always ends. Or you're a bot that is scrambling for context and can't actually read the thread.

>>937197479
>>937197262

>>937197231
Are you schizophrenic by chance?

>>937197231
Oh yeah there's no doubts that the younger parts does it too, ive heard people my age do it too but i thought it was only a matter of age until they grow up. Youre going to tell me people still do that later on in life instead of not doing 12 years old trust tests? Im sorry im just surprised that its still a problem later on in life.

>>937197600
Oh I did.
This isnt normal. At all.
You're schizophrenic, lying, or you have found a very, very weird place to meet people.

You might as well had come.here and said "I dont like fishing cause of all the 5 eyed fish im catching. Don't you guys hate it when that happens?"

Stop lying. Or take meds. Or find another lake cause the one youre fishing in is an eldritch portal. The answer to your question is one of these three.

Why exactly are you trying to make friends like fr almost all my friends have always been my friends not the other way around lol

>>937197774
I don't think you have read the thread because you are singling me out while other people have had the same experience. Are you even aware of where you are?
>>937197780
So you have no awareness of a time before your friends were your friends? Interesting.

>>937198193
I am reading a lot of sarcasm from other people.
No it is not normal for people to be tested by everyone they meet with fake profiles and manipulation. Nothing about any of that is normal.

Like >>937195180 is obvious sarcasm and you're engaging with it. So Im gonna guess autism on you as well.

>>937197774
Bot? Logfag? Both?
One of these is the answer.

>>937198412
Can't it just be an exaggeration? I think perhaps you aren't suited for this lake if you can only think of three possibilities at once.

>>937198543
nta, be patient with him. I think he may have autism.

>>937198608
Good call, fren. Anyone ever tell you that you have a kind heart?

>>937198726
many times fren. but before I believe them they have to pass my Fren Test.

>>937198984
Are you sure?

>>937199367
no! :^)

>>937199505
Good luck weirdo fren.

>>937199537
(it was a joke, over)

>>937199569
And my post was a callback.

>>937199914
What funny frens we are.