Thread 938313036

Should I tell females I want marriage and family even though I only want to fuck em and chuck em?

>>938313036 (OP)
sure - what the heck!
it can't get any worse!

>>938313036 (OP)
I mean, it won't be the first time she's heard yo baby I'll buy you a hotdog and take care of you forever. They know the game and they are down to fuck too, maybe not you, just be honest and keep it private you know?

>>938313245
Oh okay I be smooth, and say I'm looking for long term. Little does she know my standards are impossibly high and long term will basically never happen.

>>938313036 (OP)
should I say "go for it", even though I only want to beat you to a pulp, like we used to do with guys like you?

>>938313036 (OP)
good luck doing it any other way but they'll catch your bluff later on.

>>938316097
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>>>938313036 (OP) (OP)
>good luck doing it any other way but they'll catch your bluff later on.

>>938316097
didnt mean to do that i meant to say it requires so much energy texting and making up conversation. my plans for the future is NOT text but only hang out in person til we fuck

>>938316032
Who the fuck is we, nigger?

>>938316350
homosexuals that were forced into heterosexual marriages

>>938316449
You think I'm a stinky Pajeet? No one is being forced to marry anyone.

>>938313036 (OP)
Nah, the sluts into getting fucked and chucked, tend to avoid guys who want kids and marriage.

>>938316543
you sound like one. can smell your accent from here.

>>938316617
You computar haz wyrus, send itunes gift card pls

>>938313245
>>938313389
This. Modern women have been rehearsing hook ups their entire lives. The willing will be on to the next in a few days time. Get in there and scoop out someone else's baby batter you absolute player.

>>938316610
I think the key takeaway here is to try different strategies.

>>938316694
I only want butthole. Should I just be gay? Girls have nice butts tho

>>938316714
He could try for actual love and see if marriage and kids sounds so bad to him once he finds it.

>>938316684
to redeem or not to redeem?

>>938316803
I'm saying you should seek out good girls above all else. You won't find them on apps.

>>938317094
>seek
Like where? Oh god, you not going to recommend church are you? What denomination?

>>938316821
>see if marriage and kids sounds so bad to him once he finds it.
Sounds like a trick. Once I'm at this point it's too late

>>938317221
Anything but Judaism. Jewish women are like town bicycles passed around the homeless and anyone who wants to hitch a free ride.

>>938317437
>Once I'm at this point it's too late
Yeah anon, beware of the trap of a legacy and the sense of fulfillment one can derive from being an active part in building a good society for your kids to raise their own kids in.

>>938313036 (OP)
She'll have 5 guys on the go. So sure why not, play her at her own game. But if you suspect shes actually decent, don't do it, let the moralfag within win

>>938317701
>legacy
Legacy of what? You're assuming I'm not a broke loser who lives in a studio apartment. Not everyone deserves a legacy Anon

>>938317834
>Not everyone deserves a legacy Anon
You build a legacy anon, it's not something that is handed to you.

>>938317968
Build with what? Wages have not gone up in 18 years and opportunities are very limited. And it doesn't help that the government brings in millions of foreigners each year. Explain how I build a legacy with basically no money?

>>938318041
If I have to tell you, then you don't know. It's so obvious it doesn't need explanation.

>>938318041
>Explain how I build a legacy with basically no money?
You don't have to make a corporate empire to build a legacy, it can also be about upholding certain principles and values that gets you recognition and respect in a community that will remember that and give your kids a chance once they get to the point of joining the work force of that community.
>>938318131
Piss off, don't speak for me.

>>938318182
What community? You mean the Pajeets Niggers and Chinese? It's Canada bro we got rid of community a long time ago.

>>938318234
I dunno man, does you local community center have a defeatist whiny faggot club that you can attend or something?

>>938318294
It just seems like a very steep hill to climb. My dad never cared much about me so I dunno how I could be a father, even if I magically had the money. I don't really desire a wife and kids but something tells me I should want these.

>>938318380
>It just seems like a very steep hill to climb.
Are you content and comfortable at the bottom of that hill?
>My dad never cared much about me so I dunno how I could be a father, even if I magically had the money.
What happened between you and your dad?
> I don't really desire a wife and kids but something tells me I should want these.
I mean some people don't want it, but all of us are sort of born with that goal embedded in our instincts, living up to it is an individual choice though.

>>938318516
>What happened between you and your dad?
Nothing, that's the problem. Parents split up when I was 5 and dad was supposed to see me on weekends but he often felt it was more important to drink beer and be hung over instead. As an adult I tried having a relationship with the guy but he just doesn't care. This has affected my self-esteem my entire life.

>>938318591
How was your mom during your childhood?

>>938318635
Overbearing and extremely controlling. Always yelling at me because of her untreated mental problems. Even today she won't treat me like an adult. (I moved out years ago and can support myself)

>>938318795
Have you ever tried to ask your dad if she broke him down too and if that is why he drinks?
It's kind of hard to be a good dad if your self esteem has been bulldozed thoroughly.

>>938318896
Both parents blame each other for the collapse of the marriage, and I think they both make valid points.

Look, not everyone NEEDS to be married and have kids. This anonymous message board is a great place to let off some steam and test my stupidest ideas. I promise I can act like a normal person in real life.

>>938313036 (OP)

Women don't want marriage, though they're perfectly on-board with having several kids with several different men (none of whom offer any support, financial or otherwise).

Your best bet is to behave like an absolute nigger/bastard, treat them like shit, and (whenever possible) speak as though there's a nail hammered into your brain. They LOVE that sort of thing.
If you want sex, do not even attempt to seem respectable.

>>938318993
>Look, not everyone NEEDS to be married and have kids.
True, but the vast majority of people would feel more accomplished and happier if they managed to build a good marriage with a good spouse. Some people don't want that and that is fine, you can also build a legacy without having kids.
>This anonymous message board is a great place to let off some steam and test my stupidest ideas.
Always was, more so in the past before all of the viral influencing shills and government IT departments from various nations started spamming here.
This place was dark and vile in most part because it enabled people to be decent and nice in real life.
>I promise I can act like a normal person in real life.
Did you also have to practice and study to achieve that?

>>938319310
>Did you also have to practice and study to achieve that?
Yes, I am trying to figure out what local sports teams I should pretend to like.

>>938319368
Kek, I've learned many things, but feigning interest in sports is still completely beyond me.

>>938319310
>build a legacy
You’ll remain memorable for about 12 months.

>>938319252
From what I can see, marriage for women is like winning the lottery. I can't fault women for wanting financial security! It's a reasonable expectation. But what I also see is that marriage can be like a prison for men, where they are expected to provide a certain living standard (at the expense of their time, health, and well-being) which, on the face of it is reasonable, but the problem is the ever changing demands of women. Females can start to act funny when married and change their wants and desires on a whim. Expectations of women change when a man meets all their expectations. I will never understand the female mind and don't want to be troubled with any attempts to do so. Women are an erratic force of nature that must be controlled to some extent.

>>938319593
Oh hey misery, are you looking for company?

>>938319612
>Expectations of women change when a man meets all their expectations.
I meant, women's expectations of men change when men meet all of women's expectations. Have you ever had a job where you can't work too hard, because then the management will ALWAYS expect you to work that hard??

>>938319687
Don’t be a narc. Live in the moment and stop worrying about what happens when you’re gone.

>>938319793
>stop worrying about what happens when you’re gone.
Based. Thtis is why I don't feel the need to have a "legacy". If I can one day afford that, great. I'll have a wonderful legacy. But if I'm destined to be a permanently broke loser, well, I have to do that the best I possibly can.

>>938319793
I live in the moment while having a long term goal, the legacy thing isn't about being remembered forever after I'm gone, it's about knowing that I at least tried to leave this place better than I found it.
Delayed gratification is just sweeter.

>>938319877
>I have to do that the best I possibly can.
And doing that is your legacy.

>>938319911
Your lifespan is too finite for anything to be considered long-term. Stop chatting shit. You’ve probably never helped anyone down bad in your entire life, yet you’re harping on about leaving the place in a better shape than you found it? You virtue signalling retard.

>>938320062
Hey you're the one with rigid parameters for what a legacy is, in reality it is just what you life was defined by while you were alive.
If you did the best you possibly could, that would be your legacy.

>>938320123
It would be great if I could earn some real money. Instead I have to live in shithole Canada.

>>938320106
Okay anon, talk shit to the version of me that you have invented in your head, doesn't matter to me.
I like aiming for something and I have in fact helped people who were down bad a bunch of times. I haven't condemned you anon, if you're all Hakuna Matata and no plans that's great, you do that.
I know I'll continue doing me no matter how pessimistic about my chances you are, because in the end I'm the one living my life and you aren't.

>>938320123
I don't want to be remembered. Promise you'll forget about me.

>>938320497
Done, I don't even know who you are in the first place.

>>938320441
You’re not going to receive a posthumous award because you separated your recyclables from your trash. Do whatever you want, but stop pretending there’s something deep about your personal accomplishments. The only person who’s ever going to value you, or anything you do, is you.

>>938320649
>but stop pretending there’s something deep about your personal accomplishments. The only person who’s ever going to value you, or anything you do, is you.
But there is something deep about my accomplishments, because I value myself and what I have done so far.
I also disagree with you, I've got several people who value me and the things I do.
Now you might have some long string of reasons for why they don't really feel like that and good luck convincing me of any of them.
If nothing really matters, why are you trying to push your opinion and perspective down my throat anyway?
Doesn't seem very enjoyable.

>>938320849
Step outside of yourself for one moment and look at the bigger picture: you’re made up of atoms. You’re going to die. No one is going to remember you, me or anyone else. Death is natural. You will die. Your accomplishments will fade along with you.

>>938320968
Yes that is all true, I still like having a goal I myself have set and doing things that I know are for the good for more people than myself.
I'm not saying I'm changing the entire planet and indelibly influencing everyone I meet for the better, but I'm doing whatever I can manage in regards to what I see as doing good.
Yeah everything and everyone will once pass and my particular life will be forgotten, but that shit is after my death and a waste of time to dwell on.
If I get to die with the feeling that I did my best to live a good life, according to the ideas and things that I find important, I'll die happy.

>>938320968
Most of what you said is wrong, for instance, The Pharos are still remembered for their accomplishments, and will more than likely be remembered for ever while the discovery or electricity and how to produce it will live forever. If you're religious, then Jesus will be remember forever and the Earth will change but never die...Your statements are provably false!

>>938320968
You've been quiet for some time now anon.

If you want to get laid probably. If you want to be a man with integrity no.

seed em and sneed em