>>938509655
>just fake it.
If you want to just get laid, then alright.
>simply talk about her and not about you.
That's half the battle. You still need to guide the conversation somewhere. Remember: women aren't logical and they'll associate the feelings they feel in your presence with you and if she's going on and on and on about the bullshit she had to deal with at work that day then all of a sudden *you* feel like bullshit she had to deal with at work to her subconscious and now she's "not in the mood."
So it's is indeed about listening to her, no doubt about that. But it's FAR MORE IMPORTANT to springboard off her topics to half steps toward sexy and intimate things until 20 minutes to an hour later that's what you two are talking about. If you can't get to a girl to talk to you about how she met the biggest crush of her life in 20 minutes of meeting her, you're not doing so hot.
>treat her well
WRONG. Dead wrong.
You treat her like your bratty teen sister. No princess treatment, unless she does something truly queenly.
>and do all the basics
... well that's nebulous as fuck.
>ask about her day.
Okay, that's fine.
>tell her good morning every morning
Jesus fucking christ, no. GOD fucking no.
You take a 3 sided dice. If you roll a 1 you don't say shit. If you roll a 2 or a 3 you say good morning.
They did the experiment with mice. This is how addiction works:
Group 1 pressed a button? They got nothing. Showed no interest in the button.
Group 2 pressed a button? They got a treat. They only showed interest in the button when they were hungry and ignored it the rest of th etime.
Group 3 pressed a button? They randomly got a treat. They became OBSESSED with the button. It was a cosmic mystery to them. Why did only sometimes do button give a treat? Some sort of grand puzzle for them to solve.
Your neo cortext might recognize the one-armed bandit in front of you but your mammalian and lizard brains are mesmerized.
You DO NOT become predictable
Women hate that
