Ah wait forgot to answer them myself lol
> When did you first find out that you were gay/bi? Was it sudden, gradual or kind of always present?
I never really made distinctions between my male friends and female friends. In public and on TV I would usually see romance only between guys and girls but I sometimes wondered why it couldn't just be with guys as well. But I thought I'd figure it out when I'd grow up. Then when I was 11, we got a gay prime minister and there was quite some talk about it. I know my parents had voted for him, so I went to look up what being gay was and before I knew it I ran up to my mom and said "Ech sinn en Homo mee ech hunn och gär Meedercher!!!" (I'm a homo but I also like girls!!!" and my sister, who was eavesdropping, absolutely lost it and laughed with tears because of the way I worded it.
> What is a trait you always look for in a partner?
An open book. I don't like it when you try to date someone and that person doesn't fully tell what they want, how to deal with certain things, etc. I just wanna play with open cards and work towards the best solution instead of keeping secrets. Just trust me, and I won't violate that trust :)
> What is a trait you really like about yourself? (No, depressedanons, "nothing" is not an answer)
Basically that I'm a troll who can make fun of everything. Even when I'm very down, I try to make some jokes to lighten the mood.
>>939277725
Ayyyy big cakes gang! And oh lord, I would've screamed if I suddenly woke up next to someone I didn't expect to be in my bed XDDD I kinda get the doomerism given that this ain't the easiest path in life, but we must not lose hope <3
>>939277786
Then you haven't met my friend yet!
>>939278093
Oh god I also don't like the macho stereotype. I remember when I saw Ruadhán and I thought "Jayzus... my friend hooked me up to a jock..." but the more we talked, the more I realised "this guy is just a big teddy bear!"