>>22872568Cope.
The real reason you never even try to get girls is because you are neurotic and have crippling social anxiety and irrational fears of women and rejection and face to face social interactions with strangers.
The are plenty of high quality girls out there, and you could get one for your gf/wife, but it would require you to face and overcome your fears and actually go out and approach and talk to girls and risk getting rejected.
So instead, you resolve the cognitive dissonance that this creates by telling yourself that the real reason you are foreveralone is ackshully because women aren't good enough for you, and it isn't even worth trying to get one. This isn't true, but it makes you feel good because now you can tell yourself it's not your fault. The reason you don't have a gf isn't because you aren't doing the things men do to get a gf, it's because those dumb mean girls aren't good enough for you.
It is very similar to how the most unattractive fat/ugly women will claim to have insanely high standards/expectations for men, and say they deserve and won't settle for anything less than a tall, handsome, rich, exciting, 6-6-6 man who will treat her like a princess. That allows her to rationalize her perpetual singleness being caused by men not being good enough for her, rather than the truth that no men want her because she is fat/ugly.