Thread 23097587

>dating apps dont work
>approaching girls doesnt work

How the fuck are young men supposed to meet women in 2025?

my chad friend goes on like three hookups per week on tinder. you might just be ugly I guess.

hate woman

ask your dad how he met your mom

>>23097587 (OP)
they dont we dont need more people

>>23097587 (OP)
you wait till a woman approaches you, then report her to police

>>23097587 (OP)
idk bro, i've been approached by multiple women just recently. i think the best strat is to just be out there, have hobbies and talk to people (especially women). it feels like there's unironically so many lonely women everywhere, if they aren't on tinder like 60% of young women who have never ever been there, chances are that hardly even been hit on by men and they'd appreciate almost any genuine attention. just reminder, if you're handsome, you can manage social awkwardness. if you're not that handsome, you need some social skills first.

They aren't. Why haven't you dumb fucks figured this out yet? The kikes have aligned everything against you to destroy you. They hate you and you refuse to even recognize the hand that beats you, let alone do anything about it.

mail order

>>23097588
Those aren't potential wives though, those are onaholes with legs.

Autists and ugly people shouldn't reproduce anyway. Just goon to porn instead and leave the beautiful and charismatic people to reproduce

>>23097590
My dad met my mom at a church dance. My local church used to host a dinner dance for young people to help them meet. They stopped doing this decades ago because churches do not give a fuck about the youth like most things in life. That same church today does blind date events for people 40 and older though

>>23097587 (OP)
walk up, look them in the eye, and give them a firm handshake

>>23097587 (OP)
Maybe stop being a little bitch. Photo is exactly how I met my ex, minus the cigarette.

>approaching girls doesnt work
Proof? Tell me what happened on your last three approaches, and when you did them (btw if it was less than three in the last week that's your problem).

>>23097587 (OP)

>Be Pakistani
>Move to UK
>Rape whoever you want, whenever you want
>Police protect you

Just be Pakistani, simple as

I got cheated by every LTR I ever had, so I'm pretty much over dating.

>>23097593
this guy gets it. the general idea is to COMMUNICATE, TALK and S O C I A L I S E

>>23097587 (OP)
With rope and an unmarked rental van.

>>23097593

You're Finngolian with Asiatic eyes. I'm watching you.

>>23097596
This.
They're meaningless and futureless.

pull you're selves by the bootstraps

>>23097603
Did you have sex before marriage? :^)

>>23097596
>>23097607
How would you know unless you actually go on dates? Which you don't because you're demoralizing yids or 'jeets. Kys.

>>23097603
Because you dont wear the pants in your relationships. Women monkey bar from relationship to relationship. Instead of breaking up, she'll cheat. Get over it. They saved you time.

>>23097609
my body count is in the 70's.

>>23097598
bro churches are a thing of the past as of now. its not even their fault. people just dont go churches anymore , unless its some small/remote city with people who know each other

>>23097587 (OP)
Just bee urself.

people who say "approaching doesn't work" are just massive pussies who can't handle getting rejected irl. that's all it is. yes, it's going to be scary at first and the mean woman might even shut you down (how dare they). who cares. i used to hit on women by asking them if they use tinder and then telling them it's a waste of time I'm already here. just make it a joke a like that if you're really worried cause then if it doesn't work you can both at least have a laugh and move on

>>23097587 (OP)
>>dating apps dont work
>>approaching girls doesnt work
Doesn't work for who?

>>23097603
>Some BVLL mindbroke this anon so hard he gave up all future women
Damn, brutal. More for him, though.

Wow. An INCEL thread. You don't see enough of these posted here anymore.

>>23097587 (OP)
you should go to the perfume shop and let out a quiet stink
they love this shit

>>23097590
He wants to date women, not trannies

It's not the same as the early 2000s where you could just hang outside a bar or a club, smoke some cigarettes and talk to girls. Most Gen Z don't smoke cigarettes because they're vaping 24/7. Every time I try to approach a woman, they're extremely rude to me for no reason, likely because it's funny to their girlfriends and/or they want clout. It doesn't matter how much social skills you have, or how tall you are, or handsome. It really doesn't. It's a split-second decision in their brains to be as bratty and bitchy as possible to an approaching man and try to crush his confidence. They unironically feel good about it. When they're alone, it's different, but they're never alone.

>>23097611
>muh get over it
yeah dude haha I'll just put my big boy pants on and knock up some whore who'll get bored in 3 years time because some random Chad gave her tingles in an elevator once.
Fuck outta here, women are disgusting sociopathic animals.

>>23097611
>get over it
why are western men such cuckolds?
>we empowered women to be major cheating sluts, get over it pussy
What culture are conservatives even fighting for anymore? Beer fights at the bar?

>>23097615
True if you bash your head into a brick wall enough times the wall will eventually break

Buy a house. Then your female relatives will view you as "marriage material" and set you up with their friends.

>>23097587 (OP)
I met my wife on tinder. Took me 9 months on the apps.

>>23097612
>my body count is in the 70's.

So probably you have a reputation as a player and you're only attracting sluts.
Actual good girls (if there even are any in 2025) would steer clear of you

>>23097590
My dad was a star athlete that busted both knees at once and lost his scholarship and when he had to settle for votec, the woman 4 years older than him that wouldn't date him in high school figured out she didn't want to marry a welfare provider. They were both able to be promiscuous in their youth, I was not. My dad went after a woman who grew up on welfare because he could tell she at least wasn't stupid and wasn't fucked up on drugs like many women in the 70s.

>>23097596
You faggots just keep making up endless excuses to not be attracted to women. You want a REAL red pill you man child? Here's one. You geeks cry and whine and bitch about wanting a "trad wife" and a "trad life" but fact of the matter is youre completely useless in ANY situation where an actual man is needed. I do construction and I would never want any of you under developed emotional womanly children working with me, you would probably literally die if you were put into a position to protect yourself let alone your "trad wife"

>>23097622
>women are disgusting sociopathic animals
>>23097612

>>23097627
>actual good girls
never met one

>>23097587 (OP)
once you meet a beautiful woman, have sex with her, marry her, have kids and all that... YOU WILL REGRET IT

ENJOY YOUR FUCKING TIME AS A SINGLE! If I could go back in time, I would slap myself and tell me to not get a fucking girlfriend and enjoy my life

>>23097587 (OP)
I'm sure it all works for most people if you keep trying.
I literally have never tried.

>>23097596
One of those will be your future wife

>>23097630
key and lock analogy, nigger. Men have to be desirable to have sex, women don't.
Also I will always always cheat on every girl.

>>23097609
I had way more sex before marriage than after. That's why ya'll need to stop being little bitches. You know what the easiest way is to get laid? Stop giving a fuck. No woman is thinks "oh he's so sensitive and great to talk to and super responsive to my calls/texts, I want him to fuck me so bad." Literally zero.

>>23097610
because none of them are virgins, now fuck off

>>23097631
They're literal unicorns. Make of that what you will.

>>23097632
Monogamy is supposed to be gatekept by men like sex is gatekept by women.
Oftentimes men forget this and slip into desperate tfw no gf thinking.

>>23097590
they worked together at a fast food place. I refuse to ever work fast food again so that ain't gonna work

>>23097636
These kids dont actually want to have sex, believe me if they wanted to have sex they would have sex.

>>23097593
>if you're handsome, you can manage social awkwardness. if you're not that handsome, you need some social skills first
The post could’ve just been this

>>23097633
I got in halfway decent shape for today's world. Confused men in couples keep hitting on me claiming their girlfriend wants a three way. Women are just scared or intimidated now. I'm not even in shape by my goals, still got a gut. Just big neck and shoulders.

>>23097632
so why cant you be single again? are they holding you hostage?

>>23097587 (OP)
Dude! Don't do it! Enjoy your life! Don't be a moron like us!

>>23097623
Get over it means move on, not forgive. Incel

>>23097635
lol hypocrite. You're like my friend who is a manwhore and complains about women

>>23097637
Who are you talking about? Youre just making up fantasy people and getting angry about it lol

>>23097610
Going on dates with sluts is meaningless. Are you dumb?

>>23097612
Time to look in a mirror.
You complain that it's other people's fault, yet you gloss over your fault.
Not gonna waste more time on helping you.

>>23097627
Oh my sweet summer child. It just doesnt work that way.

>>23097593
but how do you get them actually interested romantically? They always just end up becoming my friend not wanting to date me when i do that.

I feel like approaching girls does work and talking to them isn’t hard it’s just I’m almost never in the mood for the rigmarole when the time arises. I’m too worried about work and making money cause I’m a brokie. The biggest issue is not immediately asking a woman out, like you have a chat with a cute one and you go about your day but then you never get an opportunity to talk to her again so you only get that one chance to try and since you didn’t you’re fucked.

The whole point is that you're not supposed to meet them lol. If they want you they'll make it known themselves. Otherwise you don't have any agency to approach them or shoot your shot. Such is the way in a gynocentric culture.

>>23097643
Supposedly, the most important thing is lowering the woman's anxiety.
Jon zherka says you're supposed to be sitting down or pretending to tie your shoe while asking for a girl's number.

>>23097610
>How would you know
The circumstances of the meeting. Are you retarded.
>>23097629
You can tongue my anus you stupid ranting nigger. I'm already married and have reproduced. Have you?
>>23097634
My wife was a co-worker. We worked together and got closer over time, now we have children together.

>>23097615
to add to this if you shoot your shot and the girl is a total mean bitch about it sometimes the women around her notice they will come to your defense and now you have new women that is already primed that you are, if nothing else, a brave guy. this happened to me at a club one time and one of the girls friends came and apologized to me for her and we had a drink together. just be brave fellas

>>23097587 (OP)
Just beat off to tranny and bbw porn

>>23097647
Men and women are completely different and have completely different goals to achieve. Your mind has been destroyed by feminism and you believe men and women are equals. I'm afraid it's terminal and we need to put you down.

>>23097644
I don't want to be single. I just say that when you are single, there are so many things you can enjoy.

Once you get married, you can't even freely decide if you are going to a restaurant before consulting your girlfriend.

We all did the same mistake of ignoring this tip, and go balls deep into a beautiful girl. Yeah, it feels nice, but... meh... I miss my days as a single.

>>23097587 (OP)
What the fuck does this image mean?

>>23097587 (OP)
>How the fuck are young men supposed to meet women in 2025?
You need to meet them in school, at work, a shared hobby, or through friends or family. If you're a loner, you'll simply have to get in terms with dying alone.

>>23097615
>people who say "approaching doesn't work" are just massive pussies
Partially, but who is really saying this are short, brown, ugly boys who shuffle up to 8/10 cute White girls and the boy mumbles "hi" and stares awkwardly at her tits. Surprise, she is not thrilled.
Furthermore most of you autistic retards, even if average in appearance, cannot comprehend you must receive body language cues before even thinking of approaching her.
Did you meet eyes and she smiled and twirled her hair? Go for it. Did she sneer at you in disgust? Don't go for it, find someone uglier and/or drunker.
It's not fucking rocket science.

>>23097587 (OP)
go to a 3rd world country

>>23097596
All wives are oneholes with legs. Pre-internet you just didn't see it.

>>23097647
incel and manwhore are on the same bell curve because they realise women's true nature.
Women aren't worth being loyal to.
My ex who cucked me after 5 years was flabbergasted when I admitted I fucked other women the whole time, and went into a blind rage upon hearing it, despite being a whire herself lmao.
I just accepted my fate and left her forever that day.

>>23097651
It seems to be a big game they don't know the rules to themselves. Basically enticing their fear center without actually causing terror. It's hard to describe. I fuck up at realizing I had a chance before its too late.

>>23097655
>I'm already married and have reproduced. Have you?
Yeah and Trumps not on the Epstein list

Women choose YOU. If you have never had a gorl give you her # before, If you have never had a woman ask you out for coffee sometime, if you have never been at a party and a drunk slut just started groping you on the couch and making out with you then it's ogre anon. Sorry, maybe get a hobby building birdhouses or something idk.

>>23097653
>If they want you they'll make it known themselves
That won't happen. Men are proactive, woman are reactive in all societies. Men are subjects, women are objects.

>>23097618
i come here exclusively for these. Ain't nobody give a fuck about some culture war bullshit or the evil Jews.

>>23097664
Cope more virgin pajeet/chink with zero prospects.

>>23097629
>I do construction

So what? Me too. I used to work in northern Canada for oil and gas projects. Helicopter and ATV into remote areas.

I still think modern women are trash. They probably always had trash tendencies but they were forced to act better in the past.

>>23097667
Thanks for confirming you're just another brain dead tourist. Now kill yourself.

>>23097668
I’ve been laid with over 80+, 5 long term girlfriends, and I’m married now. Never had a girl “choose me”. Total bullshit in my opinion. Be a Chad and say what you feel and walk away. Rejection is fake.

anyways, want a girl? make her notice you. Being nice to her is something girls are not used to. They will see you as a creep.

Be mean at her, telling her to please move from your sit, and she will think you are an asshole. Girls love assholes.

Having said so, I don't recomend getting a girlfriend. Don't look for her, let her look for you.

Women are for men 40+ years old. Wait your turn cuck.

>>23097627
there are no reputations in modern atomized social hell

>>23097675
Just club her over the head and drag her by the hair back to your cave.

>>23097621
I don't know if this is true but I always intuitively avoided approaching crowds of women (2 is ok but more is never)

>>23097587 (OP)
The roastie thing is a meme. It's a genetic lottery, some vagainas are like that.
My mom for example has a pussy like a baby, you can see the labia
Yet my sister has a big labia even when she was a virgin
Same as the "uncut dicks smell Thing
I am cut and mine smells in just two days of not showering while the dick of my father, who only showers once a week, never smells.

>>23097654
Since getting in shape and actually trying again this year since over a decade, I don't seem to have an issue getting a number if I have spoken to them a bit and they see I'm eccentric and not crazy or unstable, but they don't seem to get why. They will freely give it and reply, but seem to not get why I wanted their number when I ask them on a date. However, having gotten in shape and being denied for years, I am somewhat targeting looks or at least not fat and that's mostly under 30s.

>>23097587 (OP)
>Of the men who did approach women in person over the last year, a substantial number had success. I labeled the percentages of men with zero success to compare. A minority of men, 41.61%, said that they did not make a romantic connection. Most men who approached in person received contact information or went on a date. A little less than half had sex.
Half of the men who approached got sex.
So it's a 50/50 chance.

>>23097669
Untrue. Women are just the same as men. If they like the look of you physically they'll try their luck. Usually more aggressively than a man would because they don't have a history of rejection.

>>23097596
Just knock them up and make them single mothers.

>>23097590
they were legally stuck together by military service

>>23097675
>>23097678
scuff at her as if she was an undesirable fuck, and turn your head away from her.

If she asks why, respond with "Sorry, I was daydreaming, please excuse myself, I really didn't meant to"

>>23097684
>more fatherless niggers running around fucking shit up
If only we could configure our sperm to sterilize women instead of impregnating them.

>>23097602
Yeah but then you're paki

>>23097661
>flirting with women at work
How to stay a virgin and lose your job. There's a reason we have a popular saying "don't put your dick where your mind is".

>>23097610
I know because they use tinder?

I don’t want to date women who use tinder or hang out in bars/clubs.

Nothing wrong with going to a bar or club for a special occasion, but as a general hangout? Gross.

>>23097587 (OP)
Dating apps work, at least here for me, however I see your point.
I know a guy who has exactly 0 matches and even went to a dating event shit and still no luck.

Like top 20% of guys are fucking all the women that are above 6/10. Rest get leftovers or uggos. It's brutal. I'm just glad I'm on the winning side of things.

>>23097625
I have a house, but my female relatives are all crazy cat ladies.

>>23097587 (OP)
Go to Asia and get a girl to approach you

>>23097689
Bro half these guys would be lucky to get a job at the local grocery store. It’s okay to fuck your co-workers when you have an entry level shit job you don’t care about. We aren’t talking about career jobs, by that point, I’d hope you have more common sense and discretion. I think it’s fine to fuck co-workers at jobs you don’t care about.

>>23097680
Kek. You cant be serious. I have no fucking clue what my mom's vagina looks like and I dont care to find out. Mother fucker examining and comparing

>>23097593
>get some social skills before you socialize
This is good stuff, I’m gonna write that down.

>>23097625
Hasn’t happened to me, but all my bitch friends are kinda like those crazy cat ladies just 30 years too young.

>>23097687
It's all cooked anyway, man. At least some fatherless White babies can be born.

>>23097693
I hate women.

>>23097587 (OP)
Why's she look all cartoony like ai drew her or something?

>>23097691
How exactly do they "work" for you.
I actually think they would work for me too, but i haven't tried.

>>23097681
Give the most recent example of how you asked her out. Word for word.

>>23097684
they'll abort it

>>23097587 (OP)
you just know she's been fucking ran through by 50 different men

>>23097685
Anyone who says B is a gay retard virgin

>>23097695
It's still a bad idea. Same industry, yes. I don't drink but I'm friends with a lot of the bar and actual service people in my city. They mostly date each other but pretty much never someone where they also work. They do help each other get jobs and network through it too.

>>23097587 (OP)
I like to read, so I think, hey, I'll so somewhere I can read, and maybe there will be other people there reading too. So I go to the coffee shop. But they have music playing there, so I can't read. I don't know if there is a social place you can go and read. Maybe the library. I think they really don't like people reading in public. Even the bookstore has music playing. This place, man. Fucking barbarians.

>>23097681
You want a gf and can't get one?

>>23097694
>>23097696
>responding to stale pasta
Gtfo, plebbit faggots.

>>23097590
they knew of eachother pretty much since childhood due to growing up in the same village, but things only got serious while in their early 20s
i am 25 and have never even kissed a girl

>>23097704
Not all of them.

>>23097712
lol
more women have aborted pregnancies than would admit it, it's just like the bodycount shit

>>23097587 (OP)
I found a girl from Hong Kong who became my fiancée less than a year later on an international chatting site that doesn't require registration.

>>23097710
All pastas are stale, except the one about daughter. That one is funny every time.

>>23097710
Guess I should spend more time on the internet instead of balls deep in pussy, amirite?

>>23097713
If you get 9 abortions, the 10th is free. I wouldn't miss that opportunity if i was female.

>>23097713
If that were true, then single mothers wouldn't exist at all.

>>23097587 (OP)
Certainly not by wasting time with the retards from /pol/. Because their entire existence revolves around niggers, trannies, e-whores and republicans.

>>23097711
That's how I am with my girl. Known her since I was 6 but started dating a year ago

>>23097683
I don't know about that. Are you really telling me that you don't get an advantage by being proactive often?

>>23097659
>I don't want to be single.
then it means being in relationship isnt that bad and is bettter than being alone. wheres logic?

>>23097703
No, you'll make fun of me for not being a
>durr u Purdy want sum fuk
jerk. A young woman i had met and spoken to for most of the night a couple times at the bar came in and said she got stood up, I told her that if she let me take her to the steakhouse across the street I wouldn't stand her up. She said she thought I was too old so I let it go. Since I'm not a muh dik coon and honestly wanted her to know what it's like to be with a man who isn't just trying to get her drunk and fuck, that particular one doesn't bother me. I have actually seen her change her attitude towards men however as I know her older female friends were giving her similar messages as me

>>23097689
anon, you dont have to flirt. you can TALK like real human bean. have several colleagues who found their wives on the same workplace or in a relationship and work at same workplace. no need to romanticise and sexualise things. act mature and everything is fine.

>>23097590
I did, but it took him like 9 seasons to explain it.

>>23097709
I haven't gotten laid in over 12 years and the only girlfriend I had was 16 years ago. I was super fatass. I was literally invisible to women to the point they had changed in front of me without realizing it before.

>>23097680


אוקי אז בואו נגיד שהיית ילדה רעה. בואו נגיד, מבחינה היפותטית, שהיית ילדה שובבה אפילו. אוקי, ואם את היית ילדה שובבה את גם היית הזונה המלוכלכת והקטנה שלי נכון? אז מבחינה היפותטית את היית זונת השפיך הקטנה שלי. עכשיו בואו נגיד שאת גם ילדה של אבא. עכשיו כשהוכחנו שאת גם ילדה רעה וגם ילדה של אבא, אני מאמין שאת תסכימי איתי כשאומר שאת מוכרחה לקבל חבטה בתחת. האם אני לא צודק? ילדה רעה צריכה פליק בתחת ומכיוון שאני אבא ואת הבת שלי, אז אני האחד שצריך לספק את העונש.

>>23097725
You're a hole, why the fuck would we listen to fish on how to catch them?

>>23097724
>honestly wanted her to know what it's like to be with a man who isn't just trying to get her drunk and fuck
I'm sure she knew what "boring coward" means before she met you.

>>23097716
That's why you're here, because you're such a slayer.

>>23097587 (OP)
>Pathetic incel loser thread

>>23097613
Even if you go to church they are very cliquey so you have to virtue signal just as hard.

I started going to my mom's church and the very first day the head pastor was trying to set me up with the church girl living in his basement. I was fine with that but they kept moving goalposts for me getting socially accepted, from "you must wear these clothes" to "you must stay after church with the recovering alcoholics and moms with 5 kids" to "we actually don't want you to attend church at all of you aren't going to wear a long sleeve shirt". So I left. Showed up one time a few months later and they all came up to me including the girl they were trying to set me up with... Absolutely no apologies or anything. Just ruthless.

>>23097723
I'm not sure if you are a moron or just pretending to be a moron

Either way, I won't bother to explain myself.

>>23097719
I know single mothers who have had kids and abortions.

>>23097590
My grandfathers forced my parents together. They're going 28 years strong.

>>23097591
>Just go extinct and get replaced by browns, goy

>>23097590
Strangely, both my parents refuse to talk about this...

>>23097736
forced marriages last longer for some reason

>>23097593
Where the fuck do you go then?

>>23097590
more people are fatherless now than not

>>23097679
you lack confidence also have low self esteem. chads dont care because theyre sigmas. ultra nerds with glasses can get a girl as well, because hes autistic and doesnt understand what self confidewnce is. he just speaks what he has on mind. he gets the girl as well

>>23097730
Sure, faggot. That's why I overhear her saying she wants exactly what I offered her now. I am 16 years older than her, I'm not going to pressure someone that young who clearly is a bit naive and inexperienced.

>>23097733
Dude what religion was that?!?

>>23097725
It's a terrible idea, when you break up, which statistically speaking are most relations these days, either you or her will have to change jobs. In reality, it will be you or you're gonna get fired by HR for "harassment" of some sort once she complains. The odds are monumentally against you. I'm not risking my career for a random hole unless we literally fall in love after Cupid shot us both with a love arrow.

>>23097587 (OP)
> How the fuck are young men supposed to meet women in 2025?
I recommend joining a sports club. Preferably swimming so you can study beforehand what you will get and can show off your lean and well defined body to the girls. Worked for me. Two of my gfs were swimmers/triathletes. Athletes are also more active, more fun in bed not just passive corpses.

>>23097693
>>23097717
They’re actually pretty looksmatched

>>23097610
>How would you know

Because they installed an app on their phone for the expressed purpose of meeting and getting fucked by many men.

>>23097742
>you lack confidence also have low self esteem. chads dont care because theyre sigmas. ultra nerds with glasses can get a girl as well, because hes autistic and doesnt understand what self confidewnce is. he just speaks what he has on mind. he gets the girl as well

that basement dweller vibes

I can already tell you have morbid obesity and that syndrome of "I'm always right, everyone else is wrong"

so what figurines have you painted lately?

>>23097660
I second that. Anybody care to explain op pic?

>>23097679
Crowds are fine. It's just a different game. When they start competing for your attention, you have them in the bag.

>>23097613
You're wrong. There are great churches everywhere. Look for LCMS for conservative ethnically German people with big families.

>>23097727
But you can get numbers and dates? Interesting. Keep trying, i guess.

>>23097659
Have you considered that you're just bitch made? If i say "we're going to this restaurant" my wife says, okay.

>>23097734
just proves my point.

>>23097744
Christian Baptists. They hated that I wasn't baptised. I would go on Wednesday prayer gatherings and we would have a sheet of people that requested prayers. Bunch of middle class having me pray for home renovations and shit like that when I'm borderline homeless because rent is crushing me.

>>23097744
What do you think?

>>23097590
My dad just joined the Navy and my mom was willing to shack up with literally anyone to get out of her small town.

My dad was a simp who married a divorced woman back in the 70s. Ain't no fucking way I'm doing that shit. I know that my dad was a beta simp - not gonna happen to me

>>23097755
>Casual armchair psychoanalysis

You just proved my point >>23097749

>>23097602

>Be a Jeet
>Move to Canada
>Rape whoever you want, whenever you want
>Police protect you

Just be a Jeet, simple as

>>23097735
I do too. They clearly don't abort every knock up.

>>23097587 (OP)
I am a 23 khhv that never talked to a woman outside of family or forced interaction (cashier, school etc). My brain is just completely fucked from this and i basically don’t know how to act around f*ids. It just got worse and worse from teenage years (small eww looks and “i get the ick” faces from them despite not approaching or interacting with them) and once you reach a certain point with no experience you can’t do anything anymore. I’m just gonna become an escortcel because I don’t want to die as a wizard

>>23097744
The church of the upper limbs of which we do not speak

>>23097674
I find that hard to believe with your statistics bro, I've had women give me their number when working retail in a gift shop after buying something and coming back the next day. Have had friends of women come up to me at parties to tell me so-and so over there likes you and you should go talk to her, have had several ask me out for coffee/lunch etc al. 80+ with none liking YOU 1st is kinda BS.

>>23097753
It's not like I'm trying super hard all the time. Casual sex is not interesting to me and never was. I don't find many of the women attractive above a surface level around me. They all have the same thing under their skirt, the other parts become more interesting when you're older or used to being isolated.

>>23097743
Oh my. I'm 21 years older than my current wife. But I'm not an arrogant coward like you, so she never had to find an excuse for rejecting me.

>>23097682
It's a 50/50 everytime, either they say yes or the say no, amirite?

>>23097765
You do want a girlfriend though. Try going crazy with "i want to marry you" and "i want to put a baby in you" stuff. It can work.

>>23097660
>>23097750
Here is the description for all bots:
The pic in OP shows a drugged up whore (widened pupils) waiting for the bus, looking up to a man, being glad to gain some attention because she is bored. If sober she would just ignore him.

>>23097738
it was a glory hole

>>23097682
One guy managed to start 5 long term relationships in one year.

>>23097587 (OP)
Calm down, it's gonna be aite, now watch my cat sunbathe.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1Fp8OTlCYU

>>23097766
Good for you, I'm in a small place and have to juxtapose myself with another guy my age with a different under 26 every month or two. It's not what I'm into to begin with

>>23097602
You mean Indian?


Sounds like poster is a Hindu indian. Saar

>>23097769
Thank you, based German empath

>>23097769
They are literally just staged/posed pics in a way to give in the impression of being candid.

>>23097729
lol. what?

>>23097745
if your goal to have a serious partner or future wife - you dont break up, my nigga. several colleagues i know personally literally spoke to some females and few of them already married. one dude who left company half a year ago got a baby. no, theyre not divorced. youre delulu, stop watching porn and imagining things. yes, its not often you see couples on same workplace, but this isnt fairytale. yes, it may not be greatest idea to have work interference with personal life, but its not an exclusion. atleast youll see if shes flirting/cheating with other colleagues.

>that basement dweller vibes
well, basically everyone who visits 4chan in 2025 is a basement dweller. but i do have a job.
>I can already tell you have morbid obesity and that syndrome of "I'm always right, everyone else is wrong"
i was obese, not anymore. yes, im right, because i have seen these situations IRL. what thesises you have to offer to disprove my statements?
>so what figurines have you painted lately?
>4chan user
>doing anything but browsing 4chan
anon, this isnt reddit

>>23097752
i dont care about churches much as i do not visit them. im just saying that new gen youth does not go to churches, only a small minority does or super religious families. only boomers go to churches these days and grandmas

>>23097768
It's only in the past few weeks my perception of my physical change over the past year has started to catch up with how people see me. Many think I'm under 30 or even 25 still.

>>23097777
I can tell by your typing pattern that you're either a woman or an effete asshole who idolises them.

>>23097587 (OP)
women do the choosing.

Twas ever thus

Me? Once ever 3 or 4 years a good looking woman hits on me. Starts with friendly talking and get her phone number. Sometimes if they're on the rebound and they already know me they'll come up and grab me and give me a big hug and kiss..

I'd rather have a 96 core AMD CPU

>>23097767
Half the men that approached got sex.
Lets assume 100% got 0 sex they would still have the yes or no possible outcomes so your assumption is false.

>>23097706
>how should pants be worn by X?
>in such a way where they don't meet the minimum requirements of what constitutes pants of course
Nearly drowning in your own drool over there pal

>>23097593
/This

I'm shy, but decent to good looking.
I've had girls send me drinks at the bar, and approach me...since I'm talking to friends the shyness with girls came out as confidence that I wasn't "on the prowl".


Also, big PROTIP:
Go to gay dance clubs with a gay friend.
You can pick up women there easy, and they ain't looking for big jocky hunks.

NEVER under-estimate how good of a pick-up place a library or bookstore can be. Women LOVE men who read, but aren't nerds about it.

Join hiking clubs.... meet women who stay in shape but aren't gym-rats.


Seriously - 99% of the problem is weak men. Yes, women are mostly toxic, but that can be navigates easily with ANY fucking effort.


T. Absolute nerd married to a fox

>>23097776
To me she looks like some party roastie slut with 500 cock stare.

>>23097777
70% of marriages (yes, you read that right) end up in divorce in Spain. I have no statistics about couples that haven't been married yet but I can only assume it's even higher. Unfortunately facts don't care about your feelings or personal experiences.

>>23097777
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

anyways, I like you, but you don't know shit about relationships.

>>23097782
Pants are for covering your ass and genitals. B is like a union suit for cats.

>>23097610
are you retarded?

>>23097590
Dad was 23 with no job, no car, living with his aunt and uncle. Mom was 18. Dad met mom because she was the cousin of my dad's friend's girlfriend or something.

>>23097779
> that you're either a woman
even better, only females can give you real advices on other women and how to act with them. if 200 posts in this thread gave no useful results, then im not the one whos wrong.

>>23097783
try reddit with your fanfictions, faggot

You need to internally be a personification of pic related and you will swim in pussy. You will even make libtard soiboys seethe as a bonus. No sexy woman can resist cobsons irl.

>>23097587 (OP)
By banning niggers and making it a crime to not be a father.

>>23097778
Are you 40 or what?

>>23097790
the only people who hate women more than men are other women. You're in direct competition.
What are you, 15?

>>23097780
> I'd rather have a 96 core AMD CPU
The better deal for sure. But as long as you have no choice you take what you can get.

>>23097794
37

>>23097587 (OP)
>How the fuck are young men supposed to meet women in 2025?

I think the question should be:

How the fuck are basement dwellers supposed to meet women in 2025?

>>23097587 (OP)
You don't, women will approach you if they're interested.
>but no girl does that
That means they aren't interested in you. My condolences.

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>>23097792
I hate to say it, but this is nearly my look, stronger shoulders and neck

>>23097587 (OP)
Hang out at Dairy Queen and immediately cock slap the fattest hog you see. You'll be married in a month.

>>23097791
Not fan fiction... just giving advice.
I'm the 1980's teen film come true.... nerd gets the girl.

Bitch, all you gotta do is make any fucking effort. There's tons of women begging for real men.... you nerds playing games and complaining like fags, aren't real men. Real men are like me... just chill fun dudes who like to actually go out and be social and do things, without posing, without being on the phone, without pretence, without a fucking mood.

I got my three hottest GF's in life (not fucks, GF's) by just being in the right place at the right time.... and that WASN'T my couch or computer desk.

>>23097792
What does that even mean, what is cobson

>>23097798
>How the fuck are basement dwellers supposed to meet women in 2025?

So far, my personal answer would be to be Rich as Fuck. That's the only way.

>>23097797
Don't pride yourself, most people are either too retarded or just being nice

>>23097783
> Go to gay dance clubs
> You can pick up women there
Beware of the fag hag! They fuck bi men and can give you monkey pox and AIDS and whatnot!

>>23097587 (OP)
Every single one of these threads is a demoralization technique used to make men feel hopeless.
Stop falling for it.

>>23097805
you don't need social skills, you need money

>>23097797
Get yourself a 30 year old girlfriend. They want monogamy at that age.

Me and my gf of five years split last December. Called me last Thursday and confessed she fucked my best friend (also my roommate) when they were drunk a few months before we broke up. It's rough out there anons..

>>23097806
No. Young guys are frequently chest puffing, when people ask my age they are surprised. I have all my hair and a bit of a baby face. Boomers think I'm right out of college and zoomers ask me about whatever zoomer pop culture shit is out now.

>>23097587 (OP)
Don't ask God for a girlfriend, rape one and ask for forgiveness

>>23097807
Yeah, you do need to choose carefully, and wrap that thang.

>>23097590
he was a good singer (like 90% of swedes) so he poached her while she was still in high school.

>>23097807
>go to gay club
Fuck you Rabbi
If you are white, go to a white church.

>>23097803
Yet here you are. On your couch and computer desk. Oh Anon-Sama teach us your Chadly ways

$ is the answer

>>23097801
That's fine as long as it fits your psychological profile brother

>>23097804
If you have to ask, it's over

>>23097787
So no other form of clothing does that? Roman legionnaires weren't naked and didn't have pants. Only B are pants retard lmao

>>23097785
dear spaniard, its your personal/interpersonal issue if your relationship results in a divorce. life is life, shit happens. youre not the first, nor the last divorcee. worst that can happen is you had kid with that woman. rest is irrelevant. you dont marry woman after few months of dating. i dont care about statistics either. im just here to lead you in the right direction, rest is up to you. i havent had a single divorcee of my age yet. time will tell the future

>>23097786
im well beyond this graph. im on ascension level right now. besides - im not the problem. your concern is relationship. im just trying to help and lead on the right path. whether its your problem - or the females, you have to figure this out yourself based on what i stated . i am here in this sitatuion am completely irreleavant. im not a female ,nor do i look for partner.

>>23097810
There is a pretty hot bartender where I go that is 33. She has a boyfriend i get along with but it is long distance as he was only up her for the summer and goes home soon. She's become very friendly toward me. Not trying to make anything happen but through her I could certainly meet people too if nothing does.

>>23097587 (OP)
What worked for me was recognizing that women regularly marry and start families with some of the ugliest and stupidest niggers in existence without any promise of money or social status. Stop the defeatist bullshit and make an effort, how are you going to let yourselves be outperformed by a shitskin? You don’t need to be a wealthy gigachad with a 17 inch penis to find someone worth your time. There are literal homeless niggers in jamaica convincing random white women to send them money and sponsor their citizenship. You cannot seriously tell me you’re a self respecting white man while you willingly allow yourself to be outdone by niggers who sleep on the beach.

>>23097817
I work from home, spend most my time on the internet, and my wife is napping not more than 30 feet from me in the next room. Try harder.

Jeez, you that fucked you're trying to tear down one of the people here trying to inspre and say get off your asses.

>>23097587 (OP)
How is it that you can look at this girl and tell there's absolutely nothing going on behind those eyes

i dont know i dont care, i cant digest anything and lizards keep getting into my house, im in no state to be dating anyone

>>23097800
> WE ARE UNDER ATTACK!
Stimmt doch garnicht.

>>23097587 (OP)
Dating apps actually dont work, Ive been on bumble for like a week and got zero dates so far even though Im very attractive

I'm kinda just shitposting when it comes to the convos but it really seems like nobody wants to actually call me on the phone or meet up in person

The only chicks I actually ended up talking about dates with so far just wanted a hookup. Then they hit me with the "I'm free on thursday" like bitch, you're 25, dont you have a job? I have a job. I cant sleep at your place on thursday. I dont want to have you at my place on thursday just to kick you out at 7:30 AM. The whole point of sex is being able to wake up next morning and then being lazy in bed together and then kissing and then having sex again. UTTER FOOLS

Women on dating apps are criminal, what a waste of time. I'll just stick to irl.

>>23097821

https://psychology-spot.com/self-referential-thinking-examples/

>>23097590
They both worked at the same police department.

>>23097610
If a woman is willing to fuck on the first meeting, she isn't worth dating.

>>23097813
Why did Russians rape potato heads?

>>23097821
I'm sure 7 out of 10 married men thought they would never break up with their sweetheart during their honeymoon as well. Wonder what their thoughts were on court divorce rape day.

>>23097795
>the only people who hate women more than men are other women.
but you havent spoke to a single female, how do you know?

>>23097615
Women will literally film you, call you a creep, and post it on tiktok because it gets her meaningless social media engagement

>>23097811
> confessed she fucked my best friend
Revenge for something. What did you do/say to her? Even if she did she would not tell you unless she wanted to hurt you.

>>23097776
Absolutely mid. I wouldn't even piss on her if she were on fire.

>>23097587 (OP)
Reject the premise.

If you want to get married and start a family with a girl who will be pair bonded to you, you gotta sort that shit out before either of you are 23, which is effectively the wall age for both sexes.

There's a few ways to do this, you could be a member of a minority ethnic group and get a semi arranged marriage (a baptist Korean friend did this), you can be a member of a religious community and get a religious girl, you can marry your HS sweetheart, or you can meet a late bloomer girl in college (I sniped one that went to my school when her friends forced her to go on okCupid, and we've been married for 10 years and have 2 kids).

Either way, you gotta get money and a girl before you're 23 or you're sorta fucked.

Ever heard the phrase "all the good ones are taken"? That's why.

>>23097590
My dad just sorta autisticly stalked my mom until actually getting the balls to talker to her. He told me she first referred to him as "creepy boy". They are now divorced since last year and I'm surprised they lasted at all

>>23097822
>long distance
She's single. Go for it.

>>23097836
Women will do shit like that just because you didn't compliment her new dress and then blame you for her cheating. They do not accept any responsibility. Any time she fucks up, she WILL have a reason for what it's your fault.

>>23097587 (OP)
I don't want to hook up with women, and I don't see how relationships benefit me, and marriage will invariably end in divorce, so I'm in a pickle at the moment. I just don't like women that much and they don't like me either. I do like my delusional idea of a woman, but those don't exist in real life.

>>23097590
if we followed what our dad had done we would be called pedophiles. 20 years old is considered a child today by the way.

>>23097596
every single relationship starts with you consorting with an "onahole with legs". 99% of the time when you hookup with a girl or go on a date with a girl, she is actively talking to or whats more, being fucked by other guys at the same time. thats life, you just have to be the one to tie it down with her

first girl i fucked, fat girl, i was in college, we just hung out as friends a few times after meeting on okcupid, after hanging at her place a few times she fed me chocolate and we smoked from her bong and played far cry 3 and she sucked my cock then i fucked her and came on her big ol stomach it was fun, but i didnt want to go steady with her. later i found out from her friend she was fucking 4 other guys at the same time she fucked me and eventually one of em just claimed her for himself

first girl i entered a long term relationship with was another story. matched on tinder, got flirty, sent her a penis picture, she was interested and met me on campus and we fucked. she was also at the time, fucking some other guy casually and i basically stole her from him and entered a years long relationship. that ended because we both got bored and now im old

anyway the moral of the story is, women are always between guys, fucking multiple guys, talking to multiple guys, etc its the default state. if you want her just you have to annoy her for sex over and over until you start a relationship

>>23097836
We grew apart really fast after we bought our house for whatever reason. Guess she wanted attention and to hurt me at the same time. Why she confessed almost a year later, I have no clue, guess she couldn't live with herself.

>>23097830
Hello fed

>>23097587 (OP)
You just have to do both and endure the humiliation ritual until one of them does work.

>>23097587 (OP)

Not being an obviously horny creep goes a long way. Most girls will be more attracted if you just treat them like a friend. Just dont go "nice boobs show vageen". Show some class, but also dont overcorrect and become their best friend. Just dont be a friendzoned fag or a horny creep.

Also uglyness is not so much of a factor, just lift weights, clean up, eat well, dress nice (not expensive, but nicely fitting). Also if you have a good sense of humor, youre golden.

Im a broke ass shitskin with 4/10 looks and Ive had more pussy than my looks bracket should allow.

also >>>/adv/

>>23097838
>you can marry your HS sweetheart
Dumbass broke up with me after 4 years for no particular reason, now neither of us is happy, cause yeah, all the good ones are taken

Save some money and go to college plenty of poon there

>>23097842
>I do like my delusional idea of a woman, but those don't exist in real life.
Precisely why anime is ruining young men. They get this fake idea of women who will love you unconditionally, will approach you herself, and primarily, was written by a man to appeal to men.

>>23097840
She knows i would be interested. When she has been flirtatious recently I've told her she needs to be single if it's going to continue. She's not doing it for tips, I tip the same regardless and she's known me for over a year now. Think she's also sick of how fucked up he usually is and I don't drink at all. He's a nice enough guy and she was pretty cold until she saw i got along with him, but I've never seen him sober.

>>23097834
Maybe he's based and Schopenhauer pilled?

>young men supposed to meet women in 2025?
thats because she is chasing older guys

t. 33 yo millenial

>>23097842

Most first marriages do not end in divorce, and if you're on this website you are probably at least 70th percentile for intelligence, don't be such a doomer.

Unless you're over 23, (or 27 if you were in the military) then you're basically fucked.

>>23097829
damn youre funny. you could stop wasting time on shitposting and actually spam these things to a girl. she may think youre super smart memer. girls love memers. its all about laughs and keks

>>23097833
anon, based on your posts, youre beyond saving. have a fap and good night sweet prince

>>23097610
Random hook ups on tinder are not dates. It's
>You DTF?
>Yes
>Meet you here
At most its meet for coffee then off to a place to fuck.

>>23097850
Sucks. Being a late bloomer also sucks because you have a decade of trauma of being a virgin, like my wife had vaginismus we had to work on.

Modern society sucks but it IS possible to escape somewhat.

>>23097589
Easy bro

>>23097853
Difficult situation. It's like a movie.

>>23097598
Youth has no money to panhandle from.

>>23097590
my dad hung around the local highschool when he was about 30 and dated my mom who was a highschooler, they got drunk together one night and kissed, next thing they knew they were in a relationship, nobody cared for some reason and nobody judges my dad to this day. they have an incredibly strong marriage and are both pretty old now

>>23097863
Based.

>>23097774
Pakis, jeets, banglapakis they're all the same

>>23097844
You came in the same hole that niggers did, you filthy fucking wretch. Lower your tone when typing to me, because you're no better than a nigger animal.

>>23097856
>if you're on this website you are probably at least 70th percentile for intelligence, don't be such a doomer.
Holy fuck. This might be the most delusional post I've ever seen on 4chan and I've been on here for 2 decades.

>>23097820
nothing in your post makes any sense... it's like after scamvid19 morons like you are just so visible now

>>23097604
But women are lame and probably sucked and fucked some moron for free. I know because I was that moron. I stopped drinking and being a pervert and I stopped getting women. Now I just ignore every last one and that all want me but Im happier than I've ever been not wanting pussy. Women are bait from God. More holy to remain single.

Hypergamy. Bitches egos are inflated because of modern technology. They grossly overestimate their value and their league. They all want a 6'5 chad with an 8 inch dick (minimum), making 6 figures, and a 6 pack. If you aren't that, like 99.9 percent of us. You'll have to really work hard to make them notice you otherwise. Average isn't enough for average women. The market is extremely competitive for men. More than it has ever been, and it's not changing. The chads are dating multiple women at a time. You need to stop fucking worrying about women and take a couple years to work on yourself. If you don't put in the work and don't take initiative, you will be ignored.

Skill issue.

>>23097978
You're /bant/ish

Domo arigatou, Mr. Roboto
Fuck off and never post agaaaaaiiiiiiinnnnn

>>23097587 (OP)
No clue! They're all taller than me!!!

>>23097867
70th percentile is an IQ of only 108

100 is basically an actual retard.

>>23097593
HOW NIGGA HOW WHAT DOES THIS EVEN MEAN
>i think the best strat is to just be out there, have hobbies and talk to people
EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING THIS SHIT BE FUCKING SPECIFIC

>>23097587 (OP)
If you're still trying to find a good woman then you're an idiot. There are none, only whores, sluts and idiots, tip for you, find the dumbest woman and train her like a dog. Women are too stupid to learn on their own

>>23097590
My parents knew each other through friends when they were high school aged. They started dating and married at 19 and 21.

Meanwhile, every girl I knew in high school fucked right off after graduation and formed completely new friends groups comprised entirely of girls their own age and a few much older men. I wasn’t some friendless loser; I had a very large social circle. Just like every other man who didn’t marry very early, it collapsed soon after college.

We need to stop pretending as if this is rare. This is the norm. Life for men aged 18 to 25 is very harsh. You don’t have a good job and most likely live with your parents. You’re seen as a kid rather than a man by the girls your age. Dating down is illegal or impossible, as you’re competing against older, more established, experienced men.

Think about the average 22yo dude. Not the Instagram version, but the actual guy. He’s a loser by all accounts, but that’s only because of what’s expected of him. The reality of that demographic is juxtaposed with a fantasy pushed by Hollywood and social media. Pussy is supposed to fall from the sky and land on your dick, but it turns out that 60% of men that age are single, 1land over a third are totally sexless.

>>23098381
>>23098288
i didn't post this
>>23098691
thanks fed
>Women are too stupid to learn on their own
that's why it's important to raise them well and in hospitable societies
you'll notice the damage is usually done by age 18

>>23098706
you're right
it's fucked these days
still, i think women have it worse in the end

as a guy, you're basically a maggot who no one cares about, but you can depend on yourself easier & there's always a chance to restart your life or do something crazy/interesting

meanwhile if you're a woman, you're a more valuable military target, so you get socialized from birth to hate everyone and disgrace yourself and be god and you have no secure connections with anyone but the phone/TV
they "have it easy", a bunch of shallow unsatisfying shit, until age 30, then they end up in hell until their deathbed

i'm not justifying their shit or saying you should try to fix them or feel bad for them or anything
i'm just saying, you should IGNORE broken people, and not take their shit personally
realize they aren't doing what's in their best interest

>>23097588
>hookups
I just don't get the appeal.

>>23098707
True, I dont disagree

>>23097588
>just be Chad bro

>>23097587 (OP)
Skill issue.

>>23097589
Kill women and stone them to death and burn them all

>>23101754
You have to go back, Abdul.