Thread 76336720

Has working out made you more attractive to the opposite sex whatsoever?

>>76336720 (OP)
yes.

>>76336722
Elaborate.

>check'm

>>76336725
No

>>76336720 (OP)
Yeah, some Indian bird at my work was so obsessed that she came in to say goodbye and kissed me (didn't tell my gf) and most women find a good body sexy.
They aren't physically fetishistic like men, so they won't strum off feeling your abs or lick your biceps like a man plays with tits and ass, or sucks toes or whatever floats your boat. It's more like it's impressive as it displays you commitment, you look strong and thus more domineering and you outshine weaker males.

>>76336727
Liar liar pants on fire

>>76336729
Ok

>>76336728
Are there any weaker males in your workplace?

>>76336720 (OP)
Yeah, definitely. We had this girl at my office who never really talked to me, but after I lost almost 30 lbs, she started laughing at my jokes and would always wish me good night before leaving. I was too autistic to realize she actually liked me before she quit her job though. But yeah, I also catch women checking me out sometimes when I’m refilling the water cooler.

>>76336720 (OP)
No, women dont care about muh commitment and dedication, they want you born with the package (height + face +large shoulders...) because they're visual creatures

my beloved bug...

>>76336720 (OP)
It doesn't add much, but half a point can make a big difference depending on where you started off. It's like there's a cut-off point where if you're right on the line or below, you're not considered as a future partner (or for casual sex), and if you make it over that line, you suddenly become an option. You didn't become much more attractive, but rather just attractive enough.

>>76336748
But nobody is arguing for commitment and dedication, anon...

>>76336752
V
>>76336744
They dont care about muh mooscles either if you're ugly and autistic to boat

35 yo. I haven't been on a date in like 12 years, so I wouldn't know that lmao. Also gas women every day.

>>76336720 (OP)
I finished my bench press sets and i walked to the lat pull down machine and there was a 19 year old doing her sets and i asked her how many sets left
>she told me just one
>smiles at me
>smile back and tell her 'don't rush'

After 5-6 mins we met again and i asked when did she join this gym and she told me like 3 days ago and her body was facing me the whole convo and after that i asked for her IG and we talked for like 10 mins more on the ab machines. I think she is into me but i'm not sure, her face kinda changed when i told her my age. Should i let it flow and wait to meet her again in the gym or just hit her up on Insta?

>>76336720 (OP)
I go to raves and festivals ocasionally. I get noticeably more attention when I take off my shirt. Girls will approach to talk feel me up dance make out whatever. With shirt on I'm kind of invisible unless I make the first move.

>>76336760
>ask for her insta
>she gives it to you
>don't use it
Nigga say at least "what's up"

>>76336751
Yeah exactly. It’s not like you become a 10 overnight, but for a lot of people, especially the overweight ones losing like 100 lbs can bump you up a couple points or at least get you out of the ‘unfuckable’ zone. You go from invisible to ‘good enough,’ and that’s all it takes to have options.

>>76336760
>her body was facing me the whole convo
>face kinda changed when i told her my age.
Nigga is a 60yo midget
She probably thought you were gay

>>76336762
I haven't tried festivals, but where I live most people with average or shitty bodies are too insecure to go anywhere where you would take your shirt off, so at the pools, lakes and beaches that aren't particularly family-friendly most guys are fit. Lots of roided out shredded guys, too. It sucks.

>>76336763
Bro the whole convo had a lot of flow but you know she is a woman and you run out of things to talk about and it was near the end of the workout and it kinda dried up at the last minute, my question is should have i asked to go for a coffee at the spot or just send her on instagram? Btw i always regret asking for insta i should start asking for phones, but she gave her insta without questioning it seemed she was into me

>>76336754
Went from fat to under 15% bodyfat with decent muscle. I’m 5'11” with a 6/10 face. And they do care if you have at least an average face

>>76336770
>Nigga is a 60yo midget
Nah she asked me
>how old are you
>how old do i look?
>well with the beard you seem a little older..28?
>i'm 32
>and she smiled little akwardly
>is that a lot
>well it's 10 years gap

Then we talked about something else

>>76336777
When women try to guess my age and their guess is lower than my real age, I just say, “Wow, you're spot on!”.

>>76336772
you're too old to be overthinking shit like this dude

>>76336777
>19 and 32 is a ten years gap

>>76336782
When w*men guess my age I guess their weight and bodycount, shuts them up real quick get off me with that pussy ass pussy

>>76336771
I'm a dutchfag festivalculture is big here. Taking off your shirt when it's warm is basically the standard for most guys no matter how you look. Most people are just skinny/skinnyfat from constant dancing and drugs I guess. I get 10x as many comments from guys btw.

>>76336787
>you're too old to be overthinking shit like this dude
At what do you stop overthink shit like this

>>76336810
not true, its mostly the hardcore scene where people take their shirts off. with other edm styles it's far less common, never mind mainstream pop festivals. men/women ratio on harcore festivals is absolute atrocious plus they are full of anabooltjes.

>>76336760
Find someone your age you creep, she is only 19 and you are approaching 35. Don't you realize that this is sick? Find a good 30 year old woman and settle down and leave the young women to young men, imagine her father learning that she is dating someone who is in his 30's

>>76336750
Based Belachad. I only entered this stupid thread for her.
The answer to your question OP is obviously yes. Why wouldn't it?

Yeah. It's the first hurdle you need to get over to even be considered by decent looking girls. Physique alone won't get you laid with the really cute ones, but they will at least treat you like you're human.

>>76336725
started a new job at a big company where about 60% of the employees in my department were women, while I was a 40 BMI lardass. With one exception, the women at best ignored me, at other times they would make fun of me behind my back when they thought I couldn't hear them, then later wink at me etc. to try and make me feel embarassed. Then I dropped all my excess weight in one year and built a decent calisthenics body, and suddenly there was half a dozen women who constantly flirted with me, one even outright asked me to fuck her (admittedly she was a bit drunk and generally a slut), other women were suddenly very friendly with me when previously they had avoided me.

>>76336841
I dont know about pop stuff to be fair I mainly go to techno plenty of women there and really not that many anabooltjes in my opinion.

>>76336720 (OP)
Yes, low bodyfat and veins showing on the arms make women squirt

>>76336810
>Hey brüdder, kan ich have your dicken in meine arsech? Nich homo of course

>>76336720 (OP)
i lost 40kg in the last 4 years and for the first time in my life i had a girl at my gym starting a conversation with me out of the blue and smiling at every response i made

>>76336720 (OP)
Yes but I'm more isolated than ever because of my job and lack of social oppurtunities and it doesn't fucking matter. I only work out and diet because it's a habit at this point.

>>76336720 (OP)
No it made me weaker and uglier. What do you think, retard?

>>76336720 (OP)
Yes, but only substantially when I got under 13-14% bf or so. This is crucial.

>>76336777
hfw

>>76336720 (OP)
you wouldn't fuck a chimaeric mutant human born from the Cadou research project

>>76336720 (OP)
Yes but now I only want to fuck femboys.

Lots and lots of stares.

>>76336720 (OP)
very little since i wasnt really skinnyfat/fat in first place. it seems to help more with not being bloated/being well slept etc. so
>being more muscular
not really
>better shape(not just muscle wise)
def matters

>>76337417
i guess its very use it or lose it situation. keeping ur body active seems to help with keeping it going

>>76336720 (OP)
Yes I'm gay btw.
But also seriously yes.

>>76337323
You don't know me

>>76337323
The hell I wouldn't.

>>76336866
>this is sick
Brainwashed broccoli head detected. Incredible how zoomer "men" fell for millennial hag propaganda

>>76336755
Lllloser

my innate answer is yes. i talk to way more women daily (and people in general). why? because i look like a good person, and not disgustingly obese

>>76336720 (OP)
No and it never will
Working out can't fix your face, skin color, or attitude
>Ugly 3/10
>Black skin
>Misanthropic
I work out because it's the only thing that my dad and I could bond over

>>76337323
I'd lay pipe so good on those chimera mutant bitches, they'd be calling me Mario.

>>76338660
>Misanthropic
We don't welcome woman-haters here on /fit/, chud

>>76336720 (OP)
I got hit on more before I started lifting desu senpai. I still get hit on sometimes though

>>76336720 (OP)
Yes, women are a lot nicer to me and for the first time in my life, they actually put in just as much effort as I do into conversations, often more. I also got laid a few times from women I've met through friends or at parties.

But, women are also more intimidated by me. Like they get shy or nervous. Not all women; the confident ones will make the first move, but most women are definitely shy. Since I'm kind of shy at first too it makes me kind of nervous to approach women who are already nervous

>>76336720 (OP)
Well, my kind are known to be natural twinks and scrawny so I stand out at least.

>>76336928
>webm
fucking KEK

>>76336720 (OP)
Imagine the foul stench. Rot, bile, the iron tang of blood, all seeping from that mouth as your tongues tangle in a feverish, grotesque kiss. It's not just the smell; it’s the taste. Like licking the rusted edge of a corpse-ridden blade, metallic and putrid. Every breath exchanged is an exhalation from the grave, every motion of your mouths a descent deeper into some shared, decaying hunger. You’re not just kissing, you’re devouring each other’s rot, swallowing sickness, smearing death between your lips with the desperation of something that forgot how to be human.

>>76336720 (OP)
hell yeah dude. all ages give me that "oh hey" look & smile. from literal children to grannies. the pain to rise above average is worth it.

>>76336728
>so they won't strum off feeling your abs or lick your biceps like a man plays with tits and ass
my last chick hickied both my traps.

>>76336888
because most women dont mean "fit" like you dysmorphic retards do.

>>76336720 (OP)
Working out is pointless if ur below mtn / 5'8

prob yeah if i was obese i would be invisible

>>76336750
God im so lonely

>>76336720 (OP)
I was already a solid 5 and got some attention from others within that range. But I am still a mentalcel and a kissless virgin (I held hands with a girl twice for a few moments in highschool).

>>76336755
You are based as fuck, King.

>>76336777
>is that a lot

you lost it there

>>76336782
I am going to flex because I have nothing else going for me.
I had a girl in highschool (she was in 9th grade) ask me if I was a new student in her grade (I was a senior).
A girl at my job ( she was 22) said “you’re a little young for this aren’t you?” And I told her I was 27 and she flipped out and said she thought I was years younger than her.
I am normal sized for a Zoomer.

>>76338768

Nice bait.

>>76338981
Interesting response anon...what exactly do I mean by "fit" then according to you?
Your post makes zero sense, especially since I clearly said women find me attractive so obviously I'm pretty synced up with what they mean.

>>76336754
Get off my boat nigger

>>76339564
post your ugly body then.
getting matches on tinder isnt impressive, its made to get you fucked. its like bragging about catching a fish in a pond filled to the brim with fish, with the intent of fishing.

>>76339737
That's a cockroach. She doesn't look good when she's caught on other cameras in other angles.

>>76339719
My body is not remotely ugly and I've never used tinder in my life.
You're really bad at arguing anon.