>>76344924women almost never approach first, the only times women make the first move is if you are chadlite+, tall, AND have a social circle where eveyrone knows and likes you
in that case, they will follow you around or message you or whatever
anything less and 99% of the times you have to make the first move or you won't get anywhere, as a man you literally have to ACTIVELY pursue women if you want to get them (but do not mistake pursing with being overly available/looking desperate)