Thread 76392569

How to stop thinking about ur gym crush?

>>76392569 (OP)
She has a bf little bro.

>>76392578
She doesn't, she trains with her mom and is a dark haired goth with pale skin, I should've just approached her, being rejected is nothing compared to the feeling of never trying

>>76392569 (OP)
>tfw realizing I will never get to place my face between her ass cheeks
life has ceased to give meaning

>>76392581
>She doesn't
I promise you she does.

>>76392600
How would you know, I never see her typing on phone like every girl with a bf does, she's always alone

>>76392603
That’s because her skinny white boyfriend is at home probably playing league of legends or Fortnite. You have to understand girls like her only date skinny white eboys and will do so until she’s busted and ready to settle down at 35.

>>76392607
Shut up, I'll just ask her out next time I see her, I have nothing to lose you crab

>>76392622
Kek. You’re only going to look stupid and remember what I said when you get rejected! She has a bf and he’s probably skinny white and is at least packing a 7 incher!

>>76392622
You ever thought maybe she trains with her mom because she doesn't wanna get bothered by men? its almost like wearing headphones at a grocery store.

>>76392626
She goes to the gym with her mom but they don't train together

>>76392569 (OP)
By asking them out or at least talking to them. Worst she can do is make you switch gyms. Maybe in the new gym you'll meet a new girl and the process will repeat. Also by lifting more, lifting harder, gaining, cutting and becoming some mid-ass bitch's gym crush youreslf, Anon. You're in the gym, sky is the limit.

>>76392569 (OP)
Well, you're clearly infatuated.
So just shoot your shot?

I never dared to approach women, instead I learned how to completely filter women from my own perception. It was a powerful and effective cope. Literally did not see them when looking at them with my eyes. Felt easier this way. Minds are surprisingly moldable and I spent years cultivating copes improbable and arcane. After reaching truewiz status I became The Copemaster. This title grants me clairvoyance. The ability to recognize that all the issues presented itt are just schadenfreude and excuses born from fear.
Magic powers are real OP so I can attest on this.

>>76392626
>>76392624
>>76392600
People are not glass, people like to be approached. Humans are social creatures by design. You are not bothering anyone. You are not hurting anyone.

>>76392622
Don't be me OP. Go for it. I mean you are already aware of what is at stake. There is no pain like regret. Literally nothing worse than a life full of regrets. Trust me.

>>76392746
Thank you, king. Your post gave me enough confidence to do it. Wagmi

>>76392569 (OP)
>How to stop thinking about ur gym crush?
I won't if I live to be a thousand, special circumstances though.

>>76392622
Godspeed bro
wagmi

I can't develop crushes based on looks alone, the idea if being with a normie is worse than being alone.

Need me a moderately psychotic weeb girl who love bombs me, otherwise just feels unnatural.

>>76392569 (OP)
Sincerely, just tell her and get it over with then you can focus on chasing the bag and not chasing bitches.

>>76392931
>incel moment

>>76392622
if we're being honest, she probably does have a bf or a roster of guy friends fucking her since every non-obese women that leaves her house does. it doesn't mean much however. I knew a girl at the gym obviously interested in me and she had a tall long-term bf

>>76392960
>chasing the bag
hey man i'm no homo

>>76392569 (OP)
Realize her form is shit and will never get better and if you actually dated/fucked her it would reduce your gains and fuck up your gym experience.

>>76392931
low test

>>76393471
this is probably what everyone at my gym thinks about me

>>76393771
Post tits+timestamp

>>76392581
There's this 22 year old hottie that trains with her mom and a beta male trainer and she always gives me the looks, i can't go up to her cause im 33.

>>76394317
>i can't go up to her cause im 33.
You can't because you're a fag. My girlfriend is 19 and pregnant with me (41).

>>76394447
Wouldn't you be (0) then?

>>76394509
hahahaha

I want to think about my gym crush. It gives me the extra drive I need to keep going. I'm never gonna do anything tho cos I don't actually want her and I know she'll never live up to the idealised version I've built up in my head. I just use her as motivation cos the idea of that fantasy version of her in my head seeing me in passing and finding me attractive is what gets me to the gym each day

>>76394317
This goth girl also is 22yo but I'm 27, I've caught her giving me the looks when I was doing biceps in front of her pumped

>>76394447
That's based, niggas just gotta stop giving excuses and just go talk to the girl

>>76392624
Skinny guys don’t get laid anymore.
t. Skelecel

>>76392931
Honestly i need somehwat unhinged gf who i can relate with. I get along with normies fine but i dont form long-tern relationships with them. All my friend are somewhat eccentric. I would just get tired and bored of her quickly. Sex is only good for so long.

>>76394819
>>76394317
Cut this age bullshit.
We live in an era where blacks and animals have sex with women. jews run everything. women aren’t even virgins anymore. Stop caring about the moral of fat, stupid, smelly, ugly, pig nosed Amerimutts.

>>76395473
Cuck.

>>76392569 (OP)
>gym is normally empty
>girl starts going same time as me
>think she's kind of cute but dont bother
>she tries starting up a conversation with me
>im autistic and gym is my safe space so I ignore her
>she stops going
It happened a few months ago and I still think about it

>>76392746
>You are not bothering anyone. You are not hurting anyone.
Cope.

>>76392569 (OP)
Stop going to that gym, after a few weeks you'll forget about him.

>>76395697
if this isnt a larp youre extremely retarded, having a girl talk to you is extremely rare especially at the gym

>>76394317
I tried a bigger gap in numbers and ratio. Attraction was utterly obvious but my guess is she didn't want to deal with the stigma. (Never got back to me.)

Or of course she could have a boyfriend.

>>76392569 (OP)
>How to stop thinking about ur gym crush?
Stab her in the gut. When she dies she won't be around anymore and then you won't be reminded of her to think about her.

>>76392569 (OP)
I ended up being fuck buddies with my gym crush. It's pretty cool.

>>76396351
howd you do it, anon? help us

>>76396353
We met and got to be friends, eventually we started havin a little sex every few weeks. We do not advertise it at the gym at all. I dunno, just make it known that you find them attractive. It'll happen if you don't sperg too much and just talk to them. The main thing that works for us is that we're actually friends and have been for years so there's a solid friendship keeping things cool

>>76394819

27 and 22 is considered scandalous now?

I swear this "well ackshually your brain isn't fully developed until you're 25 so you aren't really an adult until you're 25" is the new version of that "did you know people only use 10% of their brains" shit that midwits used to say in the 2000s.

>>76392569 (OP)
You fail at everything else so you abandon all hope at the relationship front. It's wonderful

>>76396389
How did you first approach her tho

>>76396396
It was so long ago... we just started talking one day. Probably about equipment. Maybe we had mutual friends? I've been going to my gym for a long time and know everyone there.
Again it wasn't a cold approach to ask for a date. We developed a friendship. The descent into sex was pretty natural because of that.

>>76392569 (OP)

Before she got to the gym, you see girls 'pretend' to pull their hair into ponytails, but they don't. That's what she did.

My gym crush constantly talks about her hair. "Should I wash it?" "Should I pull my hair up or leave it down?" Stuff like that.

Everytime I go swimming at the YMCA, I see girls having their hair down and it doesn't disrupt them when they are swimming because it would get in the way, wouldn't it? You know if you've ever seen girls at your school that grab their hair and they look like they are going to pull their hair up, but don't.

My gym crush had to wear tight pants and a sports bra, so she enjoyed every minute of going to the gym. Before that she tried to put her hair up but she wasn't allowed to. The doctor said no. So she did to her hair like what I see when I go down to the YMCA and see where girls pretend to pull their hair back.

After around noon I did not take a shower.

She's 17 years old Long hair Tan Usually has her hair up but like I the doctor didn't let her so she made her hair like the girls I see down to the YMCA where people pretend to pull their hair back.

My gym crush enjoyed the tight clothing. Her mother forces us to take showers.

How to get over your first love?

>>76396693
time and integrating the experience into your sense of identity rather than stagnating. that is, don't just ruminate about your first love; consider what you learned and what it is you want to improve and when you begin focusing on those the fixation gets weaker. don't be one of those people who can't let go.

>>76396693
Usually by getting in a couple more relationships and realizing everything you thought was special wasn't. If that doesn't work just get older and realize how much of a pussy you were and that she *shouldn't* have been that into you at that point in your life.

>>76394317
Dude I'm 38 and started chatting up my gym crush to discover she's 19. Still flirty with her.

>>76396693
>>76396718
>>76396764
Isn't it unbelievable? That you're just supposed to move on? Goethe's The Sorrows of Young Werther has Werther kill himself because he can't be with the one woman he truly loves. Wagner's Tristan and Isolde has them both die because only in death can they truly be together. And both Goethe and Wagner were really just writing about their own life. For Goethe it was Charlotte Buff and for Wagner it was Mathilde Wesendonck. But they both moved on. Goethe had several other relationships and got married at 56 and so did Wagner at 57. It just seems so impossible to me.

>>76396718
Thanks, man.

>>76395707
On the other hand, I am bothering people and I do not care.

>>76392569 (OP)
rape

>>76394317
>i can't go up to her cause im 33.
no, you can't go up to her because you're a r*dditor

>>76394447
>>76398092
>no, you can't go up to her because you're a r*dditor
Wait have i been brainwashed? My 36 years old sister and my mom have been telling me to cut the crap and find a girl my age and settle down because i'm too old for younger girls. Btw i got the insta of a 19 year old in my gym but she is posting rich shit stories on instagram and im skipping i can't maintain that shit. But the 22 year old is digging me for sure. Anyway what do? What do you even talk about with a 20 year old girl? blackpill me pls

>>76394819
>I'm 27
you are young as shit idiot. At 27 i had a 22 year old greek gf.

>when your gym crush is a slim, pale alt girl with an impressively well developed back
>you don't even lust or want to fuck her, just admire her back

I want to fuck an alt girl so bad though

>>76397436
>Isn't it unbelievable? That you're just supposed to move on? Goethe's The Sorrows of Young Werther has Werther kill himself because he can't be with the one woman he truly loves. Wagner's Tristan and Isolde has them both die because only in death can they truly be together. And both Goethe and Wagner were really just writing about their own life. For Goethe it was Charlotte Buff and for Wagner it was Mathilde Wesendonck. But they both moved on. Goethe had several other relationships and got married at 56 and so did Wagner at 57. It just seems so impossible to me.
If it's not your first love it can be worse because you weren't delusional about all those feelings being unique to her. You've been in love a few times, requited or not, then someone really fucks you up.

In that case wait six months and find her twin sister and fall in love with her, that probably won't work out either.

>>76392569 (OP)
just ask her out if youre big and good looking enough
according to my experience most of the gym stacies date some regular skinny beta-ATMs that supply them financially and just whore themselves with actual chads behind their backs, they know they can afford to do something like that and Its a win-win situation for them.

>>76392569 (OP)
>she's got a bf already
>she's single but the reflex is to lie about having a bf
>she's got a mixed kid at home
>you're going to fuck it up and have to change gyms

>>76394317
SHE WAS A LEGAL ADULT YOU SICK FUCK

>>76392569 (OP)
walk in on her taking an explosive shit

>>76396393
it's the simultaneous infantilization of women and the predatory treatment of men

>>76396693
time and new relationships, also a lot of PEDs

>>76392569 (OP)
>How to stop thinking about ur gym crush?
There's no way anyone who's past the age of 25+ still thinks this way

>>76398266
I'm been wanting to change gyms so I guess I'll just shoot my shot, my gym only allows you to change locations once a month and I've changed it not too long ago so I might have to go there on a diff time of the day if I end up being rejected

>>76398359
If you have friends that go to different gyms use those places to talk to women

>>76393251

>western males are low T and beta and don’t approach women anymore!
>no every hot girl has a boyfriend and a roster of simps available at her disposal!

Make up your mind

>>76398126
>What do you even talk about with a 20 year old girl?
lots of things. books, movies, her hopes and dreams, your life experience. anyway if you're doing shared activities you can just talk about the activity you're doing.

in regard to the age gap, you will def be looked at weird, esp by women. i think it's sort of strange but i understand the appeal. i guess if you're sensitive to social blowback don't do it?

>>76398444
both can be true at the same time

ask her out and get rejected
for some reason the moment I get rejected or find out a girl has a boyfriend, I immediately lose any attraction I had for her and just don't care about her anymore

>>76392581
>>76394317
It's not about age, but approaching others in the gym.