>>76465714 (OP)
This may sound harsh, but if you are struggling to deadlift two plates, you are really, really weak (or a woman) and are in dager of being injured by life. I say this not to be a prick, but to let you know that I dont care what sort of claisthentics you do, you are objectively frail.
I am a huge propentn of SS. Following SS has gotten me to a 485 squat, a 375 bench and a 550 dealift. However, it has taken close to a decade for me. I am not gentically gifted, I started late in life and I am a former fat guy, so "eating a lot" and "bulking up" was not possible for me, as I would just get fat.
Instead, I turned learnign the lifts into a hobby and an art form and took my time. Rippetoe and SS want you to put ten pounds on the bar every workout for months. Thats nice, if you can do it. I couldnt. I had to settle for adding 2.5 pounds to my squat per week.
I recommend you embrace the fact that you are looking at having to spend years 1) studying the lfits, watching videos, reading articles 2) getting stronger slowly at a rate of speed appropeaite for you 3) becoming content with the fact that what others can do in months is going to take you years.
Even if your goal is to get musular looking, you are not going to be able to do that if you atill stay very weak. The body just doesnt "grow muscle" for no reason - strngth acquaition drives the hypertrophy process. Dont think that you can skip squats in favor of leg presses and become a) strong or b) impressive looking. You cant.
Rippetoe and the SS online community are excelltnresources on how to do the lifts witout fucking your shit up. Im old as fuck and even though Ive had muslar strains and pulls over the years, I am far from fucked up as a result of squatting and deadlifting. In fact, I am way more vital and vigorous than almost anyone my age BECAUSE of the heavy lifting.