Thread 76479487

How much do you need to get a girlfriend who actually likes you and isn't together with you for some ulterior motive (money, desperation, wall, children, peer pressure, loneliness etc.)?

>>76479487 (OP)
A loyal woman is the most important thing in a man's life.

>>76479487 (OP)
Doesn’t exist. Everyone is in it for something whether they know it or not. This has been mathematically proven. The best you can hope for is symbiosis.

>>76479495
I agree, but that builds loyalty. Marriage and partnerships are less about lust, and more like a business relationship.

You find a good business partner, you find a partner for life.

>>76479492
>>76479495
>>76479503
should I settle for a good girl at 27 yo? I feel it's only going to get harder to find a good looking and not too fucked up one, I really don't wanna keep chasing girls anymore but I'm afraid I might regret this decision later.

How much?
I don't know I have literally nothing but I have a girl that spends all her time with me cause she likes playing games and having sex

>>76479487 (OP)
I wouldn't know, nobody's ever liked me.

>>76479513
What are you chasing girls for if you aren't looking to settle down? Anon, chase girls to find a good girl and make her your girlfriend. That is the endgoal.

>>76479513
I don't know you, I can't say. All I can say is the following:

27 is a good age, but you need to start working on it.

You need to accept in your own mind that you're going to settle. If you don't accept that, then you'll fight it.

You also have to accept a GOOD woman who, yes, you're attracted to, but also that you share a similar vision with. Also, make sure your parents like her/him in some respect (if they are still alive).

Like I said - anyone can fall into lust. A partner is a business. And that business is your life and family.

Every girl that has liked me ever was either :
>nice girl but not very attractive, 6/10 at best
>pretty and nice enough but oucast and autistic
>pretty and outgoing but completely mentally ill
I've thought about it and I don't know why they're able to see past my appearance (quite unattractive) but I'm not able to see past their imperfections.
My oneitis pretty much has it all (beautiful, smart, wealthy, gentle) and I've been stuck in her friendzone for a while now, feeding off the rare compliments she gives me, and the little time we spend together.

>>76479568
What do you look like? Man, a 6/10 who is nice and likes me would be a dream to me.

>>76479568
the play might be to settle for a 6/10, 7/8/9s are too high maintenance

>>76479568
You retard. You expect more from life? You should have taken the chance when you did.

>>76479576
I'm white, skinny, mid twenties, bald, relatively short, have acne.
The most recent "nice girl but not too attractive" is another friend, blonde blue eyed girl who's taller than me and a bit pudgy. She was always smiling around me and I was kind of an asshole, ignoring her a lot.
Like I said I don't know why but since I've met this other girl no one else does it for me.
>>76479582
I think less attractive girls can be clingy too, because they'd need reassurance that you're actually into them all the time. But I agree that with a really attractive girl you have more chances of her leaving you for a better dude.
>>76479598
I don't regret anything, what's the point if you don't feel the attraction ? You just force yourself ?

>>76479620
>skinny
Why are you skinny if you are on /fit/? Are you a rooner? If you want to bag hotties your only shot is to get ripped or at least really athletic.

Most of you are FUCKING STUPID. Read and learn:

Retards in this tread talking like a 6/5 isn't above average ans they shouldn't jump on them...

DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW AVERAGES WORK? ARE YOU RETARDED?

If you see a 6/5 and she aligns with you. You fucking take that. Then you worry about if you get a better deal, retard.

>>76479620
True. But my interpretation was you felt the attraction but felt you could do better. If thats not the case then, fair.

>>76479651
Being jacked is overrated to attract women. Your best traits are an attractive face and social skills.
I do wish I had a bit more muscle to show when I went to the beach with them this summer though
>>76479677
You don't realize that the average (5/10) is fucking shit. Just think about the average IQ of the population, and apply that to attractiveness. No one is happy to get someone average unless they're themselves way below average.
>>76479695
>you felt the attraction but felt you could do better
I felt so conflicted that I couldn't tell you if I were attracted or not. But if this other girl wasn't there, there's a non zero chance that I would have dated her

>>76479513
>settle
Nigger, if its a woman that is genuinely loyal and listens to you, that isn't settling, that's a gift from the heavens in the modern age

>>76479677
What does a 5/10 girl even look like? I have a hard time judging the attractiveness of a girl. What is OP's pic? A 7? An 8?
I honestly rarely see an ugly or average girl outside. The vast majority are cute or hot.

>>76479705
> Being jacked is overrated to attract women.
Despite being bald and short, you didn’t get big either. Aim higher anon

>>76479725
op pic is a solid 6.5/10. Pretty achievable by anyone here assuming you are over 5’9 and have a job and some muscle

>>76479705
Here’s what I have come to understand as a 36 years boomer after sleeping with over 50 women:
>objective 10s don’t exist, a mid girl can be your 10 if she brings other things to the table
>8s and 9s are ordinarily more trouble than they’re worth. You think she’s the one until you sleep with her and realize you just wanted to clap her cheeks, and now that you have you’re more than likely not going to want to pursue her
>women who are really hot never needed to develop anything else because they’re rewarded by everybody by simply existing
>a solid 6-7 is what you want for longterm
>somebody with a good heart and who is reasonable outweighs a 9 in the long run
Good luck bro

>>76479487 (OP)
Get as muscular as possible for women. And make sure your hair is impervious.

Women don't like men. There is always an ulterior motive

>>76479759
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>>76479487 (OP)
>who actually likes you

LOL poor youngfag. Women like/love only their children, they are incapable of feeling affection toward their boyfriends/husbands. Once you understand that everything becomes clear.

>>76479487 (OP)
Why would you want a woman? Serious question. What would she bring to your life? I cook, clean and wash my stuff myself. I don't want kids. Sex is overrated and you can pay for it anyway... having a woman in your life is 99% trouble and drama, totally not worth the 1% that has sex and some sort of good feelings in it.

>>76479771
> having a woman in your life is 99% trouble and drama, totally not worth the 1% that has sex and some sort of good feelings in it.
Are you burned out or got cucked by a relationship? I’m unironically scared of women nowadays despite being experienced and have had multiple relationships. I’m just spending time with God now while doing my hobbies and I’m at peace but as of now I’m talking with a 22 year old girl and I have some temptations but she has her red flags

>>76479790
Burned out yeah. I stopped trying after yet another "perfect" girl turned out to be an insufferable, shallow, lazy drama queen. I have had enough.