Thread 76507938

I've been going to the gym for almost a year now and I haven't spoken to a girl there a single time

omg le quirky video
so cool

POST HER ASSHOLE

>>76507938 (OP)
I have only talked to 3 dudes there

Damn. I remember seeing their videos like a year ago. Somehow she got uglier after a year in the gym.

Your gym probably hosts events or special nights. You should go to those if you want to meet people.

>>76507938 (OP)
I laughed

>>76507950
Homo!

>>76507938 (OP)
Hehehe so funny!! XD rawr

>>76507938 (OP)
The only girl I ever talk to is my old high school/college oneitis who reciprocated my feelings at one point, but moved on after she finally decided I was too retarded to ever be more than friends.

Now we still always say hi to each other and chat but we're not near as close as we used to be.

>>76507950
>I have only talked to 3 dudes there
Me too and only the old boomers. I'm at the point where I not only can't stand talking to babbling women and hearing about what trinket they bought or what restaurant they want to go to, I also can't stand talking to slack-jawed male boomers who are so oversocialized and anxious they can't maintain eye contact.

I just asked a girl if I could work in and she seemed scared of me but in a good way.

The flashing lights ruined the joke

>>76507938 (OP)
I've been lifting for 6 years. One time an obviously lesbian chick asked me how much I was benching. Only other times I spoke to women in the gym were to ask how many sets they had left or if equipment was being used

>>76508009
They are the joke. How else would she know she's being photographed?

>>76508009
autism

>>76507938 (OP)
Damn that is pretty smart.

>>76508020
Then it would her being 2 steps ahead
Now its just him being stupid

Man, I'm just so horney all the time

>>76507951
>Somehow she got uglier after a year in the gym.
That's me every year
>>76507999
What exercise

>>76508037
He is stupid and that is consistent with him thinking she's 2 steps ahead. The logic checks out. It is technically comical.

>>76508009
it's typical, women don't understand humor

>>76508092
>brownie doesn't get the joke

>>76507938 (OP)
I had a crush on this girl and we kinda kept exchanging glances, I would see her watching me in the mirror and I think one day she tried to smile at me but I only realized later on, as I wasn't really paying attention that day and I probably wouldn't have believed it anyway. Me, liked by a girl, who happens to be someone I like as well? Impossible.
Then on Valentine's Day as the gym was pretty empty I catch her in the mirror filming me with her phone while I was lifting. The memes on /fit/ about OHPing a girl's bodyweight are true, they notice. At least I think so, I panicked and turned my eyes away quickly. In hindsight I should have made sure that she was effectively filming me. But she was sitting and peeking in this weird position with both hands around the frame of the phone pointing in my direction, she definitely was not using the phone for something else.
To this day I'm not really 100% sure it happened because I fear I imagined everything, but soon after that, as I passed close to her to put away some equipment and she was on her phone, she was startled by me getting close and basically jumped from where she was sitting. I turned around and she kept staring at me, maybe fearing I caught her? I kind of stared back and said nothing: I guess she took it as some kind of rejection, as after that nothing else ever happened and she found a boyfriend one or two months later.
Don't be me anon, don't be me. Have some confidence in yourself, there's someone out there that likes you, don't let your low self-esteem make you think it's impossible.

>>76507938 (OP)
What do you even say to girls that pretty? There's one at my gym that looks exactly like her and she's my crush, the only words I've exchanged with her was:
>hi, how are you
>you got many sets left on X equipment?
>she says she just started
>I ask if I can work on with her
>she says fine
>finishes her sets and leaves, I smile and say thanks, she smiles back and leaves
Should I have asked for her name or something?

>>76508155
>"In any case, I'm anon, see you around"
There, easy. She will tell you her name at that point, and can start saying hi when you see her.

>>76507938 (OP)

lol that was so cute! like anime

>>76508165
Yep I should've done that, fucked up. Is there any way to salvage this? Perhaps working in with her again but that'd be way too sus, maybe I just nod or say hi to her next time

>>76507938 (OP)
i dont talk to anyone at the gym. but i'll look at a hot girl once in a while, they like to be seen and admired. doesnt mean they want to talk to you. its like getting a like on instagram

>>76507938 (OP)
she's too skinny for me. i like a more athletic body

>>76508009
wtf

>>76507938 (OP)
my uncle used to take creepshots of women but i don't think they were all that into it

I kinda fell off and I’m 33 now so I don’t even bother anymore but I did land a few gf’s from the gym when I was younger, so now instead of settling for an old hag I just enjoy my gains in solitude and I’m chilling, loneliness of course creeps in sometime but God is with me.

I just wonder why people think talking to girls at the gym is gonna pay off they're all vapid cunts and you're gonna have to play tiresome games

Just shag some hoes at your local late night spots or off tinder. If you wanna meet someone long term focus on girls who do active hobbies and not gym cunts

Rock climbing has some sexy thots

>>76507938 (OP)
Do people really think gyms are social clubs nowadays? What would you do if there were no young girls at your gym? Would you leave and sign up to another gym in the hopes of meeting women? Lmao

>>76508215
You can just try to repeat the process but give your name at the end this time, no? If she works in with you twice that has to be a good sign

>>76508399
give us ur wisdom, anon. how to get gfs outta the gym?

>>76508420
im assuming youre in uk? idk about there but cold approaching women in clubs/bars in the us is usually not a thing within the younger crowd. most girls go there and stick to their friend circle

Good. The gym is literally the worst place to approach. Just go to a bar to do that or a coffee shop or literally anywhere is better than a gym

>>76507976
Bro same but mine won’t even talk to me. Been waiting for her to reach out since September 2023.
>>76507938 (OP)
we had this thread a week ago.
The last time I talked to a girl at the gym she told the staff and the staff told me to be polite when asking to use a machine.
We live in a life denying society where only men who are beautiful in a feminine sense and females themselves are visible. Men who aren’t femininely attractive are invincible.
Hyper masculine? Ogremode? BVLLmode? Smart? Talented? Doesn’t matter. Women don’t like you and the few women that may like you will never leave their house anyway.

It’s over. This society does not deserve to continue. It deserves to be destroyed/whither.

dont every approach; just converse if its natural. and if things progress naturally thats fine. just know that its .001% of the time. and if you're hot, then you probably already pulling gym grills

>>76508127
Thank you my friend I really needed to re-live the past two opportunities I wasted.
I don’t even think I want a woman now that I think about it. Stinky, messy, needs to be fed, would make noise when I don’t want it to, basically a baby. I can’t raise a baby and on top of raising this baby you have to win its heart every day or else it gets bored and leaves you an incel.
I think I’d rather be trvecel.

>>76508225
Boomer energy. I sometimes do this but it’s embarrassing especially when everyone can see you clearly checking someone out. I feel like those boomers who write Facebook messages on the pages of pornstars except they don’t know those are public messages being seen by everyone.

>>76508860
>>76508864
Blackpilltards are so fucking dumb lmao, I approach and talk to girls at the gym and its a nothingburger, men were made to hunt, if you wait for a girl to approach you she's already lost respect for ur low T beta male ass.
No wonder you fucking incels can't get a gf, you think way too much about the "repercussions" of X act instead of just doing it, embrace the rejections, talk to atleast 1 girl everyday so you can finally stop being scared of le women that are in 99% of cases way more shy than you.

>>76508925
>I approach and talk to girls at the gym
and how does it go?

>>76508950
I've had a few gym gfs, but I had to tank all the rejections aswell, it's a numbers game

>>76507947
I'M SICK OF WHORES AAAAAAAAAA

>>76508009
Yeah, why didn't he turn off the flash?
In Japan phones make a sound when the camera is used.

>>76508925
you have to try harder than that

The only woman I've seen at my gym is my old primary school P.E. teacher. Sometimes we fuck after. She's fit and everything but still like 56 or something so her skin is somewhat leathery.
Sometimes I'm ashamed after doing it.

>>76507938 (OP)
From who's Point Of View is this?

>>76507938 (OP)
Imagine lusting over women. Kys.

>>76508860
>Men who aren’t femininely attractive are invincible
holy shit, is that true? how unattractive must i become in order to gain invincibility?

>>76507938 (OP)
What the fuck are those tattoos? When will the tattoo meme end?

>>76507938 (OP)
The flash is clearly off in the first shot
0/10 hack writing

>>76509332
Gen Z? They might not have money to get a tattoo or they realize their grandparents also have tattoos.

>>76509209
Are you saying the CIA coerces random anons into committing the terrorist act of speaking with women?

>>76508069
I don't know what she was doing but I wanted to curl the barbell she was using.

>>76508925
>talk to atleast 1 girl everyday so you can finally stop being scared of le women that are in 99% of cases way more shy than you.
Except this isn't true. I tried, they laughed at me. Like, serious and loud laughter.

>>76507938 (OP)
>POV
So I'm watching some random dude take photos of my gym crush, and then she poses? I don't get it.

>>76509466
Yes

>>76510280
What does getting arrested for being a dumb nuisance nigger have to do with talking to women?

>>76510159
What did you say, and less importantly, what do you look like?

>>76510159
Keep going, you're better getting laughed at than just not doing anything at all, it's going to increase ur social skills.
Niggas in here think once they get the perfect face/body/height/job/car or whatever looksmaxing coping bullshit girls will just miraculously fall on outta the sky on their lap while they skipped the most important thing which is just talking to women.

>>76510384
JIDF working overtime with this one trying to make us hate women for arresting niggers instead of race mixing with them.

>>76510416
>it's going to increase ur social skills
Tips for actually having this happen instead of getting utterly demoralized?

>>76508155
>What do you even say to girls that pretty?
the same stuff you say to anyone else

>>76510159
>Except this isn't true. I tried, they laughed at me. Like, serious and loud laughter.
Far better than recoiling in disgust or anger. If you were really gross like a pajeet, they would be seriously angry you had the nerve to think they'd talk to you. If they're laughing they just see you as a harmless asexual goof. More hope from that position than from one of revulsion.

>>76510507
I don't talk to anyone

>>76508879
It's not embarassing to look at someone attractive for 2-3 seconds. The grills love it. Here is the kicker: women stare much longer at men they find attractiveand they have this weird insecure face while they do it. They are shameless.

Why would you talk to anyone at the gym? Sounds annoying.

>>76507938 (OP)
No one knows what POV means.

tfw didn't take a picture of my gym crush

>>76510507
What do i say to anyone else?

>>76507938 (OP)
>POV

>>76510435
Cuck.

>>76507938 (OP)
Looks like those white girls that fuck japanese asian guys in porn

>>76507947
fpbp + based gooner

I spoke to a girl while doing flyes and she walked too close so I brushed her ass

>ah lets see what fit has got going on today
>come on
>first thread is another thread of guys whining and crying about not getting any women like the other dozen or more threads like this a day
>thread also full of misogyny, racism, and other hate being spewed while ignoring maybe this is why they don't get any women
ah, another great day on fit.

>>76510841
pls be my gf

>>76510668
>hey, looking good
>then just walk away

>>76510159
>they laughed at me. Like, serious and loud laughter
that's how it went with my ex wife when we first met
but i was a bluepilled retard that continued to pursue her relentlessly, eventually we got together and then got married. few years later i found her cheating on me

>>76510461
i just go in expecting the rejection, its fulfills my soul when it happens so I just keep goin

>>76509209
>talking to girls is so unusual to /fit/ they think its bait when someone mentions it
grim

If you approach women at the gym you are for sure retarded. It is one of the worst places I can think of. The spotlight effect is going to be MAXIMUM. The girl is going to feel like the entire gym is watching your interaction. And if you get BTFO you are going to have to continually see this chick at the gym for possibly years to come.

Approaching women is cool and you should be doing it but just literally anywhere other than your gym. Go to a fucking bar like a normal non-autistic man.

>>76508399
Just get a young girlfriend then? Not sure why you have to be alone.

>>76510761
Gonna need to see some videos to back up this claim anon

>>76511454
>Go to a fucking bar like a normal non-autistic man.
What if I'm already at the rack with a bar and all? I don't lift with machines.

>>76510758
You wish rabbi.

>>76511986
Jews don't work on Saturdays, dumbass. It's literally Shabbat.

i actively try to avoid talking to people at the gym and somehow it manages to happen constantly

>>76510516
>>76510668
yeah well......
start doing that or something

>>76507938 (OP)
It's impossible nowadays, almost all girls either have headphones or come with their boyfriends

>>76512041
Shabbat is just about over on the east coast. It's been over in Israel for a few hours.
Can't discount shabbos goyim either.

>>76512041
It's just an expression. They don't work on any of the days.
>>76512497
>discount
Careful. You're gonna bring more of them in.

>>76507938 (OP)
How do I land a goth gf like that

>>76510280
Good thing this happened in Britain cause American cops would've shot them, or tried to arrest them, failed (cause they're women) and then shot them

>>76507938 (OP)
One girl talked to me once 9 years ago but I think I sperged out, can't really remember.
I was laughing at something on kc and she said something to me.

>>76514008
kc as in kraut chan?

>>76507938 (OP)
If I wear anime shirts women approach me at the gym and comment on them. Other than that I only talk to other dudes because talking to women is generally a waste of time

Don't just approach women in the gym to chat, that's fucking weird. Work out, leave and get on with your day.

a mewtu girl was setting up right next to me. i was to scared to talk to her.
Another day some gnome power gilf chatted me up and showed me how to rdl proper. was super nice

>>76508127
>there's someone out there that likes you
No there isn't.

>>76507976
Look, hookers exist and are available. Once you get experience with women via renting them than you can look for a girl worth marrying.

The impossible is finding a quality woman, don't die a virgin because they don't exist

>>76508127
My problem is I don't know how to cold approach girls I think like me, I just let them approach me. What do I even say? "H-hey"? Then what after that? I'm too autistic to come up with natural conversational topics on my own. I typically don't go for girls who expect me to lead every part of communicating or spit game, as if they're worth impressing.

>>76514088
Yeah.

>>76508860
>tfq too pretty for invincibility

>>76507976
>moved on after she finally decided I was too retarded to ever be more than friends

sounds like it was only a matter of time until you started browsing 4chan.

>>76514102
are the women into anime actual weebs? are they crazy? are they sluts? what are they?

this new generation has no idea how rare that was in back in my day, not to sound like a boomer but holy shit.