Thread 76614232

>constantly eating out or ordering food at McDonalds, Dominos and asian restaurants (kills macros)
>constantly doing activities with each other like going to cinemas, parks, museums, zoos, visiting other cities etc. (kills time management)
>constantly fucking and since she is the submissive part I do most of the moving, which leaves me exhausted because I get really tired after cumming (kills motivation)
girlsfriends have to be the biggest gains goblins there are, after having a full-time job

>>76614232 (OP)
I'm so lonely, bros.

>>76614235
OP here, obviously my post is meant to be humorous and tongue-in-cheek in a way, but there's also genuine downsides to it. I know what it's like to be KHHV, so I know the other side at there are upsides to it. From the top of my head
I genuinely do have less time for myself.
My expenses easily doubled since I pay for when we go somewhere, eat out or go grocery shopping. At one point it even pissed me off because my bank account just would not go up, the months would go by and by but my (already low) money would stay the way it is.
She kinda gets on my nerves sometimes, when she asks me to do X,Y and Z. For example, after waking up she wants a back or foot massage. My KHHV past self would be like
>OMG that's so cute, no problem at all my dear!
but this shit is geniunely annoying. As someone who doesn't have a foot fetish and literally doesn't get anything out of it, just being borderline forced (because she just expects it) to massage her feet for 30 minutes every fucking day or rub her back for 20 minutes every day is just annoying at this point. Or that she is often stressed and worried because of uni and I have to listen to the same complaints and insecurities I already listened to 50 times. I guess I don't like having to deal with stuff I would never put on other people. I just keep shit to myself, because it is the decent thing to do.

>>76614232 (OP)
i'd accept those terms

>>76614232 (OP)
>>76614257
Sweet, more posts to validate my reclusiveness and avoidant attachment

>>76614232 (OP)
Just lift in the morning when you wake up and insist to your girl that she take effort into eating healthier. Worked for me.

it's well known that women are devils that will suck life force out of you
the only reason to put up with them is sex

>>76614257
what really hurts about being a lonely virgin is the inability to get out of it, I get that both sides have pluses and minuses, but what matters imo is feeling like you have a choice. Being alone would be sweeter if I knew I could get with a chick at any time if I wanted to, and likewise you know that you can leave your gf whenever if you get tired of her (unless you get married or have a kid, then it's trickier)

>>76614232 (OP)
this is why you should only do FWB arrangements. Only meet once or twice per week to fuck and then back work. Every time I've done that not only did I have more time but also the girl was always more submissive.

When you make a girl your gf suddenly she starts nagging and demanding things.

>>76614235
>ror he's such a roser, rmao

>>76614544
code?

>>76614414
>When you make a girl your gf suddenly she starts nagging and demanding things.
Yeah, she does not nag but she demands a lot of things. To be fair, they are small things (not a gold digger or anything), but they do add up. Two things annoy me.
1) The "I'm stressed!" talk
Whenever she starts with
>OMG anon I am so stressed about uni
I just think to myself
>Here we go again with this shit
because I heard it 20 times already. Does that make me a bad bf? The thing is, my credo is to just keep shit to myself as to not burden others. I would never not in a million years complain to my gf because I am stressed or sad or anything, I just keep this shit to myself.
2) The "could you..." command
She constantly asks me to do shit she is very perfectly capable of doing herself
>Could you turn the lights off?
>Could you bring me a glass of water?
>Could you check if the door is locked?
Mind you, all those things are a few steps away from her. She expects those things of me, she said if I do not do those things, small things, that means I do not care about here and can't be relied upon with big things. To me it just feels like I am a fucking sleeper agent or like that Bioshock scene where it turns out he is mindcontrolled with this command. Again, my issue: I would never and do never ask this shit herself. If we are both 5 steps away from the kitchen and I want a glass I water, guess what. I get a fucking glass of water. I don't ask her to do it for me. Imagine if the roles were reversed and I (male) would tell her to do all those things for me.
>OMG sis you NEED to leave him!
would be posted 60 times.

Am I making sense or do you think I'm overreacting?

>>76614544
>he picks up all this weight but can't even pick up a girl!

>>76614232 (OP)
it's just a simple fact of life that women will make your life worse.
that's why all these guys with shit lives who think getting a gf will magically fix it are so retarded.
your life needs to be good enough that it can take the hit from adding a woman to it without the QoL dropping beneath an acceptable point.

>>76614574
>Does that make me a bad bf?
The fault is hers for constantly bringing that shit up instead of just fixing what is causing her the stress.
It's the main reason why none of my relationships lasted long and why I stopped bothering, because this shit gets on my nerves way too much.
They'll take some issue that could be resolved in 5 minutes, then bitch about it for 50 minutes, and the next day they do it again.
Because they honestly don't even care that much about the issue - they know they could just stop doing anything at all and merely exist in your bed, and they'd still be fine because you'd take care of everything (or so their assumption at least).
They just want an excuse to endlessly flap their lips. Even when they know they are getting on your nerves with it.

>>76614574
nta
>1) The "I'm stressed!" talk
If she has actual concerns then walk through them with her otherwise genuinely just tell her to stop complaining about the same things over and over, it doesn't change anything (this is why I'm not a big crier either)
>2) The "could you..." command
She's just attention whoring. She wants to feel important to you and she does that by making sure you're thinking about her or doing things relating to her. This is just another silly way to do that. She NEEDS your attention anon. /s

T28-625, now ask on /r/ like a normal fucking human OP and stop shitting my board up with this