Thread 76778864

>lifting 60kg is easy - talking to 60kg is impossible

why is it like this brehs?

>>76778864 (OP)
"I have a boyfriend."

>>76778864 (OP)
because you are a simp ass pussy

I despise this social culture that thinks every time someone makes eye contact with you, you want to fuck them.
Many zoomers can't get over the fact that people look around at other people in public and seem to think there's some kind of ulterior motive when it happens.

>>76779016
When I have 350 mg of caffeine in my blood I will instinctively turn around if I feel somebody entering the room during my rest times.

>>76778864 (OP)
Because you're narcissistic and can't deal with the chance of being shot down in public.

Get this: Normal men don't care. They just shrug and go for the next chick.

>take tyrosine
>alpha gpc
>zone out and stare
>caught myself looking not at a girl but she'll stand where I'm zoning out and looks like i'm just dead staring at her
>probably look like ops webm to multiple girls just because I'm zoned out completely
I honestly don't give a shit anymore anyways.

If she notices me staring and she's so strong and independent, then why don't her little leggies work well enough to walk over and tell me she's interested?

>>76778864 (OP)
When I'm focusing on something, the part of my brain that manages where my eyes are looking turns off and when I snap out of it I'm almost always looking at the nearest moving object.

>>76778864 (OP)
Do we really do that?

>>76779148
Because she's looking for a man, not a girl. If you don't have the balls to approach a woman, then you're not getting to fuck her.

>>76779016
If anything it's all the soillennials in /mire/ who think every female within birdview is soaking wet when they walk by

>talking to 60kg is impossible
just start with something lighter, maybe talk to children first, if you didn't do it in childhood then it's over

>>76779224
Do you think Brad Pitt had to approach women when he was in his prime or did they walk up to him? You sound like a woman.

>>76779200
No the guy she wants is doing this. You? She does not register you as even being human more like an animal you might come across in the road being wary of its intent and hoping it continues on its way while she continues on hers.

because deep down, you know your life isn't interesting. that's why you don't have confidence to talk to girls. the point of courtship is to invite a woman to be a part of your life. lifting alone will never fix this.

>find women like this attractive
>then realize she's probably recorded this over and over with her camera man getting in the way of others to get the right angle
>then she goes home and uploads it and gets a high from all the attention she got
>goes out and does it again and again
>probably only goes to the gym for tiktok videos
>life revolves around social media and gratification from internet people
>you'd never have an actual relationship with her because her life revolves around making money on tiktok/twitter/isntagram/onlyfans
>lose all interest despite how pretty they are
Every time

>>76779318
>then check out her socials and confirm yes all she does is post about herself and showing off her ass in the gym to other men
Is it even possible for a woman to be attractive and not be a slut in the current age?

>>76779272
>start with something lighter

Anyone else noticed how the "zoomer stare" meme came out of nowhere and was the biggest thing for a week then immediately fell out of the common parlance?

>>76778864 (OP)
I said hello today to one of the gym girls who I think is cute. She gave me a genuine smile and said hello back.
The other day I was training there she sat next to me and gave me a smile, which I returned.
It's literally that easy boys. Don't rush. Don't be a sperg. It's just a simple greeting. Chill your shit.

>>76779334
>Is it even possible for a woman to be attractive and not be a slut in the current age?
Yes, but you'll never know about them because the hot non-sluts are married early and don't post themselves online. Basically the only way to meet a hot, young, virgin, nonslut is so know her father. Which is unironically the way it should be and was, but is now so repressed that to speak such things in public would get you cast out of it. So we're having to rediscover truth in seclusion like some kind of underground church.

>>76779313
God damn

>>76778864 (OP)
Bitches have these ridiculous oversized nigger headphones that you can hear the music blaring from from feet away and they wonder why nobody says hello

>>76778864 (OP)
I would look at her and say hello, if you know what I mean.

>>76779345
I dont follow social media trends so I dont know anything about "zoomer stares".
Maybe you should get off shittok too

>>76779171
No it doesnt

>>76779345
No, i didn't notice that thing you just made up.

>>76778864 (OP)
Because when you're tired, it's hard to think from your dick.

>>76779313
That's not true, i am fully aware how boring and empty my life is, there is nothing deep down about it.

>>76779368
>say hello to a girl
>she looks at me weird because she doesn't know me
any tips for non-ameritards? i barely even greet my neighbors in my small town, let alone some random people who happen to be in the same room as me

>>76778864 (OP)
>Guys will look at you like this blah blah blah
Was at a pub last weekend with a coworker and one of the waitresses was basically making me drool. Eventually she came up and went "Why do you keep staring?" Now, to be fair, I'm a few drinks in and I'm no genius at full cranial load. The only words that leave my mouth are "You're so damn beautiful", I repeat that until she kisses me, probably to shut me up. So now I can't go back to that pub

>>76779375
So I guess the way to know girls is to meet older men? kek, do I have to start playing in the local late evening football team

>>76779016
Zoomers primary mode of socialisation is via a screen. Approaching someone in person is threateningly intimate and signals you either want to fight them (bad) or fuck them (worse). Western society is morphing into Scandinavia, but with niggers. Sorry, that was a tautology.

>>76779397
>>76779401
WHY DOES NOBODY ELSE NOTICE
IM GONNA GO INSANE
AAAAAAAAAAHHHH

>>76779396
Yeah, I understand completely.

>>76779550
I'll tell you what works once its worked. The key, I think, is finding based fathers or even grandma's. Perhaps your idea is great, dunno.

>>76779298
Brad Pitt was a self-admitted virgin until 26. So yes.

>>76779540
Well where I'm from (the uk) it's rare to greet those around you.
But since living in Spain, where it's normal to greet almost everyone you meet I've gotten rid of the old habit. And now I greet almost everyone if I'm a little bitncurious about them.
Simply don't give a fuck bruv. That's the most important thing. Saying hello isn't weird and shouldn't be classed as such

>>76779629
saying hello to strangers has come out of fashion the world is growing colder

>>76779605
Virgin by choice or virgin by circumstance? Very important distinction.

>>76778864 (OP)
Yeah I'm thinking sex. Anyways, I don't think that it's worth the risk of getting rejected and having to look at her every single day unless I change the time where I go to the gym or even changing gyms. It's basically risking having to change my entire schedule and getting humiliated.

>>76779272
Based progressive overload Chad. I'm currently approaching obese women, but I aiming to start roiding soon so I can approach a morbidly obese one at some point.

>>76779105
This, ever since I started taking horse tranquilizers regularly lots of people have thought I was staring at them, but in reality I'm not staring at anything, I can barely see, it's a miracle that I'm even standing

>>76779375
>tfw have been in love with an extremely hot chick since she was 15 (legal in my country) and she's about to turn 18 and I still haven't approached her
It's so over.

>>76779345
Yeah millennials are mentally ill and never grow up so their attention span is even more fucked than zoomers and gen a

>>76779016
Prolonged eye contact or looking at someone is a sign of general interest. It's very uncommon for the average person to look at another person with intent and not want anything to do with them. You're correct that that doesn't inherently mean sexual interest. But if it comes from the opposite sex, and you're not making a spectacle of yourself, it pretty much guarantees that they can stand to look at you without feeling disgust.

>>76779684
For (you) maybe.
But I refuse it. Become the warmth the world needs right now.

>>76778864 (OP)
Shes jewish and proud at the gym

>>76779832
im personally tired of receiving micro rejections everytime i try to be polite so nah

I started dating after several years and I had blissfully forgotten how horrible it is with women.

>crave for intimacy
>get girl
>have segs
>she gets clingy
>turns out she has the most horrible taste in everything
>don't want to break up out of politeness, but at least pussy is good
>start acting avoidant
>she turns miserable because of your passiveness
>finally she leaves and you're kinda sad, but relieved

This is why I literally live with gays. I sometimes wish I could bugger men too.

>>76779849
I think you're just homosexual just my two cents

>>76778864 (OP)
wait,...women are expecting us to talk to them?

>>76779564
Scandinavian here. You can't even Scandinavia right, you just turn it to a corporate hellhole with only the shit parts of our culture plastered over it.

T. >>76779849

>>76778864 (OP)
>"damn, this girl is taking up 4 benches and a set of 45 bumper plates to hip thrust 95# and superset it with 15 minutes of instagram scrolling"
it's a stare of contempt/disgust 99/100 times

>>76779853
I kinda tried (kissed a man once) but it was disgusting. There's a saying in Finland that every man has at least considered suicide, faggotry and joining the Foreign Legion and I've done it all.

>>76779831
interest != wanting to fuck somebody
I look at a lot of people just because they look cool

>>76779861
I used to hate the hip thrusts ladies because they'd do this shit at the same time occupying every single place where I could build my bench with safeties so I'd have to use one of those cheap pre-mounted benches where you can't attach safeties or adjust stuff. Was either that, or waiting right next to them because if I turned my back for a second, another lady would take her place immediately after she left and I'd have to wait another 15 minutes. That's why I started to get there before 5 AM to be the first to start using the space and equipments. If I ever get back into lifting, which will probably happen in the next few months, I'll have to start going to bed way earlier to train before the sun rises.

>>76779016
idk about you lad but when I look at a woman at the gym all I think about is FUCKING them

>>76779334
Holy shit. What a fat cow.

>60 kg
yeah, not a chubby chaser

>>76778864 (OP)
What do you even say after hello? I can't talk to people unless they talk to me as I've noticed that saying "Hello" and waiting for them to say something after replying just makes me the weirdo. I am self-aware enough to know I'm bothering people, which seems to be 100% of the time.
I am out of my depth here. I want to be normal but it feels like fate for me to be alone.

>>76780009
You stole my post. Give it back.

>>76778864 (OP)
Don’t talk to women.

>>76779334
>>76778864 (OP)
shes average as hell when shes not posing with long hair but her physique is pretty good

>>76780110
actually im certain now based on how different her face looks like on the tiktoks that she had a shitload done

>>76778864 (OP)
It's not that it's hard to talk to women, the issue is that 99% of them only want yo to talk to them so they can reject you to validate themselves that you would want them if they desired so. It's easy to walk up, introduce yourself and ask for her socials, but it only serves to feed their egos 99% of the time.

>>76780131
even so much as a gaze achieves a similar effect.
completely ignore them

>>76779396
I understand the first part but not the second would you elaborate?

>>76779016
I look around at everyone. I like to see what others are lifting, what brand shoes they are wearing, man or woman. Whatever, sue me

>>76779368
>The other day I was training there she sat next to me and gave me a smile, which I returned.
Okay, and then what happened?

>>76779313
But neither is theirs. There is nothing interesting about life anymore. It's all banalized by monetization and vacated of intrigue and mystery by the internet.
Basically this>>76779318 >>76779334
but it goes deeper. Nearly everyone just seems like a performative puppet programmed to only respond to other puppets. You need to desire to reproduce the conditions of the banality or you're ostracised.

>>76779848
Weak will. It shouldn't tire you out to receive what you mischaracterise as micro rejections. If you want people to be polite and say g'day you've got to be willing to do it yourself. Otherwise you are the problem and deserve the rope.
Yes, decency or death.

>>76779849
See you're doing it wrong. Women are for children.

>>76780097
>Hello
Hi
>How's your day going?
Well thanks (if they seem like they're not opposed to having a chat and you don't feel like you're being creepy then,
>Up to anything interesting?

Maybe? Idk I'm terminal myself