Thread 76789178

>Sunday
Another weekend another drink anon, how has your weekend been?

I'm sick so my weekend has sucked. Back to the Future is back in theaters for its 40th anniversary and I was gonna go see it but I just feel like shit. Maybe I'll try an easy workout at home later but idk. Business as usual, otherwise

i hate being in a long distance relationship so much it's unreal lads

Cuba libre please.

I'm so fucking socially retarded. Holy fuck. Holy fuck. There can't be anything good ahead of me because of how retarded I am. Holy fuck.

Haven't gone outside since arriving home from a friday night run.
Binge watched halloween movies and youtube.
30k€ saved but can't afford a house.
Found a lump on my hand.

So not great not terrible.

Another week has passed with nothing achieved beyond meeting my basic needs and cleaning up after myself. I'm so fucking fatigued bros

Mixed bag of feels.

Lifting is going reasonably well, making steady progress on most lifts and recovering nicely.
However, bad news on the body composition side of things. I checked and I'm about 25%, as I suspected, however, a big chunk of it is visceral fat, like 4x the ammount that's considered healthy. This means I might have to start my scheduled cut/weightloss. Lots of things to work on diet and general eating habits.
Professionaly speaking, there's interesting stuff coming up, career opportunities and a higher income might be in the not so distant future.
Overall I'd say october ended on a higher note than it started. Can't complaint.

Na beer please! Sober for two years soon! Anyways
>32 yo khv
>loose skin from dropping 190lbs
>crave love but scared of anyone seeing me with a shirt off
Is it over for me? I feel like i doomed myself with being a fat retarded alcoholic in my 20s. I dont know what to do with my life now

Friday was shit, I fucked up at work and lost a day's progress. Then I blew my diet and ate like 4k calories when my target was 1200. Didn't work out either even though that was the schedule.
Yesterday I fasted all day, did my normal workout fasted, had 100g protein at the end, and today I feel way better.

Working out is so good at resolving emotional distress it's crazy.

Now I'm eating my chicken and I feel great.

>>76789178 (OP)
I admit it, I still struggle with what people think of me. My sense of validation? Turned externally. Here I am concerned this pool cleaner who smokes weed all day doesn't like me and is better than me. He's a friend of a friend so I see him at everything, but don't want to be his friend.

>>76789518
Post body

>>76789531
no I look like a wax candle thats melting lol

>>76789533
Post body

>>76789537
body

>>76789542
Yeah, no one will ever love you.

>>76789549
my mom and my dogs love me :)

>>76789554
I love you...

>>76789211
yea that shit sucks
skype, facetime, or whatever helps

>>76789570
you cant afford me pal

I'm dead average at everything, total loser but the weird thing is i stopped caring about it a few years ago and now i just sincerely laugh at how average and pathetic my life is.
Somehow i feel much better after accepting that i'll never be anything more than what i am now. There's no more pressure. Just working and waiting to see how i die.

>>76789178 (OP)
>Halloween weekend
>Wife got too drunk off of cider and whiskey
>Didn't get to finger her asshole
What a waste

>>76789178 (OP)
>down 1.5lbs this week
Great.
>balls hurt for no known reason
Grim. And my health insurance doesn't kick in for another month.

I figured it was from a seatbelt-related injury but the other symptoms from that have all cleared up.

Just water

Was supposed to go out to a underground metal show and bar crawl friday night for Halloween but my left foot started to feel pain probably from the run I did the day before. Also it was raining hard and gusty as hell so I just stayed in and drank while watching The Crow
Feel like shit for not going out but I'm going on a Scuba Diving trip to Mexico next month and seeing Nine Inch Nails in January so at least I have shit to look forward to. Also met a qt blonde with a great ass so hopefully that will pan out to something.

>>76789178 (OP)
https://fortune.com/2025/10/30/jerome-powell-ai-bubble-jobs-unemployment-crisis-interest-rates/

>Bro, just find a job
>Bro, just go work X. They're always hiring
SHUT THE FUCK UP
YOU HAVEN'T LOOKED WITHIN THE PAST YEAR AND IT'S FUCKING OBVIOUS

>>76789178 (OP)
Non alcoholic beer please or my probation lady will be pissed
Weekend was boring the weather sucked and I spent the entire time on 4chan. I miss drinking so much

>>76789850
once the AI bubble bursts were gonna be in a far worse situation

>>76789334
What did you do?

>>76789703
Sometimes my balls hurt when I crank my hog too often or too violently. Maybe its that?

>>76789935
Maybe? I guess if they were inflamed or something by the injury and I didn't stop I could have extended the problem.

>>76789749
Your life sounds like how my life used to be 20 years ago. I'm jealous

I had two interviews this week after getting stood up for one last week. Hopefully I'll be able to beat the end of year job slump.

>>76789178 (OP)
It was pretty good. The bars were packed, but all the normie casuals come to the bar for Halloween, so they were a bit lame. I imagine this is how devout Christians feel during Christmas and Easter Mass. I still had fun though.

I've really been hitting it off with this one girl that I met a few weeks ago. We've been texting on and off the entire weekend. She's super cute, has a great personality, and is really into me. Is this what becoming a normalfag is like? I'm scared.

In terms of lifting, my lifts have stalled for a while due to my cutting, but I managed to get under 180 pounds for the first time since high school. I'm down about 70 pounds since I first started working out in February, most of it coming in the past three months.

It is over..........

I think I'll be okay if I never find a gf I'll just fuck prostitutes. Guitar going well. Drug free for a few days which is interesting on its own. Diet going well, although drinking a little too much OJ but that's okay I need the vitamin C and sugars, helps with my sobriety. I think I'm going to quit alcohol forever though, it's such a shitty drug and makes me fat. I'd rather do benzos and weed or phenibut in social situations.

>>76791876
I want to sex a goth girl

I hope to come back here in december and tell you all I've been sober the whole month.

>>76791917
God speed dude.

>>76789178 (OP)
any recc?
felt great honestly, able to full PPL a week after doing Full Body workout for 4 month.

Work is great too, but eh. Ill keep working hard till next year

I hope all anon in this bar have a great day.

>daylight savings hits
>woke up an hour earlier than normal
>instead of going back to sleep I got out of bed and did a quick arm workout before showering and getting ready for work
>even had extra time to make myself a cup of coffee so I don’t have to drink the horrible office coffee
Feels good man. I hope I can keep doing this.

How do I become a normie. I don't want to be a sperg anymore.

>>76792585
You don't sadly

>>76789178 (OP)
Halloween was comfy - out with the wife and kids and friends, enjoying the neighborhood. Saturday was easy-mode, just watching kids' sports. Sunday I had sex with the missus, which was nice because it's usually a little busy and the kids cockblock me on weekends.

I think, bros, I know this is weird, but I think I made it?

I don't watch porn. I don't use social networks. The circle of people I interact with is very limited. I don't watch the news and still depressed. Does anyone have any advice? I have no problem interacting with people, I just don't like it and avoid it as much as possible. I stopped masturbating 3 months ago, but I don't feel any change.

>>76792975
Try the opposite of everything you just listed.

>>76792975
All those are good things anon. Sadly life is just depressing sometimes. Do you have a job?

>>76789178 (OP)
Absolutely terrible. Messed it up with a girl I had genuine feelings for permanently. Gonna take a while to get over her.

>>76793012
What did you do?

>>76793006
I have a job and it is one of the things that keeps me going in life. I've never really had a good opinion of myself or that I'm smart just for some reason I never feel good when interacting with people. Every time I come home from work I sit in the dark for an hour just to reset my thoughts and emotions...I feel like I've been hit by a truck. I honestly don't hate other people, I just don't know why I always feel so bad.

>>76793026
She said she wasn't interested and I had second thoughts about being friends with her. Because of that she blocked me and said we weren't friends to begin with even though I've known her for half a decade. Kinda sucks considering I don't really have any friends

>>76793032
You just sound like an introvert, I'm the same. The best way I heard it described was that an extrovert at a party gets energised by conversation. While and introvert gets depleted by the conversations. It isn't about liking people or anything. It is just how our brains are wired. Some Jewish drugs probably exist to help but I'd rather not.

>>76793041
How did you mess it up if she said she wasn't interested?

>>76793051
I dunno. I feel like I shouldn't have told her that I was interested at all and just kept being friends with her because having 1 friend, even if I have feelings for them, is better than total isolation which is what I'm feeling now.

>>76793032
Here's my own experience and my own reasoning for my own feelings. Maybe you will relate:

It currently seems that I have been left behind and at 30 I am starting to feel my age and see all the opportunities that have passed and all the others that will never come to be (owning a house for example). I look back and wonder if I had done X thing over Y if things would be different yet laugh and think I'd probably be exactly where I am today. I feel that I am reaching a breaking point where in the foreseeable future I will be going 100% into investing in what I want for myself instead of what is socially determined success. Either I make it my way or I am comfortable enough with the idea I will die (suicide) trying.

Take from that as you will or call me a faggot.

>>76793054
Nah, friends are gay.

>>76793054
What were you going to do, hover uselessly until she was feeling low and needed a self esteem boost from your dick someday?

She was right, you were never her friend, and now you've wasted how many years on a girl that wasn't interested? Time to pick yourself up and move on with life.

Protip to live by for the future: girls aren't friends until you're locked down in a relationship.

>>76789178 (OP)
Had a situationship with a girl I fell for. She ended things on the day of my college graduation because I was taking things too seriously in our last date by getting her a treat to cheer her up after she told me she was having a shitty day at work. I'm so fucking done with date. I'm just gonna focus on lifting and learning guitar now

>>76789594
she's finally visiting me in a few weeks, but it's been like two months since we've seen each other
i can't wait but also we've been fighting due to work stress and constantly being apart and on different schedules

I had sex this weekend.

I realize why the girl in class keeps to herself, she's 17 years old.

>>76794080
HOW?

>>76789178 (OP)
I don’t even know where to start I’m at the point my problems seem so dumb like I’m in a spot where shit sucks but I can’t even bitch and moan because it’s not THAT bad. Everything could be so much worse I could be in a 3rd world country missing legs with a mother who prostitutes herself to put food on the table
>still working deadend job making min wage
Hate it. I’m just not who and where I want to be in life. It’s really really fucked up but I want to do a military contract and get disability to supplement my paycheck when out. That’s not the main goal with that, the main goals are
>get new skillset (diesel mechanic)
>get sent to work in another state/country
>make new friends
>benefits
>lore so I can be a cool uncle
The idea would be get out of military at 35, get job doing same kind of work, advance within company or job hop until I find one I can stay with for life, dump disability pay into stock portfolio when I can
And I don’t know if that’s actually gonna happen
I try to ask what my ideal life is and I’m unsure. I THINK it would be
>own land
>grow food raise goats have chickens
>catch fish from own private pond hunt deer
>spend days working on the land, fixing up cars I like
>MAYBE HOPEFULLY meet a wife


>life so far
Pretty bland with some neat experiences that have become stories and most are just dumb and not worth sharing. Hook ups and such. What have I done with my life. My only real motive right now is to improve so I can be a good uncle, like more of an older brother than an uncle to that kid. The guy they call when they fuck up and don’t want my sister&BIL to find out but still need help, gives life advice guides them in ways their parents can’t etc

>>76793055
I feel like I am mostly the same as you, except I'm about to turn 33.
it's painful to think that I'll never have my own wife and children, but I can at least take solace in the fact that my children won't have to suffer existence.
>I feel that I am reaching a breaking point where in the foreseeable future I will be going 100% into investing in what I want for myself instead of what is socially determined success.
after coming to terms with what I stated above, it's freeing to not have the stress of worrying about a mortgage, marriage, children's health, etc and that I can worry only about things that matter to me, like getting back in shape, saving money and travelling.

>>76789178 (OP)
I've been doing pushups daily again along with trumpet practice, it's nice.
Though my mind is so cluttered that I lose count when doing pushups all the time, it's no big deal because I always end up doing a few more than I set out to do, just to be sure.
I also need to apply for a job but I have little education and feel embarrassed about all the minimum wage stuff, I feel like I should have done better in life.

>>76794080
HOW SEX WOMAN?

>>76794832
Stop talking about joining the military and do it pussy

>>76795101
You’re right I’m just scared man. Not scared of basic and the whole strictness of it all scared of doing it at this age and what it means in terms of my time. Which is retarded because
>waiting/right now
Going literally no where will be 35 with nothing to show for it in the same position
>join
Will have the lore will have the skills and benefits and be in a much better position in life by the time I’m 35. Will actually have some financial comfort (not a total retard, if I have skills I can get money). Will be able to actually date and enjoy life outside a job rather than Ethan depend on a job to merely continue existing

>>76795113
So stop talking about it and do it.

>>76795113
>>76795101
And by lore I literally just mean
>actually did SOMETHING accomplished something beyond working retail and getting the occasional easy hookup

>>76789178 (OP)
>normally don’t get seasonal depression people always talk about just have a weird feel
>FF end of 20s
>no longer smoke weed no longer have any friends no girlfriend all alone
>day light savings hits, skies get darker, only sunlight I get is an hour on my commute home
I get it now. In the past I either had a social life of some sort to distract myself or I was smoking weed to override and cope with the shit feel


Why don’t we do away with day lights savings? It’s retarded. Most people lose an hour due to this shit. I feel horrible. I wish I still enjoyed weed.

>>76795459
Welcome to the lonely club anon

>>76789178 (OP)
My cock is massive

>>76795459
Blue light therapy or just play bright video games when you get home. I don’t understand you morning types, darkness is stress free

>>76794840
>>76793055
>>76793032
iktf
stay strong brothers

>>76789178 (OP)
I had a meltdown at work today.
Manager started like 5 months ago, not my boss has no authority over me I could get into a yelling match with him and he would have to jump through like 5 people to deliver the message to my boss if he chose to report me. He’s been an insufferable prick. He’s a 5’2” Dominican from New York like 40 something years old. He has THAT kind of personality, the napoleon complex mixed with retarded New York migrant.
>manlet
I don’t have anything against short men I was short until a random growth spurt at 19 so I get what it’s like. When I say manlet I specifically mean a short dude with a complex. For example, the guy who taught me how to get laid was 4’11” a proportionate technical dwarf. He was not a manlet he was a normal dude, a bro. Lifted, trained some combat sports, just a normal dude who didn’t have those insecurities and treat others like shit.
When he started I would say good morning and such in passing it got me scoffed at, teeth sucked at, and given dirty looks so I left him alone and avoided him. Few months ago I had to ask a manager to do something on a computer he was the only one around and using that computer and he replies
>im fucking busy can’t you see I’m doing something
Okay, this guy has attitude problems I’ll wait until I find a manager who isn’t a lunatic.
>today same shit happens but even worse attitude
>literally just turn and walk away from him
I went to a coworker and with a different manager and a floor lead nearby vented about it. Went on a whole almost yelling tirade. Said shit like “this stupid motherfucker has the people skills of a fly” “im sick of this lunatic talking to me like this I know damn well he’s not talking to people outside of work like this”


Company preaches management treating all employees, even if it’s not one under you, like a team and people. Like their handbook is 1/4th that principle. I’m sick of this asshole.

>>76796417
He’s a condescending asshole towards me and caught me on a 48 hour fast while underslept. He’s lucky I had the tact to walk away while he was bitching. And he wasn’t just saying one short sentence this time he was trying to genuinely dig into me over some stupid shit

>>76789178 (OP)
>BTC is dumping
>Nobody is hiring
I may very well not be here in this living realm by this time next year if I don't find a job soon

I'm actually losing my mind. Boss at work called me valueless the other week because I was laughing with my team rather than driving them like slaves. I've been so stressed and depressed that it's fried my brain and nervous system and it might never fully recover. It's going to be another Christmas alone and the girl I was into decided to just delete me from all her socials without a word out of the blue.

On the plus side my auto immune shit is under control so I can go back to lifting.

>>76796481
Here's the thing: Trump's is THE boomer president and every business owner thinks they can act like a piece of shit. Once orange man gone, the amount of sketchy bullshit that will be uncovered in every level of business will be surreal. Guarantee they are cutting corners, fudging numbers, and doing backroom shit they will inevitably bite them in the ass when the new guy gets in and realizes how fucked Trump made things.

>>76796506
Seek help libtard

>>76796513
Friendly reminder all of Biden's inflation was started because Trump was a retard on Covid.

>>76796537
>>76796513
>>76796506
Lol
>democrat in office
>the bad happening right now is actually from 4 years ago it’s that republicans fault, the good that’s going on right now is due to the current democratic president though
>republican in office
>the good right now is from 4 years ago when we had a democrat in office, all the bad is due to this republican though
You guys are so silly
Anyway his point was you randomly started talking about ORANGE MAN BAD out of nowhere. I hate the guy too but I’m not obsessed with him and talking about him nonstop. The original Akon you replied to was talking about a dickhead boss being a dickhead, and how even though he knows he’s in the right and his boss is wrong his bosses words still got to him. You began talking about Trump and sketchy business owners which may not be wrong but it’s not appropriate because it’s irrelevant.

>>76796687
>irrelevant
Meh. The point I was making was that business owners know they have a pass at doing whatever they want (like how several anons are complaining about jobs ITT). My point being is that this shit is gonna end terribly by 2030 so fuck the boss. She'll get hers soon.

I'll stop posting on this now.

sunday i worked out and then had lunch at home with my dad, his gf, grandma and a close friend, as my fiancee was in brasil with her female friends (we're getting married in february)
after lunch, me and my friend went shoplifting and acquired a shit ton of fancy booze. another friend I don't see often came as well to stay at my place while wife was at brasil and we also hung out. I shoplifted some more booze and called a dr friend of mine so he could give me a work note for yesterday to skip my job and we went to the beach to drink wine and play with a ball. I had an absolute fucking blast
I was kind of hungover today so I did some more drugs, drank some wine and smoked some weed I found in a cage at a square. it's high quality shit. currently at work waiting for my shift to be over so I can clean around the house so my wife is happy when she comes back and we can have sex and shit

life is so fucking stupidly good you don't even know it man

>>76796849
>as my fiancee was in brasil with her female friends

oh anon...

>>76796859
she can fuck all the nigger dick she wants for all I care if I get to do drugs and get drunk and not give a fuck about anything

but shes not doing that kind of shit, all she and her dumbass friends do is go shopping and pay for overpriced smoothies or drinks or whatever the fuck looks nice in instagram

My younger brother was just accepted into the military. This officially makes me the worst out of all my brothers and cousins. Can't hold a job, the only constant in my life is the gym.
>zogbot brother durrr
He got laid off, was in a car accident which totaled his vehicle, and can't find his trade work around here. His plan is to get into some fabrication field because of his trade and eventually military credentials. Happy for him, but it really just drives in how much of a loser I am.

>>76796859
Isn't that where they give you AIDS giving you the DVDA?

Sick and feeling pretty down today. I'm sure it'll get better soon, though.

>>76796849
Holy ESL, Batman.

Hot toddy please

Things at work are bad and going to get worse before they get better. I have spent every waking moment working at work and at home for 72 hours now and have barely achieved anything besides making an ass of myself.

I did build a really nice fore pit in my back yard and finished a small brick oven to go with it. Then I figured out that my HOA needs to give me permission to have it so now I just have a nice pile of bricks that needs a different permission slip to own. Unfortunately you can see my backyard from the main street because the HOA doesn't allow fences and my neighbors absolutely will rat me out the first chance they get because they're a bunch of uppity boomers. Haven't lifted in 4 weeks because of work stress and being sick.

This too will pass but it's really shitty right now

In odd times of the day, I think about that very tiny drop of saliva that Ennis used to prepare Jack Twist for his first sinning in Brokeback Mountain. I first saw that movie when I was much younger through unauthorized means, and even then, the agony, brutality, and masculine affection of the scene stuck with me. Hope everyone is doing well and ready to enjoy the upcoming week. Stay beautiful, everybody!

Texas has such a diversity of body types. Slim lean Latino men, smooth obese white men, rugged muscular athletes all around too. But I imagine they are very proud and protective of their sin.

This whole evening has been very frustrating. My obese heterosexual friend went to use the bathroom and he is having a difficult time. He needed me to mix a bottle of the UNICEF oral rehydration solution for him. It has been 45 minutes. Another 5 minutes and I will be calling his brother to come for him.

>>76797374
>democrat just got elected at governor of my state

Ah yes, the cherry on top

>>76792975
I am very worried about you, anon. You need softness. A sensitive touch given in brotherhood. I hope you recover soon. Stay beautiful, anon.

>Got rejected by a woman I caught feelings for weeks ago
>Barely even disappointed
tfw gf gets closer with every passing week. Gonna make ricotta and manicotti tomorrow

what do you mean you caught feelings for her? you make it sound like y'all barely spoke to each other

>>76797452
>A sensitive touch given in brotherhood.
Is this "soft" brotherhood at the fucking YCMA?

As a failed normie neet I still occasionally match with legitimately hot and well educated/high earning women on dating apps. But then I do nothing, not even messaging them, because I tell myself that I'm too fucked up and unemployed so I should just wait until hopefully someday I have my shit together. But the problem is they'll probably unmatch me or find someone else by then, so I think I'm ultimately just scared shitless to talk to women. Because dudes I know who actually get girls would probably still pursue while unemployed and not care much about rejection. So shit, yeah I'm just scared to message. Ofc being jobless reduces the possibility of anything serious happening, but simply leaving my hermit cave and talking to a girl would probably be healthy regardless of outcome. Damn

Based

So the girl I kinda like acted a bit foolish, stole some trainers and wore them to a probation meeting, idk how she is atm it's been a few days since she said she'd text me when she gets home.
I think she got recalled. Fuck I love her but not her acting without thinking

>>76789178 (OP)
My confidence is going up like crazy. I'm finally starting to actually believe I'm attractive
>Feel like I receive more positive looks and treatment wherever I go
>Female friends and aquintances are consistently trying to set me up with their single friends or just asking about my relationship status
>When I was running errands with my dad earlier he said he caught a girl staring at me hard
>Today some girl looked back at me like three times and kept smiling at me as I walked past
>On halloween night some girl wanted my number, I ended up making out with her later

Maybe I'm actually worthy of something. The next step is to actually try getting into dating fr and stop the endless cycle of loneliness. Losing weight and getting ripped was the best decision I've ever made

>>76798567
I can fix her!!

>>76798705
to be blunt, I really thought I could but she carries on doing dumb shit

>>76798808
Yeah, it's the most common relationship pattern. All I can say is try not to fall for it but when you fall in love it's difficult to stay rational.

>>76797452
>show us on the doll where he gave you the sensitive touch in brotherhood

>>76798808
Ha ha, my wife thought she could fix me, and here we are 15 years later and she's still complaining about stuff.

Joke's on her, though - I haven't even bothered trying to fix any of her bullshit. That's called ammunition if she ever demands we go to therapy together.

>>76789178 (OP)
The love of my life stopped talking to me because I tried to tell her not to get boosted.

>>76798594
Sounds kinda similar to me. 21, kissless, never had a gf, virgin. It doesn't bother me as much anymore, after fucking it up with a chick over the summer I kinda lost in interest in pursuing females.

However, I've been noticing more shawtys looking at me. I smiled and waved to one, she went back on her phone but I don't really care cus I wouldn't have done that a year ago.

Started small talk with girl I see at gym and college. I saw her at the gym with another guy. I intended on saying hi to her but after seeing that, I ignored her when I walked by, even when she was alone. Female classmates asking me for help too.

There will be one day, when I truly connect with a female. Each month brings me closer. My confidence builds.

>>76798856
You know that scene at the end of Dr. Strangelove where the guy rides the bomb all the way down?

Ride the bomb on its way down, Anon. But make sure you hop off before it hits bottom.

>crushing on a girl
>she's engaged to some dude from another country
>they're in an LDR
>have literally never dated in person (but met for trips and shit obviously)
>he's under work contract for SEVEN FUCKING YEARS
>have no plan to be together. haven't talked about where they want to live, having kids etc...
>both refusing to just end things and insist that they're happy together
>she keeps inviting me out every weekend, flirting, and texting me all day
>fiance doesn't mind apparently (assume he doesn't know about the flirting)
>keeps asking me for relationship advice because her heart isn't in the marriage
>trying to tell her the truth without seeming like I'm trying to split them up
>sits and talks to me for hours about how happy they are and how much she loves him and how he's the perfect boyfriend with no flaws
>glazing me 24/7 in the meantime

Jesus christ this is legit unbearable. I'm trying hard to get over it because it's just a crush, but she's just stringing me along and the obviously doomed relationship is giving me hope and fucking with my head. On the plus side I feel like my feelings are slowly fading because she's clearly a fucking retard

>>76798962
Literally right there with you brother. My girl is in an unhappy sexless relationship and won't end it. Women are conflict avoidant and don't want to be seen as transgressors, because approval from the tribe is all they have to survive. So she's just staying in a miserable place and not getting together even though she wants me and we keep fucking.

>>76798962
I once had a friend utter to me, in all seriousness, the sentence, "She cheated on me with her fiance."

Think about how stupid that sounds.

Listen, man, you're the side piece in this relationship, and it sounds like you're not even getting your dick wet in the deal. The second that dude comes into town, you're pushed aside and she goes to jump up and down on his dick. Furthermore, is this the kind of woman you really want to be with? The kind of woman that will just farm you for attention with the least investment possible?

Get wasted with her sometime soon, make a move, enjoy whatever you can get out of that (if it doesn't instantly burn the whole thing down) and move on. You're worth more than this.

>>76798994
That is not "your girl" if she's in a relationship with another guy.

>>76798962
Many years ago I met with an ex-gf with whom I had an on/off relationship for years. We always had a feeling that we were meant for each other and at some point we would eventtually end up togethet. At that time she was in a serious relationship with someone else. That day she told me she was having doubts and developing a crush for a third guy. Years later she married the guy she was with. Later told me that that day she was kinda expecting me to make a move but never did. Like, you're picking between two guys and want me to jump in?
Anyway, I don't know if there's a lesson to be learned from this. Perhaps it's useful to you, perhaps not. I' d say make a move on her. Whatever happens, you'll break that impass you're in.

>passed bar
>getting job
>gonna marry long term waifu
>friend getting married this weekend
>actually making progress in the gym for the first time in forever
feeling blessed lads

>>76796939
Why don't you join the military too anon

>>76798996
>>76799015
Thanks for the advice bros, but I'm just not that guy. I'm not the guy to break them up or make a move on a married woman. I just can't do it. I can get laid any time desu, but I genuinely like this girl. If she were just in a normal marriage I would have gotten over it months ago. I don't think there's really a solution other than to distance myself from her and just wait and see what happens.

>>76798962
wow, you're letting her use you like an emotional attention sponge without even getting a drip of pussy. she's probably more happy than ever
>sits and talks to me for hours
oh my. what the hell are you doing bro hahah. dude, take a step back and reevaluate the situation. the only "fucking retard" here is you lmao, she's playing your ass like a fiddle. here's the next step to recapture a shred of dignity: you straight up ask to meet and hook up or you cut her off. if she's down, you should fuck her and then cut her off. if not, you cut her off and I mean instantly. why? because like our other brother said, she is a huge red flag and would do the same to you down the line.

>>76798994
>my girl is in an unhappy sexless relationship with another man
fucking lol
>she wants me so bad bro I know it!
I'm sorry but I really can't help but laugh. I was gonna write something like I did above but I'll just let you enjoy the ride haha

>>76799070
>what the hell are you doing bro
idk i mean maybe he likes talking to her? are these threads really full of cringe faggot dudebros?

>>76799070
Mate, all the good women are taken. There's a reason why some women aren't taken, probably because they suck.

>>76799130
You need to be manipulating young women to fall in love with you not whatever this shit is

>>76799130
>There's a reason why some women aren't taken, probably because they suck.
It applies the same to both genders. 30 year old skinnyfat guys who play vidya and earn under 100k will be like "man, all the good women are taken." Yeah, so too are all the good men taken by age 30.

Mom told me point blank that had she known what I'd be, she wouldn't have had me.

>>76799130
>all the good women are taken, therefore I gotta be the biggest limp-wrist simpy faggot ever and talk to a girl in a relationship that won't give me sex
ok. keep us posted

>>76799141
I did, then she cut contact and got with somebody else. We got back in touch after years.

>>76799148
I AM fucking her.

>>76799157
You clearly didn't do well enough lmao splitting her attention with some other guy doesn't qualify for what I'm talking about

>>76799163
Thanks anon, that's what I needed to hear. I'm going to do better.

>>76799157
you're too stupid to see why you are being played hard by the girl but clearly you're defensive and proud of getting some sex so all the power to you

>>76799034
Can't. Harpy mother ruined my life with a therapy diagnosis. No waivers available.

>>76799143
In my 20's my dad went on a multi-year trauma dumping binge. I learned a lot about where I'd come from and, more importantly, why he'd treated me the way he did my whole life until then. A lot of what he said was tone deaf and selfish. At the time he regretted a lot of his life, and to be fair he had fucked up a lot. It was impossible for him to backpedal from a lot of the stupid shit he said that basically added up to that he wouldn't have made the choices that resulted in my having been born. I understood what he was going through and just rolled my eyes behind his back, but I also won't forget how badly he went about it.

I think about that now that I have my own kids. I'm basically the same age now as when he went through that phase. Everything in his life is hunky-dory now, and if I called him out on any of it he'd deny all of it, but I'll never forget what a dumbass thing all of that was for him to lay on me. So my kids, hopefully, don't get any of it. It'll important to tell them my story someday so they understand where they come from, but not as a litany of regrets.

Your mom probably has her own shit going on. Plus, she is partially to blame for who you are now. Rise above what she's told you and understand where it comes from. Good chance you don't have the full story of what's going on with her, too - even when he was in full trauma-dump mode my father withheld details that were crucial to the narrative he was spinning.

But also, don't ever forget what she said. You don't have to hold it against her, just remember that she was capable of saying it to you. A person that could say that to a child was never a "good" parent in the first place, and the value of what she says now must be filtered through the lens of that and the situation she's in now.

Life is boring

>>76799476
You're boring. Gonna need you to fix that ASAP.

>>76799610
Bore this
*kills you*

>>76799614
>survives
Hey guys, wanna hear a crazy story?
>suddenly life was interesting

>>76799208
Don't they literally take trannies lmao are you full schizo? I just don't believe that they'd rule someone out atp just for having some teenage depression

there has to be more to life than women and their bullshit, r-right?

>>76799757
Pete Hegseth specifically made it so you can't get a waiver for schizophrenia. That said, schizo related, not outright schizo. False diagnosis, doesn't matter in the end. Can't get a waiver. Gonna be a seasonal worker or on welfare till I die.

Gave up on painting
Dropped out of college (twice)
Gave up on poetry
Gave up on politics
I've been unemployed for the past 3 months
Never had sex
All at the age of 27

I honestly can't believe how badly I failed at life. I still live in the small town I grew up in and I have no idea where to go.

I've been trying to read more recently but I can't. I realized that I can't fucking commit and focus on anything. I've been doom scrolling for the past 4 hours. What can I even hope to do about this? I've completely failed at life.

>>76799086
>>76799102
kek

>>76800098
The US Army is always hiring, son!

>>76800369
Zogbot here. You are exactly what they are looking for and they will buy you 4 years and financial stability while you figure it out. If you're still unsure at 4 years at least you'll have money in your pocket and some cool stories to tell people.

>>76789178 (OP)
Starting drinking my own pee

>>76789377
Why don't u put 30k down on a big ass house rofl u can afford a lot of houses dumbass learn to leverage debt and pay yourself through ownership instead of the rentjew u can prob get a 400k baller house and fk bitches in it while u pay it off and by pay it off I mean literlalyjl transmute ur money to equity... What were you gonna save 400k rofl no so whatever losses that u may incure will be pure profit

>>76799130
Fuck bad bitches or remain a fucking cuck retard waiting for a anime character to exist irl

>>76800369
>>76800418

I'm Bosnian...

>>76799157
If ur smashing ur cashing bruv if she is with a dude ur winning not him rofl smash and gas eat ass and move on brody nothing to do it what u want to be tied down to a retarded thot I took the last best bitch on the planet sorry gang

>>76800098
Hey don't worry big dog first off at 27 u can start a whole new life and do whatever the fuck u want. You don't have a kid. You don't have stds you don't have crazy girl drama and trust me bro women can be wormholes that literally shred and DESTROY your entire life ok so ur not doing that bad. The thing u need to do is just stop getting so down on your situation because it's low-key good

>>76800523
Bosnia doesnt have a military?

>>76796974
Today I felt better

>>76800523
Stop being yella, you goddamn commie. Walk in, give them a firm handshake, and serve your country.

>>76789178 (OP)
>"Hi welcome to BUSINESS COMPANY"
>Yes, I'm here for the 2:30pm
>"Do you know what it was for?"
>No. I'm meeting with X to discuss my resume.
>*Obvious stare of confusion* "Ok I'll just mark you as a general appointment"
>*Wait a minute or 2, meet X, and go into an office*
>"Hi, anon. I'm X. So I went over your resume and it says here that you're looking for work, right?"
>Yes, in the A, B, C fields
>"OK, so I'm a recruiter and it's my job to... blah blah blah... most of the people we work with are contract positions... blah blah blah... you do get benefits through us and the pay is through us but comes from the employer blah blah blah."
>Hey no offense to you, but this sounds way more complicated than it needs to be and I'm gonna head out.
>"Y-you sure?"
>100%
Why is this fucking clownworld so overly complicated for no goddamn reason? What the fuck happened to:
>Apply for job with resume. MAYBE IN PERSON!
>Get a call and/or email asking to come in and interview
>Go through 1, maybe 2 interviews
>Get job or don't get job and all is settled within 2 weeks tops

>>76800832
I should also specify that I received a phone call about a job they had. It was essentially a resume mill where they get your consent to use it to apply so they can make a sale to a company. It's not about finding a job you want to stay at forever, it's so they can keep milking fucking commission off of you with contract work.

>>76800789
Muslim gypsy commie to you sir

>>76800872
The red, white, and blue won't wait forever.

>>76797509
at least you're trying, which is more than I can say for myself. I asked a girl out over 2 years ago, she said no because she had a boyfriend, and I'm still reeling from it

>>76800832
This shit sucks so much. I applied for a few engineering adjacent jobs since I got laid off of my first job after college at the start of September and all the positions were temp to hire, had zero benefits and also paid lower than what I would've made if I didn't lose that job. At this point, I don't care; I just want the money and experience, but a few of the places said that based on what my previous job was, they're afraid that I'd leave or not stay in that position for long but if I could get something equivalent to my previous position, I wouldn't bother applying for these jobs.
The job hunt is so bleak, I just want something to get some sort of income at this point and it just feels impossible. At this point I just feel like I'm going to be stuck in something akin to extended adolescence forever. It already took me roughly 9 months to find that first job.

>>76801255
>9 months
How long were you there until they fired you?

>>76801265
Just under a month. They let me go because it required a security clearance and it would take several months to go through and for whatever reason my interim clearance was rejected.

I can’t help but stare at the ass of literally every woman I ever see in public. It doesn’t help that women are frequently buying thin material pants even for their work attire. Just today I saw some girl likely in her 20s on the train back from work standing and the thin light colored pants were up her crack so both asscheeks were perfectly shaped by the pants. I spent most of the ride repeatedly looking back to stare at her ass

I’m a mentally ill virgin and need psychological help

Gay men love me! Women not so much...