>>106198566
You're either a woman or a boomer because your dating advice is out-of-date, retarded and unrealistic to a frightening degree. Those are the only groups of people that give such horrible advice and die on that hill due to genuine stupidity, a lack of introspection and arrogance.
Dating never became a full-time job until very recently because there was a great deal of social cohesion and outlets to facilitate it in a very natural way for the vast majority of men and women. Shit din't just happen randomly, but it wasn't something you needed to dedicate hours upon hours to like I'm working at a fucking factory (literally). You just went out to a social spot with a crew or by yourself while looking presentable to meet similar people with similar interests and sooner or later, something happened if you got engaged with the community.
That's how dating more or less should work, but social media promotes the worship of fake, gay and surface-level appearances over actual emotional bonding and meaningless, casual sex over physical bonding has ruined that.
You can't tell me that things are normal and have always been this way when you have to do the equivalent of making a CV and portfolio to go on a date with a girl. That's not normal nor is that the level of work you should do to get a woman who is more than likely very basic, uncultured and can't do the most of the duties necessary for a woman to do for her kids, husband, family and community. Only a retard would debase themselves that much to be in a relationship with such a useless woman.