>>106276916 (OP)
phones were attached to homes and businesses, not people
so when calling a friend, you'd often end up saying, "hi, Mrs. Ymous, may I speak with Anon?" or "is Anon there?" instead of "sup, Anon"
people didn't expect constant connectivity
i had an answering machine, and if someone left me a message that wasn't urgent, i'd get back to them in a couple of days if i was busy
now people freak the fuck out of you don't respond in an hour
i had a psycho bitch i was talking to who flipped because i didn't respond to her within 90 minutes while i was eating dinner and watching Jeopardy!
during the summer, i'd leave the house on my bike or skateboard at 8 or 9am, and my mom would have no fucking idea where i was until i came home for lunch, and then i'd leave again and she'd have no idea where i was and no way to reach me until i came home for dinner
then it was usually everybody watching TV or a VHS cassette we rented instead of everybody staring at their own phone
in college, i called my mom once a week and usually spoke to my brother on the same line, too
i called my grandparents about once a month
my brother used email, but nobody else did, so those phone calls were the only time they heard from me
there were no dating apps
you dated people you met in real life
i had a freshman class with the girl who ended up being my college gf
in the second semester of our freshman year, we both had an 8am class and a 10am class, so we'd go to my apartment at 9am every day and fuck, then again after dinner
it was generally a better and more chill time
i can't wait for the Butlerian jihad