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>And that's down to how it is being marketed and presented by the companies behind it.
I think it's less a case of Matrix users not knowing about self hosting because of bad marketing, it's more that self hosting takes time, resources, some skill, some general upkeep, someone willing and able to do all that (not to mention other people trusting that someone to do it). For example, I know I should host my own Monero node, but I know it takes some setting up and an SSD dedicated to it, so I haven't gotten around to it. Plus there's the network effect - if you're a new user looking for a server to join and you don't have autism or a specific niche, you're most likely gonna join the one with the most users.
I agree with the other guy in that if you're on the matrix.org homeserver, then you're basically not serious about using Matrix, because that's not how it was intended to be used. Similar threads were going around when matrix.org introduced Cloudflare scans for uploaded media recently, complaining about "muh privacy" and whatnot, completely ignoring the point that any homeserver can set and enforce its own rules, without dictating them for the entire network.