>>17856540This is also why lesbians and gays are deeply different kinds of people. Lesbians are just women who are perfectly satisfied with orgasms derived from foreplay. Any woman who prefers (deep) penetration to fingers and tongue will be straight. Any woman who enjoys tongue and fingers as much or more is either femme bisexual (the unicorns) or masc bisexual (dyke lesbian).
It's not like you're attracted to a particular gender. You're attracted to a particular arrangement of organs. Your options are: penis/vagina, penis/ass, hand/genitals (including fingering), mouth/genitals (tongue/vagina, penis/mouth).