>>17872386>Take virgin girls for yourself as plunder either means slavery at best and r*pe at worstNeither of those are legal under Old Testament law. You cannot have sex with a slave; they must become a wife.
The passage in Deuteronomy says to make all the children, male and female. Do you think the male children are for sex too?
(Obviously that happens, but in the Old Testament all male-male sex is strictly forbidden with an automatic death penalty)
Your passage says nothing about sex and parallel orders are clearly not envisioning sex.
The guidelines for captives do say they can be married, but there's a waiting period, they cease to be slaves becoming full spouses with all spousal rights, and if there's a divorce they can go wherever they like. It's clearly treating them with maximum compassion under the circumstances. (They don't have to remain single and childless their whole lives which in that culture was seen as a terrible affliction, but neither can they be married right away and if they do they have to be treated the same as an Israelite would be)