>>17921670
>NTA but that feels pretty reductionist
It is reductionist, but it is most likely the truth. Even basic things like wiping your ass hinges on the paradigm of: done for pleasure or done to avoid displeasure. If you didn't feel good or feel bad why would you wipe your ass?
>We don't go to a concert to hear the final chord, we listen and dance to the music while it's being played
While motives behind action is a little more complex than merely chasing pleasure (or avoiding displeasure,) ultimately, that's what everything comes down to, regardless if you're conscious of it or not.