Thread 212207007

Has something like this happened to you?

>>212207007 (OP)
I’m sorry for your loss

>>212207007 (OP)
Let’s honor your friend
https://youtu.be/1kVxpsi1XQ4

God bless his soul. Amen.

>>212207007 (OP)
>2 suicides, one drug od, one farm accident and one just died in her sleep
yeah, 5 times. all before 20.

>>212207109
why did they kill themselves?

>>212207158
first one from extreme depression or something? he had it all, house, wife, kids at 20. he still felt empty inside and decided to fill the void with led.
second was a hash smoking buddy, he couldnt control it and turned total schizo, believed everyone was after him. more he smoked more schizo he got and he coped by smoking even more...

>>212207007 (OP)
yes

No. Me and friends all decided to stay young and healthy forever. We aren't going to die.

what friends?

>>212207007 (OP)
No because I abandoned all my childhood acquaintances

>>212207039
>>212207061
Thank you, it felt so bad seeing his parents today just spaced out from the shock. The death of close ones dont really set in until a while.
>>212207109
A friend of mine also committed suicide last year, we hadn't really talked since school, she was also seemingly doing very good in life.
>>212207678
You didn't have friends from your neighborhood as even as a child?

>>212207158
Living in a stable, prosperous, safe, clean, civilized and beautiful country was too much for them

>>212207716
this

>>212207412
>house, wife, kids at 20
yeah nah stop making shit up

>>212207635
>stomps clap
>snaps suspenders

>>212207007 (OP)
Yes, a few times

>>212207733
i dont remember

>>212207882
how is this weird? wife and kids has no age limit and housing is often given as inheritance, they got theirs because they where early on it and their grandparents gave it to them (probably for some payment) and they moved to an apartment instead. very common here.

>>212207007 (OP)
I have no childhood friends left because ive moved several times and never really kept up well.
I did have a friend that died of cancer I knew for nearly 8 years in my late teens/20s though

>>212207007 (OP)
My buddy from highschool climbed a parked train cart and electrocuted himself

>>212208698
you got more friends than you believe, its a man thing that one can catch up on the last conversation you had 5-10-20 years ago like it was yesterday. women will first have to go through the whole process of getting an update on relationships, kids, jobs etc first. you could reach out to an old mate and he would be yeah shure and be there for you if you needed to without any of that

>>212207007 (OP)
damn that sucks

>>212208784
This feels too common and seems to be hugely preventable. Why isn't?

>>212209105
He was going to smoke a joint on top of it with a view over the city

>>212207007 (OP)
train track accident?

>>212207775
it's the firstieland curse, they just can't into happiness

>>212207007 (OP)
I had only two and neither remained friends to adulthood.
So, no. If they had died I wouldn't hear about it.

>>212208059
>nepo babies
well no wonder he an herod. if you inherit you didn't beat the game

>>212207007 (OP)
Yeah... cancer and immune disorders were way above average occurence at my highschool. A lot of the survivors turned to hard drugs and either overdosed or burned off their personalities. My mom had a fatal heart attack three months ago immediately after asking me how many of my friends died before they hit 20.

The way I process grief worries my stepdad. He's afraid I'm going to pop. I have shitty nights when I cry a bit and drink too much when I really miss people, but for the most part, it's straight to acceptance of the things I couldn't change, and forgiving myself for the interventions I should have made.

>>212212417
I'm sorry to hear that. The way i cope with this is that they lived their lives, no matter how short and they'd want me to live mine and they'd be happy to see me doing the things i like and make a place for myself. We are gonna make it anon.

>>212207007 (OP)
I've had 2 die already at ages 21 and 24. One from an accident and the other from sudden organ failure. Made me rethink about life.

>>212209804
No but road accident yes
>>212208905
This, you think you're all different now and would be awkward but 10mins and it's like you're your old selves.

>>212207007 (OP)
Sorry for your loss anon
>>212207109
Grim
Sometimes I have a feeling that I should be dead but I'm not and ironically that brings me some happiness. The closer you are to death and people dying before you the more accepting you become of it

>>212207412
>he had it all, house, wife, kids at 20
damn

>>212207007 (OP)
How is this relevant to international discussion?
Is /int/ your blog?

>>212214947
I'm sorry about your mom, Kjetil.

>>212207007 (OP)
Did he die of exhaustion after screaming SAAAAR non stop for 20 years?

>>212207007 (OP)
Yeah, my friend recently hanged himself, it happens sometimes

>>212207007 (OP)
A friend who was Chinese killed himself from getting gaslighted by an Indian girl. This happened back in 2017.

>>212207109
>3/5
damn bro people svffer in norway

Mine was suicide, it worst than losing my granma/granpa/uncle etc. 1 year+ to fully cope

>A childhood friend
no, it hasn't

>>212207109
>>212207007 (OP)
KWAB

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>>212215222
>>212213615
>>212212417
KWAB 2

yes unfortunately, late 20's. didn't ask but presumably sewer side

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>>212216766
It's not our fault you're in Morocco.

>>212217016
when are you going to pop

>>212217030
Keep going with that bike pump, daddy, and I'll let you know ;3

>>212217397
>he doesn't blow his tires with his lungs
no wonder you're a sensitive lil nigga

>>212207007 (OP)
>Has something like this happened to you?

More times than I care to remember. I used to hang out with the wrong crowd as they say, a lot of my friends got into opiates and many of them are dead now. I did drugs back in the day but never that shit. Got my life together and am doing well now but a lot of my old friends died very young.

>>212217543
What can I say? My tongue's not nimble enough to work my way around the valve while pushing 200kPa of 25% THC cardamon-coffee vape clouds into a rubber donut.
Now, if you don't mind, please continue inflating my donut.

>>212207109
How can this happen in the first world.

I had a friend die from an OD almost a decade ago after I started college. Before that, I didn't take college so seriously and had decent grades, but it really changed my whole outlook on life.

i knew a guy who was killed by his father, knew one who killed himself, but none specially close
sorry for your loss bangladesh anon

>>212207007 (OP)
Same bro, 2 years ago at 23 too. Just looked at some pictures we took a few days prior in Italy today. Stay strong.