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>where would i even go
that is the question that everybody has to grapple with, isn't it? It seems like there is nowhere to go, everywhere is fucked up and you don't fit in anywhere, doesn't it.
So before you even need to face the challenge of talking to people, you need to even figure out where are people to talk to.
I suggest gatherings, groups or events for anything that is either directly connected to what you are interested in, or tangentially connected.
Obviously don't look in groups that are fundamentally opposite to your own values and interests.
>i can't. Not without external validation. If i get none i feel worthless
I didn't say be perfectly happy with yourself, in which case some external validation might be needed.
I said, like yourself.
As in despite your flaws, you see the good sides you posses and feel inside that you like yourself as a person.
>b-but other people
no anon, no. You aren't paying attention. This is your judgement we are talking about.
Liking yourself is about you judging yourself and feeling that you like yourself, even if you aren't perfect.
Currently what you are doing is:
>so what do you think about X
>well other people need to think X is good, if they don't then X is bad
>no, I don't care about other peoples opinion, what is you opinion, what do you think?
>well I think, what others think matte-...
>no anon, what do you, as a person think, don't look to others.
What is important, what is right, what is wrong, how do you live up to your own judgement, etc.
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