Thread 213895971

How do people in their 20s with no existing friends or acquaintances socialize on the weekend in your country?

>>213895971 (OP)
By making a cliche in high school and just inviting them over whenever. Total social retardation seems to be the name of the game of my generation and it genuinely pisses me off how adamant my friends happen to be when it comes to going out. Not even just clubbing or whatever, but just something as simple as going to see a local band.

A lot of that probably has to do with the fact that I switched over to a flip phone though, so I might be a bit more anxious with how I spent my time though

>>213895971 (OP)
>socialize
No such thing

inb4 no one replies because they're afk at 9 AM busy socializing with their friends and girl/boy-friends (wow shouldnt logically the ungendered version of this word be childfriend ?!)

>>213895971 (OP)
I don't
On weekends i drink beer, browse 4chan, listen to music, and play videogames all alone

you don't lol

>>213896031
>By making a cliche in high school and just inviting them over whenever.
so it won't be a problem that I'm 10 years older than the high schoolers I'm trying to befriend?

Join a group centered around a particular hobby or activity (like jogging, gaming, language study, etc) that meets regularly

>>213896061
buy them alcohol or weed or cigs in exchange for partying with you

>>213896088
dont you need friends in the 1st place to buy illegal weed... but other than that ok

>>213896061
Oop, that sounded a bit confusing. I meant making a clique in high school and not making any friends beyond that

>>213896115
Oh I forgot it's illegal in Poland. I guess you could get on dweb
If that's too complex then just buy them alcohol

>>213896073
idk after being bullied in primary school i've had extreme trust issues and even when in the same class for several years I barely connected on a surface level with other people. I'd just never go out of my way to do any more than what's necessary to get through the day
how do I make sure this wouldn't happen again

>>213896031
>cliche
clique

>>213895971 (OP)
Probably just drink alone or do drugs

>>213896147
Meet up once to check things out. If the people seem rude, you don't have to meet up with them again.

I now lament about being alone but a few years ago i'd dream about not having to deal with the stress of facing my social anxiety full on every day
maybe small moderation is the best way? but you need lots and lots practice to get at normie level

>>213896129
so that guy >>213896088 is trolling?

>>213896608
No, it's a good method. Try hanging out at your local high school and just offer to buy random kids alcohol
Should work ok

>>213896073
I've been focused on things that don't require other people but sure

>>213895971 (OP)
Humans are not meant to have friends or socialize by the time they reach their twenties, biologically speaking we are supposed to have a wife by that time and should be pumping her full of baby juices before her eggs dry up, and be spending time with the family in close-knit tribal societies. Socializing is only reserved for children to acquire core behavioral queues and build trust within the tribe. That's why so many people in their twenties are depressed with thyroid issues and norwooding because they failed to fulfill their only biological role

>>213897380
having a gf would be nice too, i think. What do you propose I do?

i don't know im in my 30's. i just stay in my apartment and do stuff like internet browsing, mobile gaming etc. i go out everyday and walk around for an hour and that's it. there is a girl we talk everyday but meet every 3-4 months. desu i've realized half of my friends were snakes back in high school days so i stayed away from people. maybe it was a mistake but i survive and eventually i'll die no matter what so who cares.

Yesterday when I was watching a clip of a YouTuber I like, I started imagining how it'd be like if we were friends. All the stuff we'd talk about on Livestream, off-screen etc.

>>213897887
never felt this way because I don't treat online people as real

>>213896031
Clubbing and concerts are soulless loud boxes for soulless retards like (you)
Im glad the new generations are less likely to engage in alcohol and mindless retard faggot shit like this

>>213900417
>Im glad the new generations are less likely to engage in alcohol and mindless retard faggot shit like this
idk in my neighborhood the new generations partake in riding electric scooters without helmet 40 km/h

i made friends though hobbies, other than that goodluck.

also lost contact with childhood friends the last 2 years

you consume media slop? I consume media slop too lets talk about the media slop we consume that has absolutely no practical relevance to the real world and only exists to keep us servile

>>213897380
>queues
vpn off john

>>213900417
alcohol is a social cheat code

>>213895971 (OP)
get drunk in front of computer and talk to my friends on 4chan

>>213902190
are you making fun of 4channelers or normies

>>213895971 (OP)
I'm in my 30's and have never socialized.
Usually no idea what day of the week it is, I just sit at my computer, play games, watch streams, drink alcohol when I feel like it and eat junkfood.

>>213904320
and I pay for it

>>213896056
based

>>213904330
Thank you for your service, knegaranon.

>>213895971 (OP)
By posting on /int/, apparently

>>213897380
>and be spending time with the family in close-knit tribal societies.
i.e. socializing
Do you think people stopped having friends after getting a partner in the hunter-gatherer days? That's basically what happens today, but like you said, they spent time with close-knit tribes back then.

>>213900417
Yes we should all just spend the entire day inside our houses and not go out or talk to anyone. Every single second of every day should be spent doomscrolling on our phones until the heat death of the universe

>>213895971 (OP)
I took a friend to Ocean City (I live in Maryland) the other day. I used to have a group of friends who invited me out a lot, but I went through some pretty serious drug withdrawals and kind of just disappeared on them. I'm going out with a lesbian friend of mine today to watch a spooky movie, as she just broke up with her girlfriend and I'm about to go overseas. So, honestly it's a lot of sitting alone in my room playing vidya and watching films/television, punctuated by hanging out with people like once per month max.

>>213904996
Where are you headed
I'm wondering if I should just leave and start over somewhere else

>>213895971 (OP)
They don't

>>213905410
A Middle Eastern country for work.
>I'm wondering if I should just leave and start over somewhere else
You can do it anon. Nothing is stopping you. Choose life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0D4ekTODuA

>>213904189
Doesnt work on my machine

I like to join weekend /v/ streams

>>213900417
i agree with you in 99% of cases but if its an artist you really like live music is great with friends
but just "going out" to shitty clubs to listen to shitty music and buy overpriced drinks is shit

>>213896056
literally me

>>213904603
I go out and do plein air painting every weekend, something that's actually fun, rewarding and challenging all at the same time
not that a retarded normalfaggot like you would care