Repressing works. The feelings don't come back. It's actually very rare for the trans feelings to come back, and if you just stop thinking about wishing you were the opposite sex eventually the feelings go away forever

>>40075519 (OP)
Basically you just need to find another hobby. Most people who r transquestioning are just trans enthusiasts who r feel affinity to the subculture

>>40075754
Wait so you are telling me that if I want to succsesfully repress I have to abandon my affinity for the subculture? That sucks, I guess I'm going to have to start transitioning then

>>40075773
Obviously. Imagine trying to be straight edge when you follow nothing but blogs about 420 and listen to snoops digity dog on a 24 hr loop

>>40075519 (OP)
mine were never intermittent

>>40075785
>Obviously. Imagine trying to be straight edge when you follow nothing but blogs about 420 and listen to snoops digity dog on a 24 hr loop
Doesn't sound so hard to me...

>>40075519 (OP)
Goddess, I wish I knew 10 yrs ago, when I was looking at the express train whizzing by and calculating the time I need to jump on the rails which maximizes the chance I won't wake up and minimizes the chance of the train driver braking.

In Minecraft, of course.

>>40076257
>Performative suicidal ideation
lel

>>40076363
> Performative
Attempted suicide and using sh as your shell gets you in the ward, a botched job gets you in a wheelchair (worse than death). A painful method increases the risk of quitting. You get one chance and you want to be sure.

But yeah, I'm not the same girl I was a decade ago.
Fortunately.

>>40075519 (OP)
true

>>40075519 (OP)
>The feelings don't come back. It's actually very rare for the trans feelings to come back,
how many years until it goes away
>>40075785
yeah you have to throw away everything you want and then become an empty husk

>>40075754
eh pretty sure agp flares up every time you experience sexual attraction

>>40075519 (OP)
proof?

>>40077499
Its not a years thing it goes away when you let it go
>>40076257
this information wouldn't have helped you not feel depressed
>>40075791
If it's consistently on your mind then there is no point where you can repress which means repressing wouldn't work for you

>dude just torture yourself, it'll work eventually

>>40078036
The proof is the same as the proof that repressing doesn't work. We just have anecdotes about people that repressing doesn't work, but I've personally seen people post online about having gender issues throughout their life and then look at their post history and years later they never transitioned and live a normal life and are a father and living happy life. My evidence is as good as other people's evidence. There's no studies on this kinda stuff, but all that I'm saying is that it happens. A lot.

>>40078043
letting go and just dissociating as a man until i start crying later because iwnbaw

>>40078102
lmao

>>40078415
:)

>>40075519 (OP)
For some people, repressing works. For other people, it doesn't. It just depends on the individual and life circumstances.

>>40078434
repressing doesn't work
you're here in bad faith
you want to harm trans people

>>40078455
It absolutely doesn't work for everyone for sure. But I'm tired of the narrative that it can never work. It cant. I want to give hope to people who cannot transition for whatever reason. It's worked for me, but only after lots of exploration and hardship. But for others, it works without much issue.
>>40078437
Yes exactly.

>>40078455
It absolutely doesn't work for everyone for sure. But I'm tired of the narrative that it can never work. It cant. I want to give hope to people who cannot transition for whatever reason. It's worked for me, but only after lots of exploration and hardship. But for others, it works without much issue.
>>40078437
Yes exactly.

>>40078510
prove that it can with real examples

>>40075519 (OP)
no. i just need someone to do this to me

>>40075519 (OP)
it works until it doesnt

>>40078513
Exceedingly difficult because you need someone who posted somewhere about gender issues a long time ago, and didnt delete their account and still post using the same account, and most people are embarrassed and delte their account, or just move on and live life and you never get follow ups. But they are out there. In fact you often hear about people's parents who tell them that they used to wish they were a boy or girl, and then they never end up transitioning. I cant find the one I've personally seen that was 8 years ago who is not a father and has a family but take any post about this on non trans spaces https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/i3xr1a/i_wish_i_was_born_a_girl/
The op usually deletes their account, but then you have the people in the comments, some of which say they feel exactly the same way, and if you look at recent history, they are not trans. they "grew out of it" for lack of better phrase. all that is to say, it absolutely does happen. lots of people that dont obess about their gender and live life as their birth sex

>>40078775
LOL
you're so disingenuous, fuck off gincel

>>40078781
Look I dont want to debate you out of deeply held beliefs but your not open minded to the possibility that you are wrong. If someone is having great emotional pain and are distressed over not being a man everyday transition can bring relief and I would encourage that person to seek professional help and maybe transition. I know trans people can feel under attack and identiies are ofren invalidated by bigots, but this isnt that. The truth is sometimes transition isnt right for some people. I personally have transitioned, detransitioned more than once and slowly began to accept and like some aspects of my birth sex. I still experience dysphoria sometimes, and yet it is lessened and I am doing much better. Transition was an important time for me to grow and change as a person and I dont regret it at all. Transition wasn't right for me, but that doesn't mean that i can't be right for other people.

>>40078938
ohhhhhhhh, I get it now LOL see you at 50 john!

>>40075519 (OP)
>>40075754
It is literally genetic. You are talking bullshit.
Genes identified as associated with transsexuality:
https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/104/2/390/5104458
https://www.psychiatria-danubina.com/UserDocsImages/pdf/dnb_vol35_noSuppl%202/dnb_vol35_noSuppl%202_179.pdf

>>40075519 (OP)

>>40078025
I think a lot of people of the reddit variety have very slight AGP and then Lee chasing the stimulus, but it’s obviously not their only fetish. But transbian philosophy is that if you have even an inkling of AGP it means you were born with a neurological defect and it needs to be picked at like a scab because it’s what’s responsible for all the problems in your life

>>40079214
idk seems like it's at the center of sexuality not a side thing
leaving society and never dealing with anything sexual could permanently fix it though

>>40079283
I mean I have an AGP fetish but it’s like not my main one and if I goon too much to AGP stuff it starts to feel boring so I switch to something else.

But I’ve never been able to hold interest in one singular thing like most autistics can and burn out quick so idk.

>>40079315
idk i was born with it so it always takes over but i don't think fetishes are like a random bag of things they're always linked to each other

>>40079004
that’s for real trans people. I’m just a confused agp man

>>40079171

>>40079004
I dont think you know what that means anon

>>40075519 (OP)
This only works for a while, I can forget about it for a few months. How can I get myself to stop remembering and forget forever

>>40075519 (OP)
>repping works
>the feelings dont come back
>spends spare time on a board with trannies all day
yawn this has been done before

>>40080815
That's the hard one anon. Either you forget and move on in your life, and if you cant forget maybe it's fine if every once in awhil you remember, but just keep going on. Or you will have to try to transition and really experience it yourself and decide if it's really right for you or if you want to go back

Treating dysphoria as "you have it or you don't" is retarded and it's very obviously a matter of degree. You should transition if you literally cannot function, otherwise repping is probably better for your long term happiness unless you have a very supportive environment and/or can pass

>>40080851
Well I am a bi male and a detrooner so I'm part of the community wherever you like it or not

>>40080873
>otherwise repping is probably better for your long term happiness unless you have a very supportive environment
maybe true in my case but i'm not happy i'm just kinda existing and hoping it gets better

>>40080874
how is life as a detrooner do u still have tits

>>40080874
LMAO

>>40081613
life is ok. and yes i sorta do but they are very small and dont really look like real boobs
>>40081724
whats funny anon

there's a fine line between mastery of your desires, and repressing them. i learned that the hard way