>>40189105 (OP)
I have difficulty losing weight :(
but when I have done it, my success was due to
first time: calorie counting using myfitnesspal, eating at least 70 grams of protein per day while being in deficit, lots of cardio, not being too stressed out. went from 185 to 135 in seven months or so. stopped losing weight when i got a job :(
second time: was a NEET and was basically completely alone for a month before I would run out of money and have to work again. my diet was 80% potatoes, chickpeas and whole wheat pasta I made by hand (i was going through a thing at the time with making pasta), plus cheap veg like cabbage and frozen spinach and canned tomatoes and then weeds growing in my backyard like horseradish and nettles and dandelion greens. I used very minimal cooking oil this whole time. The chickpeas and potatoes and whole wheat pasta were very filling and if I spent most of the day occupying my mind playing video games or reading I also wouldn't get as hungry. I sustained eating probably 800-1100 calories per day with minimal movement and lost 17 pounds that month before I started working again and could no longer lose weight. I think stress plays a huge role in my weight loss.
cook whole foods, don't have snacks around to eat conveniently. dont drink alcohol. use minimal oil in cooking. eat enough protein but not too much meat or nuts bc they are very calorie dense. keep your mind occupied with things that you like to think about and get absorbed in to ward off hunger. physical exercise can help when you have a full life, but if you have an empty and solitary life, maybe just do absorbing things instead and eat little.