Thread 40598871

> Be me
> 21 y/o boymoder
> spent 5 ish years in and out of relationships where i got groomed in one way or another
> unblocked one of my closest friends because of one of them
> he gives me a second chance to be friends again
> cried and asked if he can be my owner for like a year or so; so i don't fall into another bad relationship/ find myself better
> he agrees
> ffw a few days, he breaks up with his short relationship bc they moved fast
> gets drunk; and i do too for fun
> he keeps mumbling "you're so prettyyyy" and "i love you...platonically"
> i neutrally retort via "haha yea its the makeup" and "me too, platonically ofc"
> his friends keep joking about how i'm probably the most compatible with him compared to his other relationships/ friends
> states "he can't date for a year but doesn't mean i can't talk for the year :3"

IM SO COOKED DAWGGGGGGGG
IM SO TIRED OF RELATIONSHIPS BUT LIKE
I DON'T WANT TO SAY NO TO HIM BC HE'S SUCH A CLOSE FRIEND AAAAAAAAAAA

just date him?

>>40598951
=~=
i don't wanna date againnnnnn i want my time after spending 5 years working with someone elses' schedule ;w;

>>40600117
Living life is working with other people and dealing with obstacles. That's what gives life depth.

>>40598871 (OP)
set up a healthy boundary to not date because it seems like you two will fuck everything up again

>>40598871 (OP)
>I DON'T WANT TO SAY NO TO HIM BC HE'S SUCH A CLOSE FRIEND
dating someone because you dont want to reject them sounds like both people will end up hurt

>>40598871 (OP)
anon... i understand you, and im sorry..
you need to tell him that you trusted him to NOT do this and that you don't see him the same way.
tell him, that these 'jokes' make you feel uncomfortable and you want him to stop

and letting someone be your owner is only a good idea when you have extreme trust in them, so maybe don't let this guy manipulate you

>I DON'T WANT TO SAY NO BC HE'S SUCH A CLOSE FRIEND
say no
oh and don't let him this he can 'fix' you.
if he doesn't stop cut him off