Thread 40639834

I'm gay (not openly tho), and no man has ever found me attractive or wanted anything with me, only a few girls during high school. What does that mean? I'll never have a boyfriend?

I want one.

>>40639834 (OP)
You aren't a woman you need to put effort into finding a boyfriend

>>40639834 (OP)
you probably pass as an attractive straight guy, so gay men arent hitting on you because they do not have signs of you being at least bi

>>40639843
I see.

>>40639849
What are some ways that I can attract gay men? What do they like/want? I'm a virgin bottom btw.

>>40639834 (OP)
I'm gay dude, but no idea what you look like. If you are at least average looking, I can guarantee other gay men will want to date you. You just have to put yourself out there. You can't expect them to come to you. Especially if you're not out. It's not usual for guys to comment on other guys looks.

>>40639883
>What are some ways that I can attract gay men? What do they like/want? I'm a virgin bottom btw.
Do you want to date or do you want to hookup? Well, either way guys are very visual. Good hygiene, grooming, and taking care of your body go a long way.

>>40639834 (OP)
depends on what kind of guy youre looking for. you need to consider both ways; there are dudes who are the nicest most considerate boyfriends ever but only if their partner is more feminine. likewise there are some guys out there who only wanna date buff hairy dudes. so what are u? just a normal guy, a twink, etc. in your ideal relationship what roles would u ideally want u and ur bf to have

>>40639909
>>40639949
I shower, cut my hair and shave regularly. I'm just a fatty.

Is there still hope?

>>40639978
>in your ideal relationship what roles would u ideally want u and ur bf to have

Idk. I guess we would just go out, do things together and fuck each other's brains out.

I'm a normal guy.

>>40639993
physique wise i meant. if ur a normal guy, you can expect to date other normal guys. those idealized femboy + masculine guy relationships only happen because each side is a relative extreme; one is hyper feminine while the other is hyper masculine.

>>40639979
Put down the fork and lift a little then

>>40640002
>those idealized femboy + masculine guy relationships only happen because each side is a relative extreme; one is hyper feminine while the other is hyper masculine.

That's interesting, I noticed that too. Thanks anon

>>40640014
I'll try

>>40639834 (OP)
>(not openly tho)
that's your problem. gay men are maintaining a respectful distance because they either can't tell you're gay or they don't wanna bother you in your closet.