Thread 40697364

they don't really love us this much, do they?

>>40697364 (OP)
My wife is pretty great, I wouldnt say shes chasery but she could see through my repper facade from day 1. She helped me come to terms with things and has supported me every step of the way thru my transition

>>40697378
To be honest, I don't know schwat chaser means other than people who appreciate us.

>>40697399
whaat the attention whore trying to bait chasers on this site into simpimg for her by playing the innocent hsts is pro fetishistic creep? who could have possibly seen this coming

>>40697476
schwat?
HSTS isn't real

>>40697364 (OP)
im going on a second date tomorrow with a cis girl who sought me out, i hope it goes well t. twinkhon

>>40698071
from the bottom of my heart I wish you an incredible date
twinkhons deserve the world and more

>>40697364 (OP)
some of us do...

>>40697364 (OP)
this is what kinda scares me about transbians
they still have the chauvanist world view where the only thing that matters in this world is obtaining pussy and thats the only metric of a happy/good life
and it gets to the point where their entire worldview revolves around pussy and they'd sacrifice anything to obtain it to the detriment of them or the people around them

>>40698108
Love me

>>40698108
know that you are seen and appreciated (don't mind the trip change I moved to my laptop in bed)

>>40697476
I simp for her because she's beautiful not because she trooned for one reason or another

>>40697364 (OP)
halimede is a larping polyhon

>>40697364 (OP)
i thought we were over this. they dont exist.

>>40697364 (OP)
i believe i could have been happy with the cisles i met briefly before i met my wife; but not fulfilled; she was consumed with her career and writing her book

i could tell she doesnt love like i do

no one does; only my wife can fully accept what i am made to give; and return the same intensity; she even surprises me still with how wonderful she can love me

I knew a trans girl who only dated boys until a mentally unstable slightly older(~10 years) trans woman locked her down. The older one says she'll kill herself if the younger one ever breaks up with her, but they both seem happy on social media.

This guilting of cis lesbians seems similarly manipulative.

>>40697364 (OP)
Same sentiment with soulful moidavatars tbqh
Just let us love you
Don't mistake having no heterosexuality in your bones for it not existing at all

>>40698445
Statistics never lie

>>40698341
i wanna fond a love like yours someday but i worry that i may not have as good of luck

>>40698445
i hate that i am drawn to and apart of culture like this. i dont know how to explain why i would feel most comfortable around ppl who are so manipulative and deranged and mentally ill as to do stuff like this, yet i am, i want to not live because my brain is so drawn to things that hurt and traumatize me, i feel like i am in hell and suicide is the only out. im sorry for posting deranged stupid shit and being like this.

>>40698103
we love you mwahnon you have a very pure heart

>>40697364 (OP)
i dont think so, but they do help keep us safe and vice versa.
tonight i made out with a guy and then rendezvoused with the girls after.
i just got home its 3am. which is an early night for me, but its tuesday so w/e.
i got a dudes number and a pretty girls number.
and i also met a really cool ftm dude that i hope i see around again cause we got along really well and he's dope.

idk, i have a pretty cool spot, and everyone keeps me safe except for when i go to the cars with the boys lol

oh.. and i forgot to say
HE TOLD ME HE WAS STRAIGHT!

THEY ALL TELL ME THEYRE STRAIGHT!
LMFAO

>>40698624
you pronably wont

if you want to find something deep like this you must be focused on love nearly all the time but without getting too depressed to be charming enough to have a chance at getting close with someone

i was at the brink of sui over my previous love when i met my wife last year; but i was feeling a little better because that local sysles who spent 2023 newyears eve with me gave me some hope

you must find confidence and personality; and equally importantly you must be seen and be unrelentingly authentic always; learn to conversate well and try to meet people somewhere most people wouldnt try; social mmo games are a good option; but its also very important you have an activity to share together right away upfront - in our case my (then future) wife came to pso2 with me on day 2 of us talking; there i helped her get startef with the beginning basics of the game and then as soonnas she had it unlocked i brought her to my massive Temple of Ellaphae creative space (3d build mode on a private island); and she saw the love and dedication i hold for my goddess and faith in every detail of the months of work i had put into that over the previous year; we spent lots of time there in our first days and weeks together; just chatting and learning about our very different lives

because i am so open about my life here she already knew alot about me; but i had to start from scratch with her; but even despite that i could feel she was different from every other person i had ever met; she knew alot of the pain and desperation i felt even though she herself had the fortune of being engaged to a very cute transgirl the same age as her; by day 5 she broke up with her

you must have something to share and do together and a place to be alone together online

you must be as wonderful and engaging to be around as you can manage; you must stand out (if you intend to meet someone here become a trip and post alot; be open; maybe someones out there)

>>40699084
I don't think gays would be into a brapper and tits like yours

>>40698624
statistically you will not find mutual Limerence like i did; but you can probably find someone who can truly live you if you can become wonderful enough to pull someone's heart to you; the brighter you can shine the greater chance you will have

be charming and gentle and believe in the kind of live you wish to find; believe in it with everything you are and live for it every moment

you are probably not as wild as i am but you can still find something special with a little luck and a persistent effort to be wonderful; exude an aura of warmth and understanding and show people what your soul has to give


i really wish you luck in finding what is right for you

nothing is better than really being lived in the way that you love; if that really aligns; incredible happiness and events are possible

bless you )*

>>40697364 (OP)
cisf are also really skilled at putting up facades btw. never get your hopes up for them, especially if they appear overtly positive like this. speaking from experience because it kind of reminds me of myself.

>>40699265
yeh but i still consider myself a feminized boy even though im a tranny but w/e.
he was really nice too and was lighting me up like a christmas tree. and i barely have a sex drive. and he was doing it. lol he took me somewhere else lol.
out of all the guys this summer, he did the best at lighting me up so far. like im considering hooking up with him if i see more of him.
he wanted me to do more tonight, but i just met him.. and i dont play for free with strangers.. but god.. i just want to snuggle with him more and make out with him.
he loved my tits too and he was really good at sucking and licking them.

i hate my life. im getting worked up thinking about this dude :/

my love for trans women will never be ethical and it makes me sad

>>40699084
Well I want to be

>>40699084
What is so funny about this?
I'm technically a bi or pan man, but say I'm straight because I'm only attracted to people with enough feminine characteristics. If I only consider people I have seen in real life, I have only been attracted to women. Calling myself bi seems like stealing valour and also inviting men to waste their time flirting with me.

"Straight" is just the most practical label. I have never felt marginalized. I don't know the queer struggle. If I loved and married a cis woman who transitioned into being a man after we were married, then I might stay with him and identify as bi.

I'm sure there are plenty of men like me.

>>40699005
and MWAHnon love you angel
>>40699682
why not?

>>40701419
I will never understand them fully in a way that is safe for them

>>40701471
don't worry angel
we've been through worse than just not being understood

i wish i had a cisf chaser gf to dress me up and turn me into a real girl fuck my boymoder life

>>40701507
then why do you all keep posting about how only t4t is safe

>>40697364 (OP)
i had a date with a cisf chaser and we talked about sexuality and i mentioned that i don't have much sex drive and im maybe asexual. she was amazed and said that's really surprising for somebody with a penis

>>40703299
by not talking to cis women I avoid lots of stupid conversations like this

>>40703213
the people saying only t4t is safe are rapehons looking for freshly cracked eggs. Most experienced trannies know to avoid them like the ppague

>>40699293
I am the anti-Kassandra

>>40697399
desu I differentiate chasers from "someone who appreciate us" by the incredibly objectifying way they act, viewing trans women as a tool to fufill a sexual fetish rather than seeing trans women as a legitimate partner.

that and the tendency to pressure trans women to not get surgery is creep-behaviour

>>40703375
problem with t4t is that so many trans women are committed to being very strange and trans culture has gotten stranger over time. Last time I tried to do t4t everyone was just so socially awkward and divorced from reality

>>40703546
yeah t4t is just a cope for autistic men who couldn't get a gf in high-school

okay so i'm pretty much cooked if i'm cis and autistic and want ac4at?

>>40697364 (OP)
i sometimes see people bitch about halimede and call her a bad person, but i feel like i’ve never seen anything wrong she’s done. anyone know why some people don’t like her?

>>40704212
tf is ac4at
sounds like a bomb

>>40704533
shes a zionist

>>40704700
autistic4autistic c4t

>>40704212
if you make the first move without being too sexual or seeming chaser-y (usually, not hard for cis f even when autistic ime, since many lesbian women are hyper cautious about being creepy) then YOU WILL GET A TRANS GF

but you DO have to MAKE A MOVE
trans girls are afraid of cis f and think they don't deserve her or are acting like a man by pursuing her, so the onus is on you

example of an easy to pull off move is what my cis gf did to me after we had first hit it off hanging out a couple of times. she invited me over to watch movies at her place, sat next to me, put a blanket over both of us, then took my hand under the blanket and we cuddled and made out.

just be normal about sex and always think about trans girl's dysphoria and ask her about what's okay and what's not. if you do that and things don't work out, it's probably not your fault, idk. I think it was ridiculously easy for my cis gf to bag me. she made me comfortable and made me feel special.
you can do it, even (or especially) with autism.

>>40697364 (OP)
Putting cis women on a pedestal like this is so creepy.

i was looking for this one thread i made like 2-3 years ago generic chaserpining (the photo was magritte's lovers) and someone left the most heartfelt reciprocation i've ever seen. it was beautiful and i'm still thinking about it.
my point is, male chasers are capable of being the same. "capable" does a lot of heavy lifting here though, most *people* arent that thoughtful and romantic so it tracks

>>40704753
I want that I need that

>>40697364 (OP)
cis women don't even like us to begin with

>>40704739
ah damn, that sucks :/ was hoping it was something stupid

Wasn’t there a cis f chasergen for this sorta stuff?

>>40706011
there was! its not always around though

>>40704865
thank you nona, this makes me feel a bit better. though it's hard to shake off the feeling I'm being a creepy lesbian.

>>40704984
I think you
mean

normalized

>>40706011
not around anymore because it was 95% larping and 5% actual cisf chasers

>>40706011
yeah but it's just tranners daydreaming

>>40703599
i had a gf in highschool; for a brief time; i probably could have had another more successful one but i wrote an impassioned letter to her when she didnt know me well yet; my feelings are just too strong for most people; and on a more practical level i was just too feminine for any girls to be interested in me; i had longer hair than many of them and was endlessly teased for how feminine i looked and how i spoke and how i walked and ran and screamed; everything

my longest school relationship was with my first love; which lasted almost the whole school year; that experience made me who i am more than anything else aside from my goddess; but it didnt make me trans; it helped me discover my purpose of love; and helped bring me to my goddess later in life

>>40703546
unfortunate for you i guess

i hope you find hope and positivity someday; i hope someone shows you what its like to love freely

>>40697364 (OP)
trusting foids is always a bad idea